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Kathy Mattingly
December 5, 2005
Connie, Roland, Lindsey and Sam,
It has been over a year now that our precious Megan has been gone. Our family will never be the same. Megan was such a wonderful and special young women. She made such an impact on all of us. All we can do now is know... some day we will be with her again in Heaven with our Heavenly Father.
We all miss her so much.
Jody King
December 8, 2004
Dear Reader Family,
I nowhat you must be going through at this time. Megan was practly the only person that i looked up to she was the perfect girl in my and my family's eyes. We will miss her greatly i also wanted to let you no that if you ever need any thing or some one to talk to you will always have the King family there.
love always,
Jody A. King
Karissa Lewis
November 25, 2004
I met Megan in the 4th grade and she didn't like me at all. She even went as far as telling the teacher that I stole her spelling book because she had lost hers. But for some reason the very next year in the 5th grade we became best friends and have been ever since.
Senior year was when we became really close. She was the only friend that I had that no matter how many times she had heard my problems she would still sit there and listen to me and help me get through them. It takes a special person to put their problems to the side for someone else. But that's just how she was and her friends were everything to her and she would do anything for them. She was so silly and always knew how to make us laugh and we found fun in everything we did, no matter how boring it was. I remember every day when I came into the office 3rd period when we were office aides together she would tell me how beautiful I was and it ment so much for somebody as perfect as she was to say that to me. Megan was the kind of person that everyone wanted to be. She was this amazing person that cared so much about people in general and she had such great morals and love for God, why wouldn't you want to be like her. It's so hard to not ask why because she was PERFECT, and there is so much bad in the world why would he take someone that would make the world a better place. The only thing that makes me feel better is that it happened for a reason and we'll know when the time comes. I also know that she's in Heaven watching over me and when ever I'm scared or feeling down I can think of her and I immediately feel better. I will never forget her and when I go to make a decision I always think to myself, what would Megan do, and whatever choice I go with I feel that it was the right one. My prayers are with Connie, Roland, Lindsey, Sam, and Lee, and the rest of the family and friends that were touched by Megan.
Emily Clark Howell
November 22, 2004
Reader family,
I have been looking through old pictures from high school. I never realized how many I had of megan and me. She was everyone's friend. She was there for everyone. I was 4 years older then her, but she was still someone i consider a good friend. I remember how much she wanted Amber to have friends when she first came to evangel. MEgan was always doing her gymnastics. We would be the chearleaders, when ours didnt come to the guys game, and we would send megan and joy and cara out to do back handsprings and stuff.I knew how crazy those 3 were together(cara, megan and joy), but i didn't remember until I was watching our video from the basketball retreat my senior year. I was laughig so hard! She was awesome. It was truly a blessing knowing megan! I can only hope to be able to raise my kids someday, as you have. I feel so blessed to have been in contact with your family. Mr Reader, you are truly a strong man . It touched me so much, at the service, when you were the one comforting friends. You have always been a strong, loving man towards everyone, and always having good/kind words to say. I continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. I love you guys!
Camille Hoagland
November 20, 2004
The word ‘la maezi’ in Chinese means “spicy sister”. I was thinking Megan could definitely be classified as a ‘spicy sister’. Not only was Megan not afraid to tell you how it was or stand tall to be her unique self, but she definitely spiced up the world around her! She made life “taste” better; she intensified it. I feel super privileged not only to have known Megan, but to have her as my friend. Megan was such a special individual, a ‘spicy sister’, and she was also a part of an awesome unit, the Reader family. Just as I will always love Megan, I love you guys, the Reader family, BIG time. I am praying for you all.
Joel Casse
November 20, 2004
Megan had such an effect on anyone she came in contact with. It was impossible to be around Megan and be in a bad mood. Her big beautiful smile brightened the day of anyone who was near. Right now in heaven her smile is as bright as ever. I feel so priveledged to have known Megan and been one of her closest friends. Its awesome to think of how great of a friend Megan truely has been to me. She was always there if I needed someone to talk to, or just needed somebody to listen. I feel so lucky to have known Megan.
What was amazing about Megan was her strong beleif in Christ. I unfortuatly have never been as close to God as I should be. But now Im going to do everything I can in order to see Megans beautiful smile in heaven.
My prayers are with all of Megans family, and with Lee.
Kyle Scroggin
November 19, 2004
It's hard to describe in words the effect Megan had on me and everyone else. She was the most amazing person I knew and she would always be there for me when I needed advice for anything. Megan was always ready to listen. Seeing and knowing her can show you what God can do in your life. She was also the best Christian I knew, and I feel privileged to have known her. I can only hope later in life to meet someone as special and amazing as Megan. She will always be in my heart. My prayers go out to the Reader family and Lee.
Juanita Leksrisawat
November 18, 2004
I am so thankful that I had the priviledge of knowing Megan. She was such a joy to have around. I enjoyed every minute of the times she spent with our family, she truely was a little bit of sunshine. I can't remember the first time I saw Megan but I will always remember the last time I saw her. She dropped by the house to see Joy. I had just painted the kitchen a funny color of green and was feeling rather sensitive about it, but Megan knew just the right thing to say to make me feel better about the color. I am sure heaven is a little brighter today because Megan is there.
Satian leksrisawat
November 18, 2004
I was visiting Evangel Christian School for an event when a little girl with a twinkle in her eyes and a big smile on her face, came and hugged me. She said, “I love you Mr. L.” I was kind of surprised because I didn’t know who she was. “ I’m Megan, Joy’s friend ” That how I met Meagan for the first time. From that moment, she has a special place in my heart. I have many happy memories of Megan, but I will always remember the little girl that gave me a hug.
Britney Brown
November 18, 2004
I would always tell Meg that she was perfect in so many ways. She had the beautiful blonde hair, gorgeous blue eyes, sparkling white teeth. She had small feet, and was gifted in some other areas as well. She was so smart, and an awesome christian. She had a perfect family. And she could make anyone laugh. Megan was truly an angel.
I met megan in 5th grade. We were the best of friends. She went to Evangel for 4 years, and I was so happy to hear she was coming to North Bullitt. Meg is, and will always be, my best friend. I have so many memories of her that I will never ever forget. I remember our senior year, she told me she wasn't going to play basketball. I was so upset. I finally talked her into it. I remember she hated it most of the time. But she NEVER quit. Even with the bribes she was given. One time she smarted off to Robinette and I got in trouble for it, Cause Meg was the new girl and I was her friend!
Meg would do anything to make you smile. I cannot count the number of times she was there for me. And the silly ideas she would think of to cheer me up. I will never forget dressing up in aluminum foil, or the time she took up for me at church camp and punked this kid out. Or riding around school in a grocery cart. Or the times she would sing to the cars passing by. I will never foorget the look on her face when she was sad. Or the smile on her face when she made a good grade in pre-cal. Never will I forget the sound of her laugh, or the evil eye she gave to Robinette. Or the excitment in her voice when Lee was calling her phone. I will never forget how picky she was about her eyeliner.
One thing I think about when I think of her is Lee, and her love for him. We would stay up til late hours of the morning, just so she could talk about how much she loved him. And how great he was. And why she was mad, or nervous. I remember on night she was upset, and she grabbed my hand as we fell asleep. She loved Lee with all her heart, and always wanted the best for him.
Meg was the role-model Christian. I remember looking over at her sometimes when we went to the Vine. The look, the passion, on her face was like none other. She loved God more than anything in the world. We would have talks about how she was worried about our friends who are not Christians. She was always willing to talk to anyone about God. She would get so worked up when someone disagreed with her about it. She wanted nothing more than for everyone she knew to accept Jesus Christ. I can remember talking to her about what "forever" in Heaven was like. She would always say, "Forever and ever. Then when you reach the end of that - forever more." Even though my heart hurts so bad everytime I think of her, I could not be more happier for her. I am SO proud of Meg. I just can't wait to see her again. I know she is up there stocking up on aluminum foil waiting for the rest of the Star Gate Committee!
I will miss Meg more than anyone can imagine. But My heart rejoices knowing I will see her again someday soon. I love you meg! And to the Reader family: You all raised the PERFECT ANGEL. She couldnt have bless me, my family, and our friends lives more than she did. I send you guys my prayers, and remember if you need anything, just call. Also remember, when you guys are ready, I have the best videos of Megan, and I would be more than happy to watch them with you all. I love every signle one of you. Lee, the same goes to you too. Just remember what she has said to you, and keep that with you always. I love you.
katie hardy
November 18, 2004
Megan was such a great person to know. Megan made basketball so much more fun. I remember coming over from Hebron and all of the upperclassemn being really nice, but Megan was the kind of girl who stood out. She was always asking if we had a nice day. Megans smile would brighten up everybodys day. She will be missed very much.
Corey Maple
November 18, 2004
Getting to know Megan has been such a blessing. I have memories that range from all the heart-felt, wonderful, and unforgettable times to all the fun, interesting, and crazy times. As Megan began to spend more time with our family, I began to see her not as Cara's friend, but as MY sister--someone I loved. I can clearly remember all the times I would go into Cara's room on a Saturday morning to tell the girls that breakfast was ready, and instead of getting a "Good Morning," I got a blanket thrown over my face and I was tackled to the ground in an attempt to "Take Corey down!!!" Cara might try to get me in a head lock, and Megan would try her specialty move of bending my wrist. I guess they were never really satisfied because it seemed like they would try to sabotage me everytime Megan stayed over. I am pretty sure Megan liked coming over to our house, but I bet she didn't care for all the times when Mom and Dad would put her to work. I remember when we were moving out of our house, Mom wanted to bring her beloved Forsithia bush with her to Lexington, and she put me and Megan in charge of digging it up. We dug and sweated and pulled on that plant for what seemed like 5 hours, and although that was one of the hardest plants that I have ever tried to dig up, Megan and I had a great time doing it. I used to hate and despise that bush, but now I see it as a gift--that bush represents time that I was able to spend with Megan. I know Megan played a certain, special role in everyone's life, but I had the pleasure of being her "big" brother. I love my sisters dearly, and I have always felt a great responsibility to protect and look after them, especially my little sister. Megan was no different. I would be willing to kill for them, and I would most definitely die to protect them. I loved Megan--as a sister, as a friend, and as a person. I kept a very special place open for her in my heart, and I am not sure if that space can ever be filled by anyone else. I do know that your family means more than words or thoughts or feelings to me. Mr. Reader, your strength and your wisdom are inspirations to me. I know that I can come to you for fatherly advice when I need it, and I greatly appreciate all of it. Mrs. Reader, your smile and the love in your eyes give off enough energy to jump mountains. You have the sincere embrace and warmth about you that everyone else longs to possess. Lindsey, I see in you a very mature, organized, and collected woman who also has a intriguing and child-like joy that disrupts the seriousness that you put off. You are very strong, but please do not try to overcome the loss of Megan by yourself. Be open with your friends and family, and they will help you carry this burden more than you realize. Sam, it is amazing to see how far you have come along--from the times when I could not tell if it was you or Megan on the phone to the rockstar who is pretty much taller than me now. Your improvements in the guitar show your diligence and persistence, and I know for certain that you are much more mature now than I was at your age. I look at you as a little brother, and if you ever need anything or want to come hang out for a weekend or whatever, please let me know. I love you guys very much.
Alan Leksrisawat
November 18, 2004
What a priveledge it is to have known such a beautiful girl. Her beautiful smile could brighten up anyones day, her beautiful heart made us all strive to be better. Every part of Megan's life was truly a beautiful picture painted by the very hand of God. Thank God, it won't be long until we all get to see His finished masterpiece. (Proverbs 4:18)
LeAnn Stivers
November 18, 2004
Megan was such an incredible person. She affected every life that she came in contact with. She was a wonderful perosn to be around because of the way she lived her life. She was happy, honest, and such a wonderful Christian. She lived completley in her faith, you could always see it in her. I feel so lucky for knowing Megan and her family. You are such wonderful people and raised a special daughter. The way that she lived her life has made me want to be a better person, thank you. I will never forget what I have learned from her. I will miss her so much.
Amanda Robison
November 17, 2004
Dear Roland, Connie, Lindsey, Sam, and Lee,
I first met Megan the summer before my sophomore year. Joy and Megan came to the fair with Britney, and Joy was wearing Megan's shirt. The first impression I made was to drop my ice cream cone on Joy. Most girls would get upset about their shirt, but Megan and Joy just laughed. Megan, Joy, and I also went to Thunder over Louisville together. I have never had so much fun in the car, until that night. I am not the best on song lyrics, and Megan would never let me forget about the song, Fly like a bird. The words say,"Morning will come," and I was singing, "Molly will burn." They both laughed for days. My parents thought very highly of Megan. My Dad loved to talk about Megan, and ask what she was up to. There was never a time when she would see him that she did not go and strike up a conversation. Tonight, a friend of mine was in a wreck, and is in critical condition. WHY, WHY ,WHY we ask? There is a reason for everything that happens. Megan was here to bless everyone, and show them the right path with Christ. Everytime she smiled, you could see Christ living within her. She lived for Christ, and I admired her so much for all the morals she stood for. Not every person can gradute accomplishing everything she did. She was a role model to all of her fiends, as much as the younger class. Whenever Megan Reader was mentioned, everyone knew her. She was the beautiful blonde, who never wore a frown on her face. I know she is in Heaven watching over all of us, keeping us safe. We all know everyone up there is probably laughing right now at her silly personality. I want you all to know I will always be praying for you, and remember she is having the best time in Heaven, and is always going to be with you. My love and support go out to the Reader family and Lee, and everyone who was touched by Megan. She will be missed very much, and we all can't wait to be with her again.
Keisha Freelan
November 17, 2004
There's not enough words to describe Megan. She was the kind of person that would always put a smile on anybody's face.
Megan has been my best friend since elementary school. I can remember all the fights that all of us girls would have, and Megan would be the one running back and forth trying to work everything out. But that is exactly how everyone knew Megan. She was always lending a hand.
What I'm going to miss the most about Megan is all the fun times we had. Our group of girls were the best at make believe and Megan had the best imagination out of all of us.
My favorite memory of Megan was in computer class when we would play M.A.S.H. Everyday Lee would be the top choice for the husband and even if it didn't land on him we made it.
M.A.S.H will never be the same without Megan.
I will miss Megan and all the fun times that we had shared. I will never forget her and how her family had always treated me like they were my own. Reader family you will always be in my thoughts and in my prayers! Love you always Megan!
Love,
Ki-Ki
Tyler Sibley
November 17, 2004
Megan was a wonderful friend to all of us. I had the honor of knowing her for nearly four years, having her in class, and coaching her in powder-puff. She loved all of us as well; she would do anything for anybody. She always had a smile on her face and she was always fun to be around. Megan will always be in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and Lee Sims.
Jaclyn Vaughn
November 17, 2004
Dear Connie, Roland, Lindsey, Sam, and Lee:
There are no words that I can say that will heal the hurt from this horrible, unexpected loss. Megan truly is an amazing girl, and I will always cherish our sweet friendship. She has the most amazing smile and the most beautiful, bright, blue eyes that have the power to light up an entire room. Her personality and humor has a way of making everyone smile, even when they are feeling sad. Megan's outgoing personality helped her to be a constant Christian witness to every individual that she came in contact with. Megan loved Jesus with all of her heart! Jesus is working through Megan, even in her passing, and I know that her Christian witness will affect people for many generations to come. I will always miss Megan, but I am comforted, knowing that she is with our Heavenly Father, singing and dancing in His presence! As humans, we cannot even begin to comprehend the wonders of heaven, and we will not fully understand until we get there. Megan's bright, blue eyes have seen Jesus, and she is finally home! I cannot wait for the day when Jesus calls us home to spend eternity with Him, and when we will see Megan again! I know that she will have plenty of signs ready to decorate our walls! Until that glorious day, I will continue to pray for all of you, because Jesus is the only one who can, and will, heal the hurt. I will always love Megan, and I cannot wait to be with her again!
Love Always,
Jaclyn Vaughn
Janna Funyak
November 17, 2004
Megan was a wonderful friend to many people. I have known her longer than anyone else. We shared so many fun times and great talks. From a friendship of 17 years, I have learned many things about her. But prolly the most impacting thing, is that if one person's life is changed for the sake of Christ, Megan would tell you she served her puropse on earth and can't wait to see you in heaven. Don't let Megans love for the Lord and her passion to see lost ones saved slip from your memory. Her time was great on earth, but she is having an unbelievale time in heaven. Meg, I can't wait to see you again!
Paula Maddox (NBHS)
November 17, 2004
Dear Reader Family:
I loved Megan! I am so glad that I had the opportunity to have her in class and get to know her while she was at North Bullitt. She was truly an angel here on earth! She certainly had the ability to brighten the days of anyone she was around.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have thought of Megan and your family so many times since the accident. Please take comfort in knowing that she was such an exceptional child who touched the lives of all who knew her. She will be greatly missed by all of us.
Eric Lambert
November 17, 2004
I started teaching in January of this past school year. Megan was an office aid during my 6th period planning, so I was able to meet her before we started softball. She would check to see if my shoes and belt matched. She had a way of making people laugh and her fashion knowledge certainly helped me out in my 1st year. Megan would always ask how I was doing in a very caring manner. Then softball started, she had a hard time with the coaching changes and being a senior, it seemed that she was always busy doing other things besides softball. She would talk about maybe quiting the team because she had so much going on, but she said she had never quit at anything and she wasn't going to start now. To me that said volumes about her character.
Megan and I seemed to get along so well. She would help me smile when I had a bad day and I would try and do the same for her. It was as if we had known each other for years yet I had only met her a few months earlier. It is hard to express the pain and sorrow I feel for the Reader family, but we all know she is waiting to greet us in Heaven. I will never forget Megan. I think about her everyday and I try to be the best person I can because of the influence Megan had on me. Megan is a special person. The impact she has had on this community, school, and team will life on. I just hope I can remember to wear a black belt with black shoes when get dressed for school. Thanks to Megan, I know to check for that everyday before school.
Nicki Phillips
November 17, 2004
Well, a lot has been said about Megan, but stilll so much can go unexplained. I did not hang out with Megan much but we had classes together and I knew of her and her values. Then when we went to New York I had a chance to hang out with her, and we all had a great time. She was a very strong girl and I know that God has a huge plan for her. He had work that needed to be done and I dont think he could have picked a bettter person to fullfill those duties. She will be missed by all. Thank you for doing such a great job at raising great children. Sam we all love you at NBCC and we are always thinking about you.
Angelica Booher
November 17, 2004
Dear Reader Family,
When i think back about Megan the one thing that truly sticks out in my mind are the Sunday mornings that Megan, Connie, and Lindsey got up and did sign language at our church. I remember always not being able to wait until the next time that they'd do another special because it was always such a blessing to see. I was fortunate to know Megan back when we were only like 6 or so but she was truly one of those people that will permenantly remain with you no matter what. I didnt attend school with her at all but between hanging out with half the graduating class at North Bullitt high school i did pass by Megan through out the years and of course we'd share a simpe hello if nothing else. I'm sad that i didnt get to know her as well after we got older but i'm grateful of the time we spent together in Sunday School class and around the church. She truly was my first friend ever at NBCC and for that i'll always be proud to have known her. She was an inspiration and there isnt anything bad that anyone that knew her could ever say bad about her, due to the fact that she was so great. That smile that brightened a room and that personality that made you yourself want to be something more than you already were.
-Sam, you are such a great guy and i'm glad that you and i have been able to hang out over the years and become good friends. Stay strong buddy and keep the good faith because that's what will pull you and the family out of this rough time. Sam you know that i'm here for you if you need a friend okay!
-And to the rest of the family i will continue to keep you all in my prayers and just wish you all the best.
david bohanon
November 16, 2004
its truly unimaginable to sit here and try to express how amazing a person meghan was. I do know for sure that everyone was blessed to have been able to share time with meghan. she was special and made you feel special and people like this and rare in life and that is what made her such an amazing person.
Cara Maple
November 16, 2004
I have no idea how to begin and to really express my feelings. Megan was one of the best friends I ever had and probably ever will have. So many memories and great laughs come to mind just when I hear her name. In addition to the wonderful laughs we shared, I will always appreciate how concerned she was for me over losing my dad. Though I didn't usually share how I felt about it, I always knew she really cared and was there to talk to me and comfort me. Reader family, ya'll mean so much to me and you know how much Megan means to me. I can't imagine my life without her and how dull it would have been. Though I will miss her immensely, I can still close my eyes and hear her contagious laugh and reminisce on all of our silly inside jokes. I will never forget our many adventures out to the woods behind your house to play and "pretend" in the creek we named Kilimanjaro. I always felt special to know there was someone else out there as silly and weird as me. She brought so much sparkle and joy to everyone she met and knew. I am so blessed to have known her, and even more blessed to still have your family in my life. I love ya'll so much and will always have and know a part of her through each of you. You all should feel so honored to receive all these complements on Megan, because how she was, speaks volumes for the family she was apart of and the home she had. I can not wait until we are all reunited in heaven, especially the three REAL Charlie's Angels-Joy, Megan, and I!! Megan, you will always be my funky monkey, and I love you with all my heart. Love Always, Cara
Linda French
November 16, 2004
During my first year at North Bullitt High School, Megan Reader stood out in many ways among other excellent students. Not only was she a beautiful girl who made straight "A's" on every test, she was genuinely nice and kind to everyone else in the class. I never once heard her say a harsh word to or about anyone. She loved her friends and having fun with them. Following every test, Megan would say, "Mrs. French, we need another party." Then she and Joy would make a list and go about the room signing people up to bring various food for her party. Her parents should be very proud of such a fine daughter. Rarely does one person impact so many and she will be missed by us all.
jill maple
November 16, 2004
What words can be used to express such a wonderful young woman of God. Megan will always be one of the rays of sunshine in my life. I had the indescribable pleasure of taking Megan, Joy, Cara, and Lydia to the beach this summer. I am not sure when I have laughed so hard and been so amazed at how much love those girls have one for another. There's a movie called "Deliver us from Eva" about a young woman who has had to take charge of her sisters. On that trip, Megan had dubbed herself as Eva and gave each of the other girls their own special names. She fluctuated between being the mother hen (a job she took great pleasure in), and being a part of some outlandish silly scheme which would inevitably result in the collapsing heap of laughing/giggling girls.
I remember how Megan, Joy, and Cara would spend much of their time dressing up. I got the biggest kick out of the outfits they would come up with. There were times that they would take silliness to a whole new level, and other times, they would come downstairs dressed to put any young man into a state of torture. Everywhere we went, people stared. And no matter where we were, Megan would ultimately engage someone in conversation. At one of their many excursions to the mall, the girls ended up entertaining themselves on dares...the following are only a few of the ones Megan came up with: Rachel had to be a model and approach a table of boys, Megan Seay had to trip and fall right in front of the "cute" boy working at Abercrombie, and Abby had to skip down the center of the mall. When it was Megan's turn, Cara and Joy dared her to talk to the mexian busboy at the food court. Not one to back away from any challenge, Megan not only approached the young man, (finding little success) but, instead of admiting defeat, and ignoring the peals of laughter coming from her girls, she followed him from table to table to try and engage him in conversation. She returned, with that huge smile, saying that maybe she should polish up on her spanish.
Megan and her whole family were such a comfort and support to us during those days when Sam (Cara's dad) was sick and passed away. They were also there when we moved from Louisville. Megan and Corey spent a couple of hours working on digging up a HUGE worseteria vine just outside of Sam's office...because he had planted it and I wanted to bring it to our new home. They were covered in dirt, exhausted by pulling, digging, and heaving that stupid plant out of the ground...but neither would give up and both laughed the entire time.
I know I speak for every member of the Maple family, that we deeply love each of you Readers with all of our hearts. Just as geography cant dampen that love for you guys here on earth, it can only be intensified by the addition of Megan and Sam's arrival in Heaven.
We thank you for giving us one of life's rarest gifts...genuine love. Our prayes are with you and our hope is firm in that someday soon we will all laugh and love again together.
Bill Robinette
November 16, 2004
To the Reader Family,
I cannot fathom the heartache that you have to face. But, as time passes, we must remember the joy and happiness that Megan brought to all of us. I feel so blessed to be able to work with many outstanding young adults in my career. Megan was definitely one of the brightest and most memorable of these. As a coach, I will always cherish the spirit and vitality she brought to our team. As a teacher, I will always remember her creative abilities and sparkling personality. She has been and always will be an inspiration to those who follow in her footsteps at North Bullitt.
Summer Vaughn
November 15, 2004
To Roland, Connie, Lindsey, Sam, and Lee:
I send my deepest sympathy. Though my hurt is tremendous for the loss of a wonderful friend, I cannot begin to imagine the great loss that you feel. My prayer for you is that God will give you peace. Megan had so many wonderful qualities and I admire everything about her, but more than anything I admire how strong of a Christian she was. Megan loved Jesus. Every part of her life was a witness for Jesus; if you knew Megan, you knew God's love. She had a wonderful smile and every time she smiled at you, you felt the love of Jesus. Knowing her has been the greatest gift. Her life is a wonderful inspiration to me. I love her with all of my heart. There is no doubt in my mind where Megan is today, and I know that she has made heaven a more wonderful place by her presence there. Through this difficult time I have been able to turn to a verse and feel comfort. It says, "God would not have you to be mournful concerning those who are asleep, for we do not mourn as those who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so those that sleep in Jesus will God bring with Him...and so shall we ever be with the Lord." (I Thess 4:13-17) I am so thankful that in Christ there are no good-byes and that I will one day be reunited with Megan. I sure can't wait to see her! I love you all so very much and I promise that I will pray for you and your family everyday.
Emily Monroe
November 14, 2004
Megan was definitely a girl no person could even begin to describe. Everyone knew Megan and the kind of person she was. I remember basketball and softball, riding in coaches police jeep and her always smiling. All the sleep overs we all had, dressing up, and trying to find the treasure in the stage. She was always the person to make light of the situation and to always bring a smile.The smile she had on her face was contagious. One of the things i will always remember about Megan is the things she stood for. A person who honors God is the best person there is. The joy Megan brought to so many people will never be forgotten.The thought that someone so awesome isnt here brings sorrow but to know what she stood for and to know that she is in a better place brings comfort. Megan took life for what it was and that was to honor her Father. Megan you are missed and thank you so much for the friendship and smiles you brought me. To the Readers, I wish you all the best. You all are in my prayers and thank you so much for you kindness. I pray that you all will find peace and may God bless you all.
Justin Hart
November 13, 2004
I have known Megan since She and I were in Elementary School at Overdale. When I think about Megan a few things come to mind. One is her athletic ability, she was such a competitive person, it did not matter the game. She always wanted to win. I was lucky enough to coach her our Junior and Senior years in powder puff. She was such a hard worker and most importantly dedicated to both the game and her team. She was always willing to stay an extra half hour or so to help one of the girls or just to work on her ability. Another thing that comes to mind is Megan's Smile. She had one of those smiles that would just light up a room, one of those smiles that would brighten anyone's day. She was always there for someone if they needed her. She would put her troubles aside and do everything in her power just to make you happy.One other thing that reminds me of Megan is those silly nicknames she would give everyone just to make you laugh, Mine was J HARTIZE. Megan you truly are missed, and I know that everything happens for a reason. The World was a better place with you in it, and I know that you are looking down on all of us from above. We all miss you and Love you Megan
Jamie Snellen
November 12, 2004
I met Megan through my girlfriend Amanda Robison, and there was not a time that Megan was not happy and trying to make everyone else around her happy. My prayers go out to her family and Lee.
Bonnie Leksrisawat
November 12, 2004
Dear Readers(the family),
Hey, it is bonnie. I was so sorry when I heard. My mom sent me it in an email, because I am currently deployed to kuwait. Megan was my little homie and my little sisters best friend. Even though I am the older one and should have been setting the example for her. It was kind of the other way around. We had a lot of fun and funny times together.Megan was the bomb. At a time in my life when I didn't have a lot of friends meg, joy, and cara would always chill with me and make me feel like one of the gals. Meg was cool because she had a good heart. She could see the inner beauty in people and stuck up for the under dogs. I am glad I had megan as a friend in my life, I am proud of her, and will never forget her. She was beautiful, kind, crazy, and cool. Your whole family are good, honest, and true, awesome, qualtiy people and megan was a product of that. God
Bless yall and I know meg is in a much better place this this love bonnie
Kim Underwood
November 7, 2004
I met Megan when she came to North Bullitt our Sophomore year. She has been one of the nicest friends I have ever had. Together our friends have made the best memories, and I will cherish them all. In all of our silly times Megan was the one who would do anything to make someone laugh. Looking back I can't believe some of the weird things we all did. But its those memories that are the most memorable.
Megan has truly been an inspiration in every aspect of my life and the lives of others. She will be with all of us forever. My deepest sympathies go out to her family and Lee. May the Lord be with you through this hard time. We love you all.
Amber Keen
November 6, 2004
Megan and I were the best of Best Friends. We grew up together, and still had alot more growing up to do. I would always tell Megan how beautiful I thought she was. She would laugh at me and smile. Megan was beautiful on the outside, but even more beautiful on the inside. She was so wonderful. I miss her so very much. I do find peace that she is in Heaven walking with the Lord. She has made Heaven a much happier place, her smile is so addicting. I look so foward to seeing Megan again. I can not wait for her to open her arms and welcome me. The Reader's are so awesome. I love their family like my own. I hope and pray they can find understanding and peace. I love you all so much. I will love you forever. Megan, you'll always be my true best friend. Together Forever.
Stephanie Mingus
November 5, 2004
I only knew Megan for a short time. She was so sweet and beautiful though. I remember all the fun times in Ms. Norton's and Mr. Henry's class's. She was always laughing and making class fun. Not to mention she was a friend to everyone. Always willing to talk to people. Megan will be greatly missed and my heart goes out to Lee and Megan's family.
Melanie Keith
November 5, 2004
It's amazing to see how God can use one person to work on others. Megan's life and death has been and will continue to be tool for a much larger purpose. Thank you Reader family for being true inspirations.
anonymous
November 4, 2004
IN THE SHORT TIME I SPENT WITH MEGAN ONE THING IS CLEAR TO ME. SHE LOVED LEE WITH ALL HER HEART. I NEVER KNEW LEE, BUT HE IS LUCKY TO HAVE HAD SUCH A GOOD GIRL IN HIS LIFE. I COULD GO ON AND ON ABOUT HER, BUT THIS IS THE THING THAT I REMEMBER MOST ABOUT HER.
AND THE WAY SHE PUT A PLEASENT TWIST ON MY OTHERWISE BORING NICKNAME:)
Joy Leksrisawat
November 2, 2004
Wow, where do I even begin to tell how Megan has affected my life and given me one of the BEST friendships I could have ever asked for. There are so many good things to say about Meg. She was so great to talk to. She would listen to anything I had to say. She was always good for advice, she gave some of the best. She was such a smart person, and we were always there to help each other with school work. She was always wanting to help anyone who needed it. Of all of the things I could say about Megan, the thing that stands out the most is that she was so much fun. There wasn't a time spent with Megan that I didn't laugh or have fun. She was such a silly person. I will never forget playing cowboys and indians with her or the , what seems like hundreds of times, we dressed up. She could do the best impressions. She was up for anything, and she always made everything so much more fun.
Megan was also such a good Christian. We would talk about heaven sometimes and how we wondered what it would be like. It is so wonderful to know that she is no doubt there. She is making heaven a much better place and giving me an even greater desire to be there one day.
Reader family, my prayers go out to you always, and know that I am always here for whatever you need.I love you guys so much.
Megan has made such an impact on my life. I will miss her forever. I will never be able to forget her, and all of the memories that we have. I love you, Megan.
Christy Denham
October 27, 2004
Megan was the most beautiful girl I've ever met. She was one of the fellow seniors with me on the softball team and a fellow student in class, and some of my greatest high school memories include her. She was so fun to be around, a good influence, and a great friend. Her heart truly reflected God's love and her smile always made me smile. I will always remember the good times and the impression Megan left behind to shape my life. She was a wonderful girl whom I'm very glad to say I got the priveledge to meet and play softball with. My thoughts and prayers are with you Readers and Lee. May God give you comfort and peace.
Ashley Wardrip
October 27, 2004
I graduated with Megan and even though I didn't know her very well, I knew what a great person she was. She was a very sweet and beautiful girl. She will be greatly missed.
Taylor & Luke Humphrey
October 26, 2004
Megan has always been a very good friend to us. She was not just a baby sitter she was our friend. She would help me, Taylor, with softball she was just this summer teaching me to pitch. I will never forget her smile and how much she loved Jesus. I just hope that I can grow up to be as good of a person as she was.
Megan was my friend and I just want you all to know that we are praying for you everyday. And Connie, Roland, Lindsey and Sam, and Lee we love you guys so much and whatever you need we will be there for you. We love you all so much and our hearts and prayers are with you always.
Rose / Buddy Hoskinson
October 25, 2004
Connie and Roland.
Though we've known you both for years it seems we never crossed paths except in a work related atmosphere. The best things about my six month checkups were the updates on your children and the latest news of the stages of their everchanging lives.
My heart aches for you, Lindsey, Sam and those fortunate enough to be smiled upon by Megan. I know she was a diamond in your parenting crown.
I pray the Lord will enfold you in His love and that you can take strength from this love in the difficult times ahead. Your life has changed paths forever, but it is His path we accept and follow.
You're in our prayers.
April Dezern
October 25, 2004
My prayers are with all of the Reader family. I didn't know Megan very well, but I know what it's like to loose a loved one and/or a very close friend. God Bless you and I know He will be with you to help you through this.
Brett and Mecca Hawkins
October 25, 2004
Dear Roland, Connie, Lindsey and Sam,
There are no words we could possibly come up with to ease the pain of losing Megan. Our hearts are broken and we share in your grief and sorrow over the loss of such an awesome sister and daughter. The Lord is close to those whose hearts are breaking and we pray for His healing touch for each of you and others who loved and knew her. You shine as a family for our Lord and it is obvious you have your priorities straight as each of your children radiate His light. We pray for your joy to be restored in due time and that each of you enters into a deeper intamacy with our Savior. We love you and are praying for you always. Love, Brett, Mecca and Shea Hawkins
Heather (Seidl) Hagan
October 25, 2004
We are truly sorry for your loss. I remember Megan from Overdale and she was always such a cute and sweet little girl. Our prayers are with your family and may God bless you.
Karen Mattingly
October 24, 2004
Connie,Roland,Lindsey & Sam,
When I first heard of Megan's tragic death and thought of what I might say to the family--what feeble attempt I might make to bring comfort, the first thing I thought of was that she was like a ray of sunshine. I actually thought this was my own original observation. Little did I know that she was like sunshine to EVERYONE who knew her. She was amazing.
Ever since I've known you my prayer for your family has been
that you would be a light in a dark world--that Jesus would shine through you as a family. He has, and he does. Glory to God. Our hearts break for you. Our prayers continue.
With love and sympathy,
Pank & Karen
Alyssa Mason
October 24, 2004
The Thomas family and I send out our thoughts and prayers to your family in this time. Megan was a blessing to everyone she touched throughout her life. I remember growing up with her at Overdale and knowing, even then, what a difference she was going to make in the world. She was always the kind of person you could look up to and will be truly missed. Our prayers go out to the Reader family and to Lee Sims, and to all extended family and friends.
Suzanne Bland
October 23, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with your Family at this difficult time. We did not know Megan but had always heard nice things about her. My Sister in Law is Brenda Keen (Amber Keens Grandmother). Our hearts are saddened for the loss of your wondeful daughter. May the Lord give you extra strength at this time.
God Bless,
Suzanne & Tom Bland / Spring Hill Florida.
krista pierce
October 22, 2004
Megan was always the one who made every one laugh and she was always in a good mood, I never saw her in a bad mood unless we loss we lost a basketball or softball game.
I always looked up to her. I remember in softball games I would look over at Meg and I would look how she was standing and I would stand just like her.
She was the one person in my life that would never have a problem being like.
When us eighth graders came over from Hebron she went out of her way to make us feel like we were one of them.
Her blonde hair reminded me of the sun in the sky and her blue eyes always lit up the room.
I give my love out to her family and the love of her life Lee.
Roland I will try my best to be all that I can be and follow in Megan’s footsteps.
No one will ever be half of the person Megan was.
Meg, I will always remember the way you made me feel the day I met you. I thought you were the coolest person I wanted to be just like you, and I will never forget when you told me that I was the most athletic person you know. That will stay with me the rest of my life. I cant wait to see you again, but until then I will make the most out of my life, and always think what would Megan do.
I love you Meg.
sheryl Downey-adamson
October 22, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Connie,rowland,lyndsy, and sam. I have memories of meagan at salem church of christ. We will always remember you guys. Sheryl, Davy, Justin, and Brandon
Becky Tonon
October 22, 2004
Please know that my prayers are with your entire family and that I am very sorry for your loss.
Beth Larson
October 22, 2004
Megan is such an amazing person. I played softball with her. She put such passion in everything she did. My thoughts and prayers are with the Reader family as well as Lee Sims. Be strong man.
jennifer browning
October 22, 2004
What a beautiful and precious person Meghan is. I remember her bubbly spirit on the v-ball team at Evangel. What a joy to know that we will see her again in heaven. I pray God will give your family peace and strength to carry on in this life without her. We love you and we are praying for you daily.
Joshua Jennifer Joy and Jacob Browning
Stacie Linder
October 22, 2004
I am so sorry for your loss. Megan was an amazing young lady, and part of the reason my new baby was named Megan. Your family became very special to me while I had Sam in class. Megan was a wonderful example for all of her friends and will be greatly missed. I love all of you and will always remember how much of an impact you all had on my life. God comfort and bless you all.
Jared Crocker
October 22, 2004
Our thoughts and pryers are with the Reader family at this time of loss. Megan was a ture gift from God and we know that she is in a better place.
Mary Ann, Jonh, Josh, Jared and Jacob
October 22, 2004
Our thoughts and prayer are with all of you at this tragic time.
Megan was an awsome person who has touched and witnessed to so many lives and she still is, we all loved her she is an angel that I'm glad I had the privledge to know .I know the angels rejoiced when they saw Megan as their new friend. We love you Sam.
Tammy & Mark Deetsch
Jeff Hinton
October 21, 2004
My thoughts and prayers go out to my friend Roland and his family...god bless you guys....sincerely...Jeff hinton
Bruce & BJ Wiseman
October 21, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. The Lord will give you the courage and strength to face the difficult days ahead. God Bless.
Theresa Herrmann
October 21, 2004
I am praying for your family.....
We know the Lord will overshadow you and comfort..May his love and grace keep you during this time.
Theresa Herrmann
Kathy Jones
Jacki Witt
October 21, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you right now in this tragic time. I grew up doing gymnastics with Megan and she was amazing even back then. She will be missed greatly by everyone at Gymnastics by Mimi.
Carrie Thompson (Risen)
October 21, 2004
May the strength of the Lord be with you during this time. I pray you remember Megan and cherish all the time you had with her. I remember her as a child at Salem Church of Christ. We all have such fond memories of what a wonderful person she was. Are hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you.
Robyn McKnight
October 21, 2004
Dear Reader Family,
I am so sorry for your family. We as a family will always remember Megan as a wonderful young lady. Lauren so enjoyed playing softball with her on Evangel's team. Please know you are in our prayers and I know the Lord will give you great strength during this time.
Love and prayers,
Kevin, Robyn, Lauren, Lindsey and Robert Mcknight
Leah Clark
October 21, 2004
Dear Friends,
Our deepest sympathy, love and prayers are extended to you all in these dark days or your lives. What a GREAT job you did as parents raising Megan!!!! She was such a joy to be around. Her natural beauty was crowned by that vivacious smile. One thing that I think of when her name is mentioned was her fluid, creative imagination that spun so many hilarious stories- esp. "The Breckenridge Witch Project". The other was her thoughtfulness. She remembered to thank me for the p/b sandwiches and other food provided to the girls during the basketball season at Evangel. Not only did she do that when it happened but thanked me again on her Sr. night last year. We know that the Lord is in CONTROL even when we do not understand. I am so thankful that I do KNOW we will see Megan again-what joy! On her Sr. night she made that evident and I was so glad to hear it.
Much love and prayers,
Leah Clark & family
Alex and Marilyn Kawa
October 21, 2004
Roland, Connie, Lindsey and Sam
Marilyn and I are so sorry to hear about Megan. We will be praying for all of you. God's got a plan and He needs young people in Heaven to help. We know she's safe and will be eternally happy. We love You. Alex, Marilyn, Colton, Garrett and Drake.
Karen and Bud Paul
October 21, 2004
Our prayers and thoughts are with you!
Tammy Branham
October 21, 2004
Thoughts and prayers are with the Reader family. Megan will most certainly be one of the best Angels we'll all have watching over us.
Mark, Denyse, Kris and Paige Elam
October 21, 2004
Our prayers are with your family during this time. We came to know Megan through her activities at North Bullitt where she was always an inspiration to my son Kris and daughter Paige. She will always be remembered.
Cathy Tausch
October 21, 2004
Dear Roland,Connie, Lindsey and Sam, may God be with you and comfort you during this very difficult time. I have the most wonderful memories of Megan and the time that she spent at our home with Alex and Brandy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and my heart goes out to each of you.
Sister Mary Brigid Gregory
October 21, 2004
My prayers and sympathy extend to all of you at this terible time of loss and grief. May you feel God's loving consoling presence. Megan surely does at this moment. All of the sisters are remembering her and you.
Steve & Vonda Stutzenberger, Karissa Lewis
October 21, 2004
No words can express how much Megan will be missed. She was the epitome of true friendship to all those she touched. Karissa's life has been enriched by Megan's loving, caring nature and she will forever hold in her heart all the memories of their times together. God bless each of you in these hard times and give us all strength until we can again be with her.
Stephanie Henry
October 21, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with Megan's family and friends. The class of 2004 will be missing one of its brightest and most beautiful members. May she rest in peace.
Terri Steele
October 21, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God comfort you through this difficult time. God bless you all.
Stephen Duvall and Jill Adcock - Your neighbors
October 21, 2004
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this sad time.
Glenn Brown
October 21, 2004
Megan is so special. She has touched the lives of hundreds and hundreds of people. Even though it's been years since she was in Evangel School, our office was flooded with calls from those she touched.
I know that evryone who has had the chance to meet Megan counts that as a great privlege. We will all miss her and look forward to seeing her again when Jesus Returns.
Our constant prayer is for Roland, Connie, Lindsey, and Sam to somehow receive the comfort of the Holy Ghost in this difficult time.
Tina Carroll
October 21, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Megan was the little sweetheart of the gymnastic team. It would be impossibe to forget that smiling face. Anyone who knew her should feel blessed that God allowed them to be a part of her life before he took her back home to heaven. Our Love to Roland, Connie, Lindsey, and sam.
Susanna Field
October 21, 2004
Roland, Connie, Lindsey, and Sam: My most sincere prayers are with you at this time. I love you all so much. Lindsey, I can't imagine what you are going through, please let me know if there is anything I can do. Megan was a blessing to everyone who had the opportunity to know her. I know your love and faith will get you through these tough times.
Jesse, Zola & Rachael Marshall
October 20, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May God give you the courage and strength to face the difficult days ahead. We all will miss Meagan. She was so precious. Rachael has so many precious memories of the times they spent together. One day soon we will meet her again. We love you.
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