She was born in Lowell on Sept 21, 1975, daughter of Denise Ann (Hamilton) Button of Billerica, and had been a resident of Billerica all of her life. Ms. Button graduated Billerica Memorial High School in 1993, and played soccer while in high school. She attended Middlesex Community College, and later graduated from Salem State in 1998 with a degree in early childhood education in 1998.
She had been employed for six years at the Tender Learning Center in Burlington, and recently taught art classes at the Art Center in Chelmsford. Ms. Button enjoyed art, and was an avid dancer.
Besides her mother, she is survived by three sisters, Kirsten E. Button of Boston's Dorchester, Andrea D. Button and Rachael M. Button, both of Billerica; her maternal grandparents, Betty and Kermit Hamilton of Medford; her aunts and uncles, Roger and Regina Hamilton of Medford, Stephen and Carole Hamilton of Dracut, and Richard and Patrice Hamilton of Plantsville Conn. She also leaves her close friend, Michelle Barbaro of Tewksbury, as well as many cousins and friends.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by family and friends who loved her so deeply.
Mom
December 13, 2024
22 years of you not with us. you are in my heart and thought every day.
love Mom
ella
May 23, 2021
i never met you karyn but i know you would’ve been such an amazing aunt. i really wish you were and i had met you. love you
ella
May 23, 2021
i never met you karyn but i know you would’ve been such an amazing aunt. i really wish you were and i had met you. love yoi
Denise Button
December 22, 2020
18 years of missing you. Your smile, your laugh, your generosity and your love. Mom
December 14, 2015
It has been 13 years, when I think of that day, all the feeling come right back. I love and miss you, your smile, your sense of humor and your love. I wish you were here to see your nieces and nephews, hug and kiss your sister and me and fill the gap that is missing in all we do. Love Mom
Will Gonzalez
December 17, 2013
Merry Christmas my beautiful friend. I still miss you but i know you are still here with us. I hooe you met my daughter she's 5 months old now I'll make sure i tell her about you.
December 16, 2013
My heart still aches when I think of you.
I love you and miss you everyday.
Love Mom
December 13, 2012
10 years without you
your smile
your laugh
your love
You are still greatly missed
love
Mom
December 13, 2011
I miss you everyday.
Love
Mom
December 13, 2011
Karyn I miss you everyday. I know you are watching over us.
Love Mom
September 21, 2010
I wish I could celebrate your 35th Birthday with you.I think about you everyday and think about what is missing in my life without you. I know you are watching over us and that give me some comfort.
Love you forever
Mom
Barry
December 18, 2009
its been way to long but you are never more then a thought or story away from my lips everytime i hangout with dennis...i say your name wih pride and a little snicker cause it always seemed we were laughing when the 3 of us were together. I will never for get the first day we meet and if dennis is thinking about that night then he too is laughing. I miss you karyn ..my prayers are with your family.
Barry..
Melissa Addezio
September 21, 2009
Happy Birthday my friend.
Miss you every day.
xoxo
December 15, 2008
6 years, sometimes it seems like forever and sometimes it seems like yesterday but always, it hurts.
I still think, Karyn would like that or wonder what your children would have been like.
Love you forever
Mom
Kirsten
December 12, 2008
6 years later and I still wish I had just one more day with you.
Will Gonzale
September 24, 2007
Just thought I would say Hi you've been reminding my quite often that your in my heart
Rachael
September 21, 2007
I can't believe the last time I wrote was a year ago. I think about you every day though. So Happy Birthday! I know that if you were still with us we all would be together eating dinner, probably at the Outback! We would be laughing our butts off at something silly. I miss your laugh and your smile and well you! I know that you are looking out for me up there, I'm trying to be strong for you because you were always strong for me. I just know that I, we all, are so blessed that you were in our lives and I never forget everything that you gave to me, and how you helped me to become the women I am today through your love and strength. I am so proud that I got to be your sister. I love you with all my heart, and miss you everyday. XOXO
Melissa Addezio
September 21, 2007
Happy Birthday Karyn!
You will forever be in our hearts.
We love and miss you everyday.
xoxo
Melissa
Cowgirls
Andrea Button
November 17, 2006
Karyn,
I know that its almost been 4 years and this is the first time I've written you a message. You know how bad I am at thinking of things to say and I don't have you here to help me out. I always turned to you to help me with that. Alot has definiatly happened in four years but the time has flown by. I feel like I'm in suspended animation where everything around me is changing but I'm in slow motion.
Today I googled your name and the guest book web page came up. I actually had never read it. I just couldn't until now.
I've added some pictures. This one we used at the benefit this year.
I love you, I miss you and I'll never forget you,
Yabia
Karyn We Love You
November 17, 2006
Christine Heider
October 1, 2006
Hey Karyn ~ I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Just wanted to say hi and miss you so much. Love you lots. ~ Christine
William Gonzalez
September 25, 2006
Hi Karyn,
It's Bill G. I just wanted to say Hi. I know we talk often and I usually start laughing but I just wanted to say Hello today. I miss you and always smile at the thought of you... I gotta go for now.... Miss You ... Bill
Jim Hamby
September 22, 2006
Hi, very glad was asked to sign
Your Little Sis Rachael
September 21, 2006
Hi Karyn,
I haven't wrote in a while. I just wanted to tell you Happy Birthday. We would be discussing what to have for your birthday dinner and figuring out what night to get together, but so much has changed. I think about you alot down here in Virginia. I know that you are happy for me and I know that you would really like Zach, he treats me so well and loves me alot. He will take care of me, but I think you know that already. I know that you keep a close watch over all of us, and we know who we are!! I wanted to add this little quote I found just because I like it. "Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." (Muhammad Ali) You have taught me the meaning of friendship that never ends and I thank you because I will always know the love and joy a sisters friendship can bring. It is never ending and that is evident in our love for you. I will speak for all of us that are your sisters, of blood or not. We love and miss you dearly, and our friendships are strong because of you. You are in my heart always.
Love
Rachie
Matthew Matosic
May 23, 2006
Karyn,
It's been a few years since I left a message for you. For some weird reason I thought if I tried to put it behind me it might help. I never talked to anyone(professionaly) about my feelings which in retrospect was stupid. My life really went slowely downhill. I
didn't realize the catalyst was your passing. Was trying to be the macho guy but predictably it didn't work. The reason it's been a while since I've written is because I decided to regain control of my life, get out of that stupid alcohol industry and do something positive with my life. It was always a dream of mine to join the Army & become an elite Army Ranger.
Mission accomplished hun. The crazy training was all worth it and your memory helped me through a lot of it. I deploy to Iraq within a few months and I'll be bringing along
a pic or two of us along with the tattoo in your memory on my back that I will cherish until the day I die. Please keep an eye on me over there because I'll definatly need it. Love you Karen and miss you beyond belief.
SPC Matthew Matosic
1st Bat/75th Rangers
Hunter AAF, Savannah,GA
Heather Ransom DeSisto
March 16, 2006
Just alittle note to let you know that I think about you often and that I miss you very much. Just the other day I was looking at some old pictures and my son Travis that is now 9 asked me who is the "PRETTY" girl and of course it was a picture of you, I told him she is an angel a "BEUTIFUL" angel. Miss you much!
September 22, 2005
Happy Birthday Karyn! We weren't really friends but I went to highschool with you and were in a few of your classes, I'm still in shock that this happened. You were a great person and are missed by many.
Kirsten Button
September 21, 2005
I love you. I miss you. I wish you were here. I can not express in words how much you are missed.
Happy 30th birthday.
Ma
July 28, 2005
I love you and miss you every day. I know you are watching over us.
Love you forever.
Michelle Barbaro
December 13, 2004
It's been 2 long years...sometimes I feel like I haven't seen you in forever and sometimes it feels like it was just yesterday. The emptiness is still there but so are the wonderful memories that you left behind. I think of you everyday and miss you more than I can explain. Nothing is the same without you and I know it never will be. Miss you and love you always...Shellie xoxo
December 8, 2004
We lost you just two years ago,
A sorrow that still sings
Of all the tears and emptiness
The loss of loved ones brings.
Our sadness comes from missing you,
And missing you from love,
And love from all the love in you
That we became part of.
Your love is still alive in us,
We feel it ever new;
Our mourning's filled with happiness
By memories of you.
Heather Ransom DeSisto
December 1, 2004
Karyn, I woke up this morning remebering my dream and because you and Michelle were in it, I can't stop thinking about you today. I just wanted to say hello and let you know that I think about you often and miss you very much. Michelle I love you too, have a good Holiday. xoxox
November 8, 2004
Hey I just wanted to let you know that I think about every day!!! I miss you more than you could ever know. Love You
Christine Heider
September 21, 2004
Happy 29th Birthday Karyn. I love you and miss you very much.
Always,
Kirsten
September 21, 2004
Happy Birthday, Karyn
I love you, miss you, wish you were here.
Always remembering you, Kirsten
Carole Hamilton
July 1, 2004
It has taken me a long time to write in this space. Maybe, I felt there were already so many people who remembered you, that my thoughts would just be an intrusion; I don't know. But I have been thinking about you lately, and I don't really know why. Maybe it's the summertime, and the weather, because many of my memories of you are when you were at the beach. You seemed to love the beach; at least you loved to do cartwheels on the hard sand at low tide. Somehow it would become infectious, and before anyone knew it you and your sisters would all be doing cartwheels down the beach. I think it was the freedom it gave you, and the thrill of spinning head-over-heel time and again. Whatever it was you would giggle and laugh and get out of breathe, but only for a minute, because you couldn't sit still for very long. Soon you would be off digging in the sand, or chasing the waves back and forth at the waters edge. Always moving, that is how I remember you. And when we go on our vacation to the beach this summer, and I look out on the waters edge, I will see you in every little girl chasing the waves, and doing cartwheels on the sand.
Missing you.
Love, Carole
Rachael Button
March 1, 2004
I've been sitting here trying to gather my thoughts. To write something meaningful, something I feel. But I don't know how. To tell you the truth that was always Karyn's department. She always knew just what to say, and how to say it to you, to make you feel good, or let you know exactly how it was. She always knew. I just don't. I found a quote that I'd like to share.
"For some life lasts a short while, but the memories it holds last forever."
~Laura Swenson~
Karyn, I miss you more then I know how to say. I wake up every morning and take a deep breathe, and go on because that is what I have to do, for you.
Kathy Lindgren
December 24, 2003
Denise and family: Karen is in my thoughts everyday and I want to extend my thoughts and prayers to all of you during the holidays. The world has such a void without Karen. I truly hope you get through the holidays and always remember her smile and her love for all of you.
mommy
December 22, 2003
Karyn, there is no way to measure how much I miss you. I miss your beautiful face, your smile, your laugh, your stories, your sweet and loving messages, your hurried steps through the house with a phone at your ear. I am thankful that you have such good and loving friends who will never forget you.
The strength of your sisters and friends, the love and support of my family and friends have helped me through this year.
I beleive you are watching us all and will be our angel in Heaven, as you were on earth.
Forever in my heart.
Love
Michelle Barbaro
December 15, 2003
It's been a long year; part of me has been lost forever and will never be
found. There is such a void in my life. How do I explain our friendship,
our bond, I just can't. I had a best friend, a soul mate, someone that was the symbol of what a best friend should be. Someone who I shared so much with. So many good times....more than most people have in a lifetime, I am so thankful for that. My sorrow is often replaced by happy memories that I have of Karyn, her laughter...she would laugh and laugh...I think that is what I miss the most. Her sense of humor, the jokes that everyone else just didn't get. I miss having her finish my sentences, to know what I was feeling, thinking. I miss spending endless hours talking about everything or spending endless hours talking about nothing. She was such a strong women with the amazing ability to make you feel so good, so important. People often ask me how I've been able to get through this year and I know it's because Karyn is with me, I feel her presence her strength, I know that she wouldn't want it any other way. Last year at this time I thought how am I going to do this, how do I go on without her. I’ve been able to and it has been because I have the most wonderful, amazing, supportive husband who is my other best friend, I have a beautiful, healthy daughter that will forever have a guardian angel, a loving family and wonderful friends...they have been my support and I will forever be thankful to them. To the Button's you are my family and I will love you forever. I miss my best friend everyday and will forever…I know she is still with me and I will see her again.
Love you Butts xoxo
Kerry Brink
September 17, 2003
Every day that goes by is getting harder and harder to realize you are not coming back. I think about you constantly whether it is in my dreams, or while I am awake. I am struggling to find comfort in the fact that I cannot hear your voice, or talk to you face to face about all that is going on in our lives. You were one of a kind, and such a great supportive friend of mine. I talk to you daily and hope that you can hear my words.
Some days are unspeakable of what has happened or why you are gone, and I get so angry that all I can do is cry. I have your pictures all over my house because you brought such laughter and happiness into my life. I don't think there is anyone else that could ever compare to your passion, strength, and humor.
The pain that endures daily will continue until the day I see you again. I wear your bracelet and show everyone that a very special person once wore it. It brings me peace at times to look down at my wrist and think you too had worn it before. I miss you with all my heart my SSS and my heart aches without you in my life.
Happy Birthday to you my sweet friend, and I hope you are smiling down upon us and watching over those of us who loved and adored you. You are forever engrained in my memory, heart, and soul.
love you
Brinky
Matthew Matosic
June 13, 2003
Hey cutie
It's been a long six months but things are definatly getting better. The unbelievable strength of your family and friends has certainly helped. It's no wonder you were the amazing woman I was fortunate enough to know. I miss you so much and will continue to do so till I see you again. I know I will be greeted by that smile, the most beautiful smile I have ever known.
I want to keep writing but I don't feel I can possibly put into words what I feel. No words can do justice to your amazing memory. I know all your family and friends probably feel the same way sometimes. Your awesome and I just wish I could hug you one more time. You fit so nicely into my arms. I'm starting to cry so I have to stop now. Take care sweets. I love you so much. Time may go by but you will live forever in our hearts. XOXO
Melissa Addezio
June 13, 2003
Hi my sweet Angel! How are you? I miss you tons! I can't believe its been 6 months today since your passing. Sometimes it feels like eternity. Butts, I miss you so very much! I miss all of the silly things you used to do and say! Sorry, it has been a few months since I've written to you, but I never stop thinking of you or talking to you.
I have a picture of the girls from our booze cruise on my desk at work. I look at it everyday that I come into the office. Although it makes me cry, it makes me smile too, that I have so many wonderful memories that we all shared together...Good Times Good Times =). Our lives will never be the same without you Karyn, but I do know that you are there with us everytime we get together.
Your sisters are creating a website for you and we are all so excited for it! I gave Kirsten some pictures of you...remember the autie butts picture? You are so funny!
I'll talk to you soon. See you in my dreams and keep sending those signs. Love you lots!!!!
Melis
xoxo
First Annual BUTTS BASH! 80's FUN!
Kirsten
May 23, 2003
Thank you all for you love, support and generous contributions to the 1st Annual Karyn Button Memorial Benefit. It was a HUGE success and SO MUCH FUN! I still can't get over some of your HYSTERICAL costumes. GRODY TO THE MAXX!
Please stay tuned for our website..... www.karynbutton.com
Although it is not yet up and running, we plan it for the near future.
Thank you again and feel free to contact me at [email protected] for any information, ideas, or contributions.
Thanks again, Kirsten, Andrea, Rachael, Michelle, and Denise
April 29, 2003
My memories of Karyn:
-Her, walking into homeroom with Michelle (everyday).
-Her big, curly dew in High School.
-My Graduation partner.
-Love for FRIENDS.
-Love for animals; except the baby squirrel you tried to save by feeding it peanut butter and a skunk ate it! (never forgive you for that one!)
-Always Broke. (HAHA)
-Would always be on your side! (even if you knew deep down you were wrong).
-Her toughness.
-Her softer side.
-Loved children and loved being one sometimes!
-Nana 99.
-The Lake.
-Her many hair styles.
-Halloween Party, falling out the back of the van!
-You, always over Jay and Michelle's.
-Someone, who I am honored to know and call my friend.
Your buddy,
Bealsie
Christine
April 13, 2003
Hey Karyn ~ Just saying hi, and I miss you very much. I still think about you alot. Everyone knows how great of a person you are. And no one can mention your name without a smile coming to their face because of how great you were. I hope you are having an awesome time up there in heaven, and I love you very much.
Always and Forever,
Christine
Joanna Dowling
April 10, 2003
I will never forget December 13th. I am always afraid when the phone rings early that I will hear the unthinkable. It shattered our innocence and changed our lives forever. I had known Karyn for 6 years and was honored to know a wonderful woman who loved to live life the way she wanted to. She was a vivacious person who was devoted to her family and friends. I know I will never meet anyone like Karyn again and I feel honored that I was able to be a part of her life. She was a magnificent friend who never put herself first and was always there when you needed her the most. I can't think of another person who has made me laugh as much as she did.
I feel blessed that she was able to be at our weddings and the birth of Brooke and Taylor. The girls will grow up hearing all her stories and know how much she loved them.
The super seven will never be the same without her but she is still there every moment. The endless memories and her laughter will live in our lives always.
I miss you Karyn and I know one day we will meet again.
To the Button Family, the bond that you have as a family is astounding. You all are in my thoughts and we will always be here for you.
Karyn's friends & family
April 2, 2003
To all Karyn's friends:
Saturday May 3rd we are hosting a benefit to raise money for the Karyn Button Memorial Scholarship Fund, which will benefit a Billerica high school student interested in the arts or education.
We are pleased to announce that this will be an annual event held in her memory, sponsered by her family and friends.
The benefit will be held at the Billerica Irish American Club, 616 Middlesex Turnpike in Billerica from 7:00 PM-midnight on May 3rd.
There will be great gifts raffled off, with plenty of fun music, and snacks. Please feel free to stop by in your best 1980's inspired costumes, as we are hosting this themed event for fun and laughter!
Bring your friends, it's only $10 at the door!
If you can't make it and would like to donate to the scholarship fund please make checks payable to:
The Billerica Scholarship foundation
write the name Karyn Button in the subject line and send to:
Michelle Barbaro 38 Patrick Road, Tewksbury MA 01876
We look forward to seeing you in your 80's garb, so please come and spend a fun filled evening with Karyn's family and friends!
Kathy Lindgren
March 14, 2003
My dearest Karyn, it has been 3 months since we have lost you. My heart aches everytime I look at your picture and I can't help but wonder why? Be at peace and watch over us my pet. I will love you always and forever. Never lose that beautiful smile that brought so much warmth to everyone that you touched. All my thoughts and prayers to the Button family that they will get through the lonely times and know we are all thinking of you.
Kathy
Matthew Matosic
March 13, 2003
Hey Ms Button. I can't believe it's been three months since you left us. It seems at times like it was only yesterday and other times like an eternity. I miss you so much it hurts. Every time a girl walks past me with your Dolce perfume on, I turn around and expect to see you there. Since your passing, I have noticed that the sun does not feel as warm and the moon shines a little less brightly. Any time God takes someone like yourself, our world loses some of it's beauty. You live on in all of our hearts. I know you are keeping an eye on all of us and we appreciate it, especially me. We all know I can use it. On this three month anniversary, I am saying a prayer for all your family and friends, for they have been so strong. I wish I could be with you now and everyday, but we have to keep on going. What's special is that we move on with a greater sense of urgency to live our lives like you lived yours. You are my inspiriation. My inspiration to live every day like it may be my last. To do good in the face of evil and above all, not take life so damn seriously. I love you and miss you dearly. God bless you.
Amy Paro
March 8, 2003
Kirsten and Family~
What is there to say? I am sorry? It isn't fair? Both so true, yet so inadequate. All we can do is remember the memories and let the good times live on inside of us. It helps me to know that Mandy and Karyn are not alone and that perhaps they are together, looking down on us - living, laughing, and causing a whole lot of trouble! As for us, with time we will get through (not over) these difficult times and will soon be comforted by the love we share for our sisters! You are in my thoughts - if there is anything I can do - PLEASE ask. Sometimes an understanding ear makes all the difference.
My deepest sympathy!
Amy Paro
Alison Hillman
February 12, 2003
I met Karyn when we both worked at Tender Learning Center. We became fast friends. Karyn and I used to go to Chilis after work all the time. We often met to go shopping. Something we all know that Karyn loved to do. When I left TLC we remained good friends. Karyn helped me register for my bridal shower and actually caught my bouquet at my wedding. She was always so much fun to be around. I will never forget how wonderful Karyn was. She was a person who was always there for you when you needed her. Karyn supported me through my difficult pregnancy and was there for me this past year when I ended up spending 14 weeks in bed. Once my baby was born Karyn didn't get a chance to see her because my baby was premature and spent awhile in the hospital and Karyn had a cold so she stayed away following doctors orders. I regret not letting her come anyways because she never got to see her. Michelle was very kind and brought me the gifts that Karyn got for the baby. One was a diaper pale so I think of her often when I change those diapers. I miss Karyn a lot and hope she realizes how much I loved her. She was awesome. Love, Alison
Heather Ransom
February 10, 2003
Karyn,
You will always be in my heart. I love you very much and Michelle you too.
My prays are with you all,
Melissa Addezio
January 5, 2003
Just when you think you and your friends are invincible to the world and nothing could ever go wrong, we, as were all of you, hit with the shock of a lifetime on December 13th. Karyn was the heart and center of our group of friends. Words can not express how we all feel during this emotional time in our lives. What brings us comfort, is all of the beautiful memories we have of Karyn.
Denise, Kirsten, Andrea & Rachael--
You are the strongest group of women I have ever met. We love you all. Our thoughts and prayers will forever be with you. Thank you for giving us Karyn. The short time we had with her will remain in our hearts forever.
Shellie--
The bond you shared with Karyn is one of a kind. I have never seen a closer friendship than that of you and Butts. Whenever you mentioned Shellie's name, Butts always followed and vice versa. It was always 'Shellie & Butts'. Shellie, we love ya and are here for you, always! Friends Forever!
Butts--
Whenever I think of the blessings God has given me, my thoughts turn to you...and all the ways your friendship has touched my life. I love you, miss you, wish you were here. Friends are friends forever, memories never die. Where there's a goodbye, it allows for a hello...
until we meet again KButts.
Luv Ya! Melis xoxo
Alyssa LaPrise
January 3, 2003
Karyn,
You touched all of us in so many ways. You made us smile, you made us laugh and most of all you showed us how to make the most out of life.
I enjoyed working with you so much. You always put a smile on my face Karyn. God bless your beautiful heart and I will always remember you.
My warmest wishes and prayers always to the Button family.
Diane & Gene Heider
December 28, 2002
Karyn was a wonderful and beautiful young woman whom we had the honor of calling our "other daughter" for many years. We had the privilege of her spending time with us on vacations, holidays, birthdays and just everyday. We had the joy of watching Michelle and Karyn growing up together and sharing one of the closest friendships that could ever be imagined. Karyn,we love you and miss you, you will be in our thoughts and prayers forever.
Denise, thank you for sharing Karyn with us. We enjoyed every moment of it. Always know, we are here for anything you or the girls might need.
nicole mccluskey
December 26, 2002
TO THE BUTTON FAMILY,
Karyn was a beautiful girl who lived life to the fullest. We all know that she is in a better place now but what we all think is why did god take her so early and that is what we are going to wonder all of our lives until he brings us to him too. No one is going to forget her because of her awesome bubbly personality. We all need to be strong together and keep our tears in because we know that Karyn wouldn’t want us to cry. It still isn’t real to all of us but we have to accept things that happen everything happens for a reason. People wont know the reason that they took her a beautiful girl with millions of friends all over the world. At least she had a great life for 27 years. She’s up there watching over everyone like a guardian angel because that is what she always was an angel. Karyn will always be in everyone’s heart. I don’t know how anyone could forget her. This is a poem I wrote for Karyn that I want to share with everyone that is going to read this page.
Karyn our guardian angel
We know you’re up there
We don’t know why
He had to take you
So soon so alive
You have friends and family
That you left behind
We miss you daily
With all our hearts
I am sure know one forgets
The beautiful girl that
Once was here on
This Earth
Our Guardian Angel
Karyn
Carol
December 26, 2002
To the Button family and all of Karyn's friends...I am deeply sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers. Karyn was a lovely young woman and will be sadly missed.
December 23, 2002
Karyn was such a beautiful person inside & out she will be missed. I remeber Karyn always having a smile on her face. Michelle & The Button family you are in my thoughts & prayers.
Brent Carter
December 23, 2002
I have known Karyn for a little over a year. She was visiting a friend in Southern California, watching a Monday Night Football game at a restaurant, when I offered the two of them to sit down next to me, as there were no other seats to be had. Never has a stranger been so cordial, so kind, and made me laugh so hard than Karyn Button did that night. From that point forward, I stayed in contact with her (and her friend, Chris). To some people, it would seem pointless to maintain long-distance contact with someone you only knew for a brief moment, but I would wager that those people have never met Karyn.
We were able to get to know each other more and more over the next several months via phone and e-mail. The more we talked, the more I realized who she was, how special she was, and how much more I wanted to be included in her life. I had planned to take a vacation back east, with my primary intent to visit Karyn, but I had to change my plans to go to Dallas due to a loss in my family. (Karyn, I never told you about that, did I?).
Then, this Spring, she was suddenly on her way out to Southern California, again. She called me up and asked, “Guess who’s going to be in LA next week?” I couldn’t wait, as she and I made plans to hang out while she was in town. Well, work kept me from seeing Karyn until her second-to-last night in town, when her and I, along with Chris, all met up again, where we first met. Because I was lucky enough to be let into Karyn’s life, and her heart, the time we all spent that night together felt like old friends being reunited. I was saddened when she went back home, being a bit selfish, but I knew she had family and friends to return to back east.
Soon after she returned to Boston, friends of mine, that were technically my clients, invited me (and a guest) to go with them on their company trip to Maui, Hawaii. I immediately called up Karyn, and I was ecstatic when she accepted my invitation. We had an incredible time in Maui to say the least. Never have I spent time with someone so vibrant, so charismatic, or so thoughtful than Karyn. Already feeling like I was a part of her life, and me hers, I will never forget her or our trip to Maui together, along with all the other friends we had met.
Please allow me to share with you the e-mail I sent her upon our return to the mainland and our homes:
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Karyn,
Thank you very much for coming to Maui with me. I couldn't have brought a more perfect, fun, loving, caring, social person. Did I mention perfect? Well, it was worth mentioning again.
Part of me wished that we could have just done our own thing the whole time we were there, but the other part of me enjoyed the party-atmosphere created by you and the AFLAC people. The mixture of the two, however, did make for great times. I also wished that you would have had more time to be out in California & Hawaii.
I fully expect and hope to maintain contact with you, as I believe you are truly special. Please call or visit anytime.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Love,
Brent
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To Karyn’s sisters and mother, to whom she spoke of fondly and often, and to whom I feel like, through Karyn, I have known for a long time: I extend to you forever, my heart and warmth and deepest sympathies.
To Karyn’s friends, to whom I know only through her stories and tales of adventures: Please embrace and be well with her family, for it is all of you who made up the very angel she is.
To Karyn: Simply put, I will never forget you, as you are trapped in my heart and soul forever.
P.S. In response to your text message to me late Wednesday night/Thursday morning (12/12/02)… "I miss you, too!"
Casey Mahoney
December 23, 2002
To Karyn's family and friends,
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart sank when I heard the news about Karyn, and my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I went to high school with Karyn and played a couple years of soccer with her as well. As many have already written she was a beautiful person inside and out. She could make anyone smile on their darkest of days. Remember the good times. There is a poem called "Success", as I'm sure some have read, and I believe the last line of the poem explains her life here..."To know that one life has breathed easier because you have lived, this is to have succeeded." Karyn was a beautiful person and will never be forgotten.
My deepest sympathies,
Casey Mahoney
Class of 1994
Jason Hamilton
December 23, 2002
Karyn,
I will miss you. I know you are in Heaven, smiling down upon us.
Love,
Jason
Kerry Brink
December 23, 2002
On December 13th my group of friends lost our most vibrant and spontaneous member. Karyn was the one who lead our group in laughter, happiness, and the most wild times of our lives. Every day we grow stronger as friends knowing we have a guardian angel watching over us. We feel Karyn's presence every time we are together, and keep her memory alive by laughing at our funny stories of good times with her. She touched all of our lives because she lived her life to the fullest, and loved us for who we are.
She nicknamed our group the Super Seven, and that we will remain. Karyn lives in every one of us, every time we laugh, smile, or even cry. We hold her in our thoughts and prayers, and make sure she will never miss our conversations. For six years she was part of our life, and will be for an eternity more.
The loss of Karyn is immeasurable, we love her family as it is our own, and promise to keep in touch and tell stories of our crazy times spent together. Karyn's family is the most amazing group of women, and it is no wonder how Karyn became such a wonderful person.
K Butts you are surely missed, we will never forget you. The nicknames you had for everyone still makes us crack up every time we think about it. You are the definition of a great friend, a beautiful person, and a talented artist. We love you always!
Until we meet again...
xoxo
Ginny
December 22, 2002
My Dearest Friend Denise,my other daughter Kirsten, Rachael and Andrea,
How my heart aches for you! We will all miss Karyn. She always made me feel special as she did many people. God needed another beautiful angel to watch over us and give us strength. You know where I am anytime day or night. We have gone through a lot in the past and we will help each other through this too. All the good memories will get you through. Remember all the fun times, the strays, and the shopping, the decorating, any time you want to share a story even if I've heard it before you know where to find me. I love you guys.
Ginny
Kathy Lindgren
December 22, 2002
My deepest and sincerest sympathies go out to the Button family. I knew Karyn for many years (she dated my son), and I always thought of her as the daughter I never had. Karyn was warm, kind, caring, and always loving. She thought of everyone before herself and my heart is broken that she is gone from my life. Words cannot explain the beauty of Karyn inside and out and I will miss her everyday of my life. Karyn is at peace now and I do believe "the good die young". Karyn, I will always love you and you will hold a very special place in my heart for the rest of my life.
All my prayers and thoughts to the Button family so they may somehow get through this tragedy.
All my love,
Kathy (your second mom)
Watch over us Karyn and keep that beautiful smile on your face.
I LOVE YOU!
Paula
December 22, 2002
Karen was a sweet and kind person who will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Charla Horton
December 22, 2002
What a beautiful way to let Karyn's family know your thoughts. Kepp sending your loving messages.
Alan Traynor
December 21, 2002
My memory of Karen is gentleness, and a warm heart especially towards children and anyone who needed her. Rachael, your song for Karen was beautiful and moving. Kirsten, you are a very strong woman and your deep love for Karen was so obvious at the Mass.
She was a blessed woman to have such loving sisters as Andrea,Kirsten and Rachael, and an extremely Loving Mother Denise who always went the extra mile for her daughters. I could go on all day about the Love I witnessed in the button Home, but anyone who knows these women already know what I know, that their house is a house of Love. I will never forget Karen, that would be impossible, she is in my thoughts everyday.
Karen is too strong a spirit to be quiet, keep looking for that sign, she is with you all!
May Love always bless your home.
My heart goes out to you all.
Alan
December 21, 2002
Denise, I admire your incredible strength. I always felt you were a strong person. If you ever need even just to talk over coffee, or a hug, please call. As a mom, I can only imagine the pain you must feel. but your memories of this beautiful daughter that you can be proud of, will keep you going.It must be comforting to hear and read the incredible entries that are all so consistent describing a wonderful human being! call me when you are ready... lots of hope, and prayers for you and your girls!
Pauline (Jillett)
Tracy Chute (Penrose)
December 21, 2002
To my other family.. My heart goes out to you. I have tried to search for the words to express my feelings about Karyn, but there are way too many. She was a beautiful person and will be sorely missed.
Denise
December 21, 2002
Karyn was a beautiful girl with a strong spirit. Thank you all for your love and support.
Chrissy Alfano
December 20, 2002
I had the opportunity to work with Karyn at Tender Learning Centre for 3 years. I remember her laugh and her smile most. The older children looked up to her so much... She was a natural in the classroom, and a favorite among students as well as staff. I ran into Karyn last year, after not having seen her for quite some time, and she greeted me with a great big hug. She was always so genuinely warm and friendly.
My heart has been heavy since I heard the news about Karyn.
To her family: I've never had the chance to meet you, but my thoughts and prayers are with you. Karyn was a wonderful person, and she will be missed by so many.
Dorothy and Joseph Balestrieri
December 20, 2002
We send our deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family.
The Balestrieri Family
Kirsten, Andrea, Rachael, Denise, Michelle
December 20, 2002
Remember Karyn.
Remember when she was the life of the party. And NO, there was never a dull moment.
Remember when you needed a shoulder to cry on, the strength to go on, an ear to listen- when you needed her smile, her laugh, or just one of her funny remarks… and she was there. Always.
Remember when she had a smile for you, even when inside she was crying.
Remember when she made you feel like you were the most important person in the world- whether you met her 10 minutes ago, or 10 years ago.
Remember when she “BORROWED” your black tank, your black pants, your black sweater? It’s still in her closet.
Remember when she made up that funny nickname, and all the times she had you on the floor laughing so hard you could not physically stand up.
Remember when she sat on your lap, and hugged you, and told you how much she loved you.
Remember when she brought home the strays- the stray cats, the stray ferrets, the stray bunnies… the stray friends.
Remember when she jumped on your back and made you carry her, laughing.
Remember when she wrote you that poem that touched you so deep, sent you that card just at the right time, and bought you more presents than she could afford.
Remember when she thought YOUR purple popsicle was MUCH BETTER than HER purple popsicle. And you had to trade.
Remember that you always knew where you stood with her, … and it was usually up on a pedestal.
Remember when she told you that you were her best friend… you were.
Remember when she said if there were reincarnation, she would definitely come back as a cat- so if anyone spots a blacks cat, struttin' her stuff with a cell phone attached to her ear- give us a call- we want to take her home.
Remember when she listened without judgment, and cried when you sang, and gave you the best advice, and encouraged you to live life to the fullest- as she did.
Remember when she was gone, but you still sensed her presence, heard her laugh, felt her warmth, smelled her scent, saw her beauty etched in you mind.
Remember Karyn as teacher, dancer, artist, friend, lover, granddaughter, niece, cousin, godmother, best friend, sister, daughter.
Remember Karyn. Quite honestly, how could anyone forget?
THANK YOU ALL FOR HELPING US REMEMBER KARYN. YOUR WORDS HAVE BEEN SO COMFORTING AND UPLIFTING. IT MAKES US OVERWHELMINGLY HAPPY TO KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE SHE WAS ABLE TO TOUCH IN SUCH A SHORT TIME.
THANK YOU AGAIN.
December 19, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go out to Karyn's family and friends.
(Billerica, Ma)
Sarah Porter
December 19, 2002
Karyn, I remember when we first met at Dan's in Cape Cod. We were both visiting him for his birthday but ended up hitting it off so well, I don't think he got 2 words in the whole day! I remember you telling me you could help me out with getting some extra jobs and being so surprised when you really did call me with work a couple days later. You are such a sincere and genuine person. I don't think I ever told you this but you have been one of my best friends since I met you that day in June and I love you for all you have given me through your friendship. You better know that those promos (or nights out in general) will never be quite the same without you. This past week I can't help but think 'I wish Karyn was here' where ever I am. You were always there when I needed you for a good time or a good cry and I can only hope that I was as good a friend to you as you were to me. I just wish I got a chance to tell you all this in person. I love you Karyn,
Sarah
D. Balkan
December 19, 2002
To Karyn's Friends and Family:
We send our deepest sympathy and condolences to you. We were fortunate enough to know Karyn throughout middle and high school. Karyn was a very kind and beautiful person. We're so sorry for your loss.
"Some people touch your life for a moment and disappear the next. The love they leave behind is the stuff memories are made of. May beautiful memories give you the strength at this difficult time."
Darlene Balkan and
Wendi Balestrieri-Balkan
Alexandra Ketschke
December 19, 2002
To Karyn’s family – I am so sorry for your loss. I was lucky enough to have met Karyn 2 years ago through work. One night a few months back, Karyn & I met for dinner. I was upset about a family problem and confided in Karyn. I noticed as I was talking to her, she had begun to cry along with me– just because she was sad that I was hurting. She was truly a special person. She spoke often of her sisters, mother and best friend Michelle. She loved you all very much.
To Karyn – From the moment we met 2 years ago, I knew that we would be great friends. You greeted me with a warm hug and amazing smile every time I’d see you. That is something I will never forget. Everyone who saw you noticed how beautiful you are, and as soon as they spoke to you, realized you have an equally beautiful heart. I feel lucky that you were a part of my life and will miss you more than I can say. You were an angel on earth - now you are an angel in heaven.
Your friend forever,
Alex
December 19, 2002
that was beautiful christine/
Maura Hutchinson
December 19, 2002
I worked with Karyn for a few years, and through work we became friends. And although we lost touch, the news of this tragedy hit me as if we just spoke yesterday. That is the type of impact that Karyn left on everyone. Whether you met her yesterday or ten years ago, you could never forget her, and I never will.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Karyn's family and friends.
December 18, 2002
I received the privilege of meeting Karyn only recently. From what I saw she was a vibrant beautiful girl who was so full of life. I am so saddened that I didn't get the chance to get to know her even better. I pray for the strength of her family and her friends who loved her so dearly to get through this sad time. Karyn, you will live in our hearts forever.
Rhonda Lee
December 17, 2002
To Karyns family, Melissa and all of Karyns friends, my thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss.
Christine Heider
December 17, 2002
I think that I will start this off by saying something to Denise, Kirsten, Andrea and Rachael ~ I Love you all very much. Even though we did not hang out as often as Karyn, Shellie and I did, I still think of you as very close friends. When my Mom first told me on Friday when I got home from practice I was in shock. I just could not believe it. And ever since then all I can think is “Why? Why did God feel that he had to take such a beautiful person from us?” But we will never know the answer to that question because He works in strange ways. Karyn was the type of person that no matter what was happening she could make you laugh, she was always happy, always smiling. I loved her just as much as I love my sister Michelle. I honestly don’t think that I ever did get to tell her that I loved her, but I do hope that she knew it. Karyn was the true definition of beautiful, both on the inside and on the out. She was such a special person, and you can easily see all of the lives that she touched, and you know what? She will continue to touch those lives! I want to tell you that if you need anything I’m here. And I love you so much.
Next I want to say something to my sister Michelle ~ I Love you Shellie. And all that we can do now is remember the good times that we had. Like the times we went to Chili’s and got the chips with the cheese and salsa dip. The times we went to pick out “honeymoon” clothes, and your wedding dress and the bridesmaid dresses. I always felt so important when you two would take me out with you. And I would like to thank you for that. Just try to remember all of the good times and that she is always with you. Even more now than she was before, you can still talk to her everyday, even when you are on vacations. And now Taylor has a Guardian Angel that will love her as much as her Mommy does. Taylor will not grow up not knowing her Auntie Karyn, if anything she will know her better because of all of the stories (PG of course). You and Karyn’s memories will never be forgotten in your mind. Someday when you are older and you are sitting on your porch swing you will all of a sudden have a wonderful flash back of you and her when you were very, very young. And you will laugh until tears fall down your cheeks, and Karyn will be sitting right there with you laughing just as hard if not harder. And to Jason ~ You too lost so much when Karyn left. People may not know it but she was also very close with you. Like everyone said when you were getting married to Shellie, “You have two wives.” I just want to thank you too for all of the fun times that you, Shell, & Karyn gave to me over all the years. I love you both very much and if there is anything that I can do just let me know.
And to The Girls (& The Guys) ~ I love you all too. You and Karyn were great friends to me since I’ve met you. I am so sorry that your circle of friends lost such a great person. She will watch over you all and when you are out having fun she will be there. Razz I like how you said, “only the good die young” because it’s very true. Karyn was the best.
Now to Karyn ~ Hey Girl! I miss you. “If tears could build stairs, and memories a lane I would walk right up to heaven and bring you home.” Wow, now that I have the chance to say something to you I don’t know what to say. I Love You. You were like another sister to me. Did I ever tell you that? Well if I did then I am telling you again. And if I didn’t then you now know. It meant so much to me these past few days to hear your family tell me that you loved me like a little sister. I didn’t know that. You were such a bright, bright, bubbly person. Your addictive personality won you so many friends. It seems like everywhere you went you touched lives! I want to thank you so very, very, very much for toting me around everywhere. I felt special. All those times that you and Shell & I had together were so much fun. Do you remember the times when you would come over and help Shellie, Brian & I decorate cookies for Christmas? You were always a great decorator (Brian said that the other night). How about the times up at the boat calling each other by our middle names? (Brian thought of that too). I guess the only thing to do is remember those fun times. Please keep watch over all of us. Make sure that we don’t do anything too crazy. I wrote you a few poems, but I’ll let you read them some other time. I love you Karyn. You were one of the best things that could ever happen to my sister. So please take extra special care of her and Jay now. And the girls! Don’t forget to watch over the girls. Ok I’ll go now, let you rest up there in heaven. I hope you are having fun. Is it as beautiful as they say? I Love You, and if I can do anything for your family or any of your friends tell me somehow, please. So good-bye for now, until we meet again. Hugs & Kisses with lots and lots of love. XoXoXoXo.
Love Always,
Christine
Ps. Brian says he misses you a lot too.
And to everyone that Karyn has ever touched in anyway: I am so sorry for the loss. She was such a beautiful and great person. I guess this just goes to show you that when you feel that you should tell someone something then tell it to them. Because you don’t know if there will be a tomorrow.
Stacey
December 17, 2002
My deepest sympathy to her mom, sisters, and family. Karyn was a great kid. I went to the Marshall Middle with her she always tried to help me. She was always smiling and always wearing beautiful clothes that her mom made her. We also went to Middlesex together.. always friendly and happy. God bless her, she will never be forgotten.
Stacey
K. Lynch
December 17, 2002
To Karyn's Family and Friends:
My daughter was a student at Tender Learning Centre while Karyn worked there. I always knew that she was in good hands when Karyn was there. It was very apparent that Karyn genuinely cared about the kids. Her enthusiasm and warmth were a joy for any parent to see, when leaving their child with her. I was sad to see her leave TLC, and I am sad to hear of this tragedy.
My deepest condolences to you all.
Larissa DeMeo
December 17, 2002
Rachael, I am so sorry to hear about Karyn. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and have been all week, and you have my deepest sympathy.
Peter Iarossi Jr.
December 16, 2002
I had the time of my life with karyn this summer. She could light up a room like no other person. I have never met someone like her. This summer at the lake was so great. The friends she had , i can't say it enough but they all had that special glow around her. I know they all love her and anyone who did know her will always love her. I went to the cayman islands with her . She made that trip so fun. I will remember her and always have her close to my heart. Love Always Peter
Linda McKim
December 16, 2002
To Karyn's Family and Friends,
I met Karyn several years ago. I worked with her at Pediatric Dental Associates. She was so happy, so full of life, and had a heart of gold. What a beautiful girl! We had some good times. She always made me laugh. My deepest sympathies to all of you. The world will be a sadder place without her. She will always remain in my heart.
Jill Kukis
December 16, 2002
My deepest condolences on your loss. God bless you and help you through this difficult time.
December 16, 2002
coach, I am sorry for the loss of your daughter.
C.Kennedy LHS
Lisa Phinney (Allendorf)
December 16, 2002
Dear Kirsten and Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Kirsten, my heart goes out to you. I remember meeting your sister, she was a lovely person and loved you so very much. Please know you all in my prayers.
Love, Lisa
December 16, 2002
beautiful beautful girl
Danielle (Ouellette) Athanasiadis
December 16, 2002
To Denise, Kirsten, Andrea, and Rachael. My family and I have known your family for many years and will never forget Karyn's warm and friendly personality.
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Karyn will never be forgotten!
God Bless
Kerry Conlin
December 16, 2002
To Denise and the Button Family - My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Janneen Pagliuca
December 16, 2002
To the Button Family~ I met Karyn in high school, but it wasn't until after we graduated that I got to know her better. She was a funny, friendly & energetic person! Since I heard the news on Friday you have all been in my thoughts & I have been praying for you all.
God Bless you
Michelle~Words can't express what I have been feeling for you & for Karyn's family. I was shocked when I heard this horrible news. Please know that I am praying for you to get through this.
Ken and Michael Victory HVAC
December 16, 2002
Karyn, often stopped by to brighten our day. We will miss her greatly
David Aylward
December 16, 2002
To Kirsten and Family
I received the news of Karyn yesterday and I am sad to hear of your loss. I only got to spend a few years getting to know Karyn and she was a wonderful person. I have great memories of your family and my thoughts are with you at such a difficult time.
Denise & JP Doyle
December 16, 2002
To The Button Family,
JP and I knew Karen through High School, she was a fun loving energetic woman and the few times I went out with her were memories that will last forever. We were in absolute shock when we found out about this, We are so sorry for your loss.
Michelle- Our prayers are with you. I cannot imagine the pain that you are going through right now I just cannot imagine it. Summer called me on Friday and I just couldn't speak when she told me. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Kevin Penrose
December 16, 2002
Karen was loved and will be sorley missed. My wishes go out to the Button family.
JODI CLEMENT
December 16, 2002
To the Button family & friends,
I had the privelage of working with Karyn at Tender Learning Center for four years. She was the best to work with. No matter what she always put a smile on your face and the children's. She was a smart, thoughtfull and beautiful woman. She will be greatly missed.
R.I.P "Butts" love you!
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