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John Schneider Obituary

John M. Schneider Ph.D Old Mission Born March 20, 1939, Battle Creek, Michigan - April 12, 2011 Old Mission, Michigan John received a Distinguished Professor Emeritus from Michigan State University's Colleges of Medicine for service from 1970-1995. During that time he also received a Distinguished Faculty Award. In 1995 John and his wife,Sharon Olson, moved to Old Mission Peninsula. John's clinical focus became one of developing holistic healing programs for people with chronic or life-threatening illness while also addressing grief and loss issues. He also saw a need to develop healing communities as a part of individual and collective ways to live fully. To that extent he worked with the Chamber of Commerce and local fire departments in bringing New York City firefighters from 9/11 to Traverse City for a program of renewal and healing while also participating in a local program of renewal and healing for returning Iraq veterans. John also collaborated for many years with Dr. Marilyn Schneider and Dr. Sam Copeland to assist with patient psychological support at the Center for Health in Traverse City. In 2008 he joined Sharon in her Partners in Prevention practice to comprehensively focus on wellness/prevention programs from a clinical coaching perspective. Before his untimely death due to complications from a fall, John had just completed the third edition of Finding My Way- From Trauma to Transformation: The Journey through Loss and Grief. (Seasons Press, 2011) representing a culmination of his lifelong commitment to address grief holistically and validate each unique grief journey including his own. He will be greatly missed his wife and soul mate of twenty four years, his sister Elizabeth Kreider (Kent), his daughters Betsy Schneider (Frank Ekeberg), Anne Schneider (Shawn Mann Roland), Rachel, and his grandchildren Madeleine, Viktor, Kasper, and Ozzie, Sharon's children - John Olson (Tovah), Clarissa Kewin and grandchildren -Taylor and Casey Wilamowski, Mckenna, Bronwyn, Rhiannan, and Finnegan Kewin. John was also grateful for many loving friends and colleagues who shared and supported his life journey. It is said that people remember not what we do but what we are about. John was about- continuing to learn new perspectives, being a caring friend, a kind and gentle man who journeyed with people through very difficult times while never giving up on them. He believed in growing friendships and communities of all shapes and sizes. He was adamant about giving blood regularly. Most profoundly he brought forth our best self when we could not see it in ourselves. He deeply loved his family knowing intimately that grief 's journey is a powerful teacher of what is truly to be cherished in our lifetime. A celebration of John's life will take place on Tuesday at Central United Methodist Church in Traverse City with participation the Unitarian ministry. A social gathering will be from 12-1 p.m. with the service of celebration from 1-2 p.m. Donations may be made to the Traverse Health Clinic (traversehealthclinic.org) in support of psychological support services and the Munson Hospice and Palliative Care Program (munsonhealthcare.org).

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Apr. 17 to Apr. 24, 2011.

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Fred & Rebecca Schaafsma

April 26, 2011

Dear Sharon
Our lives are better for John's compassion, kindness and thoughtfulness. His work at UUCGT was so wonderful and we miss his insight. We wish you comfort in the many happy memories. We are keeping you in our thoughts and close to our hearts. Our sincere condolences.
Fred and Rebecca

April 26, 2011

Dear Sharon, Betsy, Anne, Rachel and families
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't believe that John has left this world, but the influence he has made our all of our lives will long continue. I first met him when I travelled with him and Betsy to Poland in 1992 and gosh we had a lot of fun! He was such a supportive dad, so proud of all of his children and their art. He must have been very proud of the Guggenheim Fellowship.

You are all in our thoughts.

Warm regards

Angie (London)

Paul Streng

April 20, 2011

I had the privilege of knowing and working with John early in his career at Michigan State. He was a kind, gentile and caring man, who was always focused in helping others. The world is, without question, a better place because of John's work and life. May his journey richly reward him for his unselfish dedication to others.

April 19, 2011

Dear Sharon, Betsy, Anne, Rachel and families, We were so saddened to hear of John's passing.We wish you great comfort at this time and will remember John's presence and warm heart throughout our days. Much love, Angela, Renato, Luca and Giovanni Lombardi

Karen (Allemier) Howland

April 18, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I am a former MSU Dept. of Psychiatry employee and remember Dr. Schneider's caring and positive outlook and his continuous smile. He will be missed by so many.

Janet Moore

April 18, 2011

Remembering John's ready smile and constant good cheer.....

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