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Tilman Self Obituary

Tilman E. Self, Jr. -MACON - Tilman E. Self, Jr., 67, died Saturday, February 23, 2008. He was 67 years old. "Pop" was a simple man who enjoyed simple things. He had a deep faith, he adored his family and he loved to fish. Funeral ervices will be held at 2:00PM Wednesday, February 27, 2008, at Pine Forest Baptist Church. Dr. Norm Yukers, The Reverend Stephen N. Johnson, and The Reverend Joe S. McDaniel will be officiating. Burial will be at Macon Memorial Park. The family may be contacted at 1071 Bentley Road, Knoxville, GA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hospice of Central Georgia, P.O. Box 6533, Macon, GA 31208. -Nothing made him more happy than when he was with his family. He enjoyed traveling with his wife, Celeste, with whom he had taken several international trips. He deeply loved his two boys, Tripp and Shane. He passed on to them his love of hunting and fishing, and the importance of family. However, his greatest gift came in the form of a good name, that he received unblemished from his father and that he protected and preserved through unflinching honesty and integrity, sacrificial love for family and plain hard work. He poured his life into the lives of his children and grandchildren, never missing an opportunity to tell them how much he loved them and how proud he was of them and their families. When he wasn't working, Pop was fishing. Although he fished extensively in South America and other exotic locations, he was never happier than on his own dock with his grandchildren, developing his next generation of fishermen. He was at peace on the water and from there, he drew his strength. He fished his last day on this Earth, and thus, we know he died a happy, peaceful and contented man. Finally, he had a deep, abiding and personal faith in God. He modeled God's Grace, loving unconditionally and accepting totally. He lived out his faith and taught his family through his example. Today, we know that he is with his Eternal Father and he awaits us there. Although we hurt, we take great comfort and joy in knowing that his faith has been rewarded. Pop was a Southern gentleman and a "gentle" man. We miss him. -Mr. Self is survived by his wife, Celeste L. Self of Knoxville, GA; sons, Judge Tilman E. "Tripp" Self, III (Carlen) of Macon, and Michael Shane Self (Amy) of Perry; three grandchildren, Dalton Michael Self and Colby Luke Self, both of Perry, and Walker Manning Self of Macon; two brothers, J. Philip Self, Sr. of Atlanta and Judge William J. Self, II (Jane) of Macon; sister, Alera Jill Elliott of Atlanta; Step-son, Samuel Rhode Lacey of Knoxville, GA; step-daughter, Brittany Leah Lacy (Ben Siegel) of Mt. Pleasant, SC; and many nieces and nephews. -Hart's Mortuary has charge of arrangements. Tilman Self, Jr.

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Published by The Telegraph from Feb. 25 to Feb. 27, 2008.

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Randall Jones

March 16, 2008

To the Self family, my prayers are with each of you. Tilman and I were best of friends while growing up in the Bloomfield area of Macon. We shared many good times fishing, hunting, Boy Scouts, etc. I stayed at his house almost as much as my own during the summers and were always helping his sweet mother with outside chores (weeding flower beds etc. just to earn a little spending money as teens). The one defining event was our "survival" (by the grace of God) when my motor bike was hit by a car late one summer night right in front of Tilman's house with Tilman riding on the buddy seat. We were left bleeding and bruised but came out of it ok. However, when the ambulance arrived, Mrs. Self was the one taken to the hospital suffering from shock. After college, I moved from Macon and lost contact with Tilman over the years but I would not take anything for the memories. I look forward to seeing him again and together and we can rejoice and sing praises eternally to our Heavenly Father.

Ray Shepherd

March 7, 2008

Tilman Self is a great soul. He contributed years of tireless dedication to Bloomfield Little League with my dad in the early years of the league's inception. The last time I saw Tilman was on Upper River RD looking at a house for rennovation. It was good to see and speak with him that day. He will be missed but I do believe without a shadow of doubt, he is in paradise with our Father. My prayer is that God with continue to comfort this family in the days ahead. We will "all" be raptured up soon, so everybody hold on and remain strong in these latter days. Can't wait to see Tilman again in heaven.
My Deepest Sympathies,
Ray Shepherd Jr

Julie and Jim Bragg

February 29, 2008

Our sincere sympathy to the Self families for your immense loss.

A special promise to Walker and her cousins... you'll have your own Fishing Angel with you now, when you're fishing on the River! Your Pop will be luring the big ones in for you.

HLS Cabinets, LLC (Hilton Smith & Jeanette Bradshaw)

February 29, 2008

May God comfort you and your family in this time of great loss. We truly understand the complete emptiness that you are feeling at this time. Take comfort in all the memories you made together down through the years for these will be what sustains you in the coming days. From all we have heard and all we have read, your Dad was a fine man. You will sorrow because he is gone, but then rejoice for all the wonderful years you shared with him and for the example he gave to you as a Father, Grandfather, husband, brother, and friend. Our prayers are with you. God bless.

Michelle Metcalf

February 29, 2008

Phil & Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Self Family. I pray you find strength in God during these difficult days ahead.
God Bless All of You,

Dennis Haddock

February 28, 2008

Celeste and Family, Tillman was a great man and a good friend for many many years. He always had a smile on his face. He will be missed by many. May God be with you all.You will be in our Prayers.

Randall Griffin

February 28, 2008

Dear Self Family,
I only knew Bro. Tilman for a short time at Pine Forest and will never forget the day he and his wife joined our church family. He gave me alot of imput on the 100th Anniversary of Pine Forest this past year and I will never forget his love for his Saviour and family. He spoke fondly of you all and I know without a shadow of a doubt that we will all see him again someday. May the God of all creation keep you all safe and be with you during this time of grief.
God Bless !!!
Randall Griffin
Pine Forest Baptist
Men's Ministry

Vickie Horton

February 28, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies. I met Mr. Self one day when my brakes failed on my truck. I was in the middle of the road when the Lord sent (Mr. Self) my help. He didn't hesitate to assist me by pushing my truck out of the road; He also was nice enough to drive me (a stranger) back home. We need more angels like this today. I thank God for allowing me to meet him.

Patricia and Perry Walker

February 28, 2008

Tripp We are Ash's parents. We send our condolences to you and your family.
Your father must have been an exceptional man .

Leah Chanin

February 27, 2008

Tiklman, I am sorry to hear of your father"s death. My sincere condolences. Leah L. Chanin( formerly of Macon, now of Washington, D.C.)

Vicki Hammond

February 27, 2008

I am so saddened by the lost of Tilman Self Jr. That Self name just emanated what South Macon folks wanted to be. Every member of the family is so talented. Tilman was just plain good. Always willing to help anyone--including me. The obituary was perfection. He leaves behind a legacy that any of us would be proud to have. I love you all and am so sorry I could not be with you today.

John & Peggy Knight

February 27, 2008

We wish to express our sympathy for the passing of a great man.He will be sorely missed by the community, friends and most of all family.God bless you all!

Tammi Lavender Sledge

February 27, 2008

I have heard that it takes a wise, honest and trustworthy man to lead and teach others to live in the same way as he. I never personally met Mr. Tillman Self, but since moving to the Byron area and hearing his name,only good words were spoken about him. I can personally attest to the honesty and trustworthiness he instilled into his children. My thoughts and prayers are with the Self family and my gratitude to the Lord for giving the world a honest man who taught his family the same morals.

Debra Gillis Hardison

February 27, 2008

Bill & Jill-I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish for you God's blessings, and I will keep you in my prayers.

Morgan and Tammy Jones

February 27, 2008

Tripp, Shane, and Family

Tilman was a true Christian man with whom we are glad God allowed our paths to cross. He reached out to us and helped us get into our first house as a young couple. He was always there when we needed him with indescribable graciousness. May God give you great peace and comfort during this time. You are in our prayers

Guy and Valerie Fried

February 27, 2008

Dear Celeste and family:

It deeply saddens us to hear of Tilman's passing. We have known him as a wonderful and caring friend as well as an example of great integrity in the business world.
Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers through this difficult time.

Tight lines, Tlilman. Fish on!

Most sincerely,

Valerie and Guy Fried and family
12 River Trace
Macon, GA 31210

Cathie Stevens-Borders

February 27, 2008

Jill,

I haven't seen you since we graduated high school, but I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I always knew your family to be close and very special to the entire community. Your brother's life touched so many that remember him as personable, kind and considerate. He was loved by many.

Please know that many are praying for you and you family during this difficult time.

William and Renee Mosley

February 27, 2008

Celeste,
William and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We both thought so much of Tilman. He will be greatly missed by the real estate and appraisal profession. Although, we had not seen him in many years we occasionaly spoke with him on the phone regarding appraisal information and it was always fun to talk with Tilman and "catch up" on old times. We will miss him very much.

Don McDaniel

February 27, 2008

Celeste & Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult walk. I pray your memories will bring you comfort in the days ahead. I've been blessed to have worked with Tilman's company over the years and he was truly a "Southern Gentleman and Friend"! God Bless!
Don McDaniel

BILLY BISHOP

February 27, 2008

TILMAN SELF WAS A GREAT MAN WHO I ADMIRED VERY MUCH FROM LIZELLA BAPTIST CHURCH. CELESTE WE WILL KEEP YOU AND THE FAMILY IN OUR PRAYERS GOD BLESS YOU.

Homer Scarborough

February 27, 2008

My deepest sympathies for the loss of my old friend and high school classmate.

Mark and Stephanie Lewis

February 26, 2008

Tilman will be remembered by us as a great friend and a caring man. When my wife and I moved to Macon as a young couple, he helped us obtain our first home. I had the privilege to both fish with Tilman and to teach both of his sons. My wife and I will always be greatful for all Tilman meant to us.

Pam Atkins

February 26, 2008

Tripp, Carlen, & family,

I am so sorry to hear about the death of your father. He truly sounded like a wonderful father and grandfather in the obituary. I did not know him personally; but my family also had the good fortune to have such a wonderful father and grandfather; and I can empathize so much with you. It is so hard to let them go but the good memories will sustain you for years to come.

Sincerely,

Lynn, Joyce and Jeff Ivey

February 26, 2008

Dear Celeste, Trip & Carlen, and all your sweet family,

Lynn and I along with Jeff are grieving with you over this tremendous loss. Tilman was what we think of as a "gentle giant". He was such a kind, loyal and steadfast friend. We have such fond memories of you, Celeste and Tilman frequenting our garden center. That was my first contact with him but his impression was left on all our lives. Celeste, you are certainly in our prayers and will be praying for you dear friend. Trip and Carlen, I know that to lose a Dad leaves a deep void for you and your sweet daughter. We will be praying for you as all of you walk through this journey.
May God's strength and love comfort you in the days to come.

Diane Miolen

February 26, 2008

Tilman was one of the most honorable men I know, both professionally and personally. I know how strongly his passing will affect the business of appraisals and I can only imagine the impact his loss will have on his family.
My deepest sympathies are with them.

Tom Yount

February 26, 2008

Celeste and family:
We wanted you and your family to know how much we have enjoyed working with Tilman and will miss him alot. Tilman was a very fine man and gentleman. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and we know that he loved the Lord and is in a better place.

Kin & Mychelle Shackelford

February 26, 2008

Celeste and Family,
Mychelle and I are so sorry for your loss. We will miss Tilman. As busy as he was he made time to give us his help and advise when asked. His honesty, integrity, and knowledge could always be counted on. He touched so many of us in the real estate community. Tilman was a joy to know and do business with. Our memories of Tilman will always be special.

Judy Mims

February 26, 2008

Tripp, Carlen and Family:

My heart grieves with you over the loss of your father and friend. I have known Tilman since high school days and he was one of the nicest, kindest people I was priviledged to know. You are blessed with a wealth of memories. Cherish each of them.

I pray God's comfort and peace will be with each family member now and in the days ahead.

Judy D. Mims
Psalm 62:8

Mark Goodman

February 26, 2008

Please know that everyone in the Self family are in our thoughts and prayers. I know he will truly be missed by all that knew him. What a great man for us to lose but what a wonderful addition in Heaven it will be.
Mark and Jeannie Goodman

Bruce Hill

February 26, 2008

Tilman was a friend and colleague. Well respected in the appraisal community and will be sorely missed by all.

Melody (Lines) DeLoach

February 26, 2008

I do not know if you remember me but I grew up with Bill in macon. My name is Melody Lines (DeLoach) and I wanted to extend my sympathy for the familiy's loss. May God bless and keep you all in this time.

Lynwood Jordan

February 26, 2008

Bill has talked to me of his brother and I know Tilman will be missed.

Cindy Tidwell Hutcheson

February 26, 2008

Janice, Tripp, and Shane, your father held a special place in my heart as well as my mother Libby's as he looked after my dad JB all those many years at Central Fellowship making sure he was ok when walking around the church after he fell so ill. Tillman was a dear friend and we will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time of loss.

Pastor Joe and Tina Bowker

February 26, 2008

We grieve with you for your loss and pray that God's grace will be your strength during this time.

Elizabeth Holloway

February 26, 2008

Celese and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the death of Tillman Self. You will be in my thoughts in the days to come.

Toni Newby Mccuin

February 26, 2008

Dear Celeste and family, Tilman was a wonderful man and good friend. He was like a son to my mother and father Helene and Tony. Our hearts are broken and we will surely miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

The Home Builders Association of Middle Ga

February 26, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eddie Self

February 26, 2008

Our prayers and deepest sympathies are extended out to your family. Although I did not know Tilman and his family personally, I have heard of the great accomplishments made down through the years by this great "SELF" family from Macon Ga. I know our "family linage" most likely joins somewhere in the past going back to Chappel B. Self who arrived in Houston County Ga. in 1833. May your family be comforted by the Holy Spirit during this time of need.

Eddie Self and Family
Warner Robins Ga.

Rufus Akridge

February 26, 2008

Celeste, Tripp, Shane and family

Please accept my deepest sympathies for the loss of your loved one and my buddy. Tilman was a man of respect & integrity who has alway been a man of his word (no contract needed). He will be thoroughly missed by all of us in the Real Estate industry and Middle Georgia area. Rufus Akridge, AKRIDGE REALTY INC.

Margie Guenthner

February 26, 2008

Margie Guenthner Atlantic Southern Bank

Len Strozier

February 26, 2008

My last contact with Tilman was a few months back when silently walking to the graveside of a friend I was engulfed by his arms in an ever-present bear hug with a whisper, "I love you and I miss you. Let's go fishing."

Now that he is "upomongst" them I yearn to see them ALL again knowing the next time we hug we'll never say "Good-Bye."

Blessings

Sharon Repple

February 26, 2008

Dear Celeste,Tripp,Shane,Phil, Bill,Jill and family members,
Please know that you are all in my prayers. Tilman was a wonderful loving brother-in-law to me. He always loved with great big hugs, comfort and understanding. He always gave unconditional love. He loved to laugh. The world will not be the same without Tilman.
Love & Prayers
Sharon

R.W. Giles

February 26, 2008

I pray for the peace that passes all understanding to comfort you all in the days ahead. I have such fond memories of Tilman in Byron at the grocery store and in his business, always a pleasant word and smile. Words are always inadequate but I hope the good memories you shared that are in your heart will sustain you and help you all in the days ahead. May God bless you all.

Charles Smith

February 26, 2008

A quality individual and friend for tweny five years who will be greatly missed.

Marianne Mathieu

February 26, 2008

I am deeply saddened to learn of Tilman's passing. It was an honor to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Shanda Galloway Sedalia

February 26, 2008

Tripp, Carlen & family,
Please know that our thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathies are with you during this difficult time. We love you!
Shanda & Rajan Sedalia

Marsha Coley Woodling

February 26, 2008

My family has known Tilman for more years than I can remember and I miss that in the past few years I had lost touch with visiting with him and hearing how the family was doing. He is so proud of his sons and with great reason. The obituary had him exactly as he was - I loved the fishing part - yes that was his love. I'm glad to read that was one of the last things he did. Tilman was a wonderful man. He will be missed greatly.. My prayers are with the family.

Robert Ball

February 26, 2008

I am very sorry for your loss.
I knew the Self family when I worked at Maddox Drug Store with Jill

Dennis & Elaine Greene

February 26, 2008

Dear Sam and family, know that we are thinking of you during this difficult time. Tilman was a good man and will be truly missed.

Shirley and Sherrill Campbell

February 26, 2008

Trippe and Shane, your Dad was our friend. We share the loss both of you and your Mom feel at this time. Please know that the Saviour who wept at His own friend's death is also sharing your grief.

Debbie Lindley

February 26, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathy, and may God be with you through this time.

Arlie Collins

February 26, 2008

Celeste,
Tilman exemplified grace and love to me at a time when I needed it the most. I'll always remember his compassion and love. I look forward to the day when I can thank him again. My prayers are with you and the whole family.

Arlie Collins

Wayne & Beverly King

February 26, 2008

Celeste,
We are so sorry to hear about Tilman. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
May you and your family find comfort in the memories you have.

valerie Wynn

February 25, 2008

Jill,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sadness. May time ease your grief and the memories of good times comfort you.

Valerie F. Wynn

rusty Wynn

February 25, 2008

Trip, we were so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. We know and understand your feelings of loss and sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Rusty and Valerie Wynn

Bill Edwards

February 25, 2008

I have not had contact with Tilman since I moved away from Macon in 1979, but I have very good memories of him as a good friend in the 60's and 70's and he certainly was a gentleman at all times. We'll see you in heaven my friend!

Wendy Sheppard

February 25, 2008

Celeste,Shane & Family

Please know you and your family are in my prayers.

Bill and Barbara Slocumb

February 25, 2008

Celeste and family,
I am very sorry to hear the news of Tilman. I was asking Mrs. Eva about you this week and she called tonight to tell me. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Love Bill and Barbara Slocumb

Wendy White

February 25, 2008

Celeste, David and I want you to express our deepest sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss. The way that you spoke of him, I know that he was a wonderful man and I know that you will miss him so much. Just rely on God to get you through this. Remember that we will be praying for you and your family.

Tommy and Carla Oliver

February 25, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Betty Latham

February 25, 2008

A friend for years, watched his two fine boys grow up. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

Andrew&Janice Lemon,Sr.

February 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire FAMILY.May God grant each of you strength and support during the coming days.Should any family member need us we will be available.We have loved Tilman,Jr. for more than 54 yrs.,along with the entire family.May God bless each of you.

Jimmy and Cheryl Lowery

February 25, 2008

We are so grieved to hear of your loss. Tillman was a great man and will be missed tremendously. May you have peace in your heart knowing that he is in Heaven with our Heavenly Father.

Scotty Shepherd

February 25, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Jimmy Lowery

February 25, 2008

What an honor to have known such a fine GENTLEMAN. Our lives are better because of his influence.You are in our prayers.God Bless!
Jimmy and Cheryl Lowery

Luis and Robin Castro

February 25, 2008

Tripp, Carlen and Walker,

Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you through this difficult time. Tripp, your dad sounded like an awesome man and he has obviously passed on an incredible legacy to you. May God bless and comfort your family.

Anita & Joe Sandefur

February 25, 2008

Celeste, we are thinking of you and your family with love and very fond memories of a very special friend Tilman. We love you, Anita & Joe

Chris & Keri Hodges Byron Tire Company

February 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Marie Westbrook

February 25, 2008

My deepest regrets to the Self Family. I am sure he will be greatly missed by all of you. I knew he and his family many years ago and he coached softball with my then husband. Tripp and my son played ball on the team and those were some very good times and enjoyed by all of us. My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you.

David Self

February 25, 2008

When I was kid my friends and played chase. There were certain
places called "base" where we were safe. Adults need places like that too. That's what it felt like when I was around Tilman. Some how you knew he was pulling for you. You knew that you were safe. We will miss him greatly. Kathy and I will pray for you all.

Donna Cirone

February 25, 2008

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know he will be sadly missed.

Jan Morehead

February 25, 2008

I'm sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Kerry and Robin Dunaway

February 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let us know if we can do anything to help.

Paulette Hardison

February 25, 2008

Paulette M. Hardison
Ps.121:1-2

DEBBIE WILSON

February 25, 2008

CELESTE & FAMILY,
DENNIS AND I ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT TILMAN, HE WILL BE MISSED GREATLY BY ALL THOSE THAT KNEW HIM AND LOVED HIM.

Chris Ruff

February 25, 2008

The obituary was exactly as I knew him. Honest and a loving family man. He will be missed by all.

Upton Sinclair

February 25, 2008

Tilman was one of the good guy's in the appraisal profession that I always knew would tell me the truth and I could count on for an honest opinion when I needed it. I will be praying that the Lord will keep you and hold you and that his face will shine upon you during this period of grief. Please let me know if I can do anything for you.

Bonnie Goode

February 25, 2008

I am sorry for your loss of your husband, father and grandfather.
I knew him very well he was an inspiration to me while growing up and gave me encouragement when my uncle passed away.

Our family had been very good friends for a long time.

Bonnie Anderson Goode
"McDonell family"

Brett Polk

February 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

George Folsom

February 25, 2008

Though words, however kind,
cannot ease the loss you bear,
May it bring a share of comfort
to know that others care.
Thinking of you with sympathy.
Goodbye my friend. I'll miss you.
George Folsom

Anna Roberts

February 25, 2008

To all of our friends of the Self Family: Robbie and I extend our most heartfelt sympathy to all of you at this time with the loss of Tilman. Your great memories of a dear and precious man will carry you in the days ahead. Tilman will be missed by the real estate community not only as an appraiser but as a friend! Anna Roberts, Rivoli Realty

Jessica Laster

February 25, 2008

Celeste - I love you VERY much. You and Tilman were like a second family to me. I send my love to Shane, Amy, Tripp and Carlen as well.

Cathy Fout

February 25, 2008

Sorry to hear about Tillman Self. My prayers goes out to the family.

G. Thomas DuBose

February 25, 2008

My condolences to the Self Family. It would be tempting to say that Tilman inherited the ingredients of his success; that it was something within his bloodines, but instead it is the sum total of merit, and hard work, and especially, the choice that he alone made for himself that determined the direction his life would take.

This is the light he cast for those who looked to him for help in their darkest moments, the light that led so many who pursued the American dream and the expectation of justice, the light that now serves as a guiding beacon for those who follow in his wake.

Tilman always remembered that justice is conscience, not a personal conscience but the conscience of mankind. Those who clearly recognize the voice of their own conscience, usually recognize also the voice of justice.

And finally, Tilman will not be remembered by his words, but his kind deeds.

Tamera Harrison

February 25, 2008

Dear Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We will miss Tilman very much.
Atlantic Southern Bank Mortgage Dept.
Tamera, Dee Dee, Keasha, Kathy, Gary
May God Bless you all through this trying time.

Otis and Donna Scarbary

February 25, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eddie Combs

February 25, 2008

Celeste and family, we are truly sorry to hear about you loss. May God be with all of you at this time. Celeste, Olivia and I are thinking about you, if there is anything we can do please let us know.

Eddie and Olivia Combs

Randy Harrison

February 25, 2008

Tilman's obituary was a great outline of his life and such a tribute to him. He was a realtor and an appraiser who understood not only real estate, but also the people associated with the real estate. He treated everyone with equal respect and those attributes listed in his obituary are evident in his immediate and extended families today. He will be missed by all but what he stood for and believed in will be carried on by his family after him. God bless each of you in your time of sorrow.

Cynthia Davis

February 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Randall Mimbs

February 25, 2008

With a broken heart I write this to the family. Tillman has been my friend since childhood and a better man I have never known,I saw him friday at lunch and I would not take anything for that meeting.I pray that the Peace of our God be with each family member and know that there is a Godly man in God's heaven today

Scott Westbrook

February 25, 2008

Tilman was a great man and always encouraged me when I called or visited. He will be missed.

Alton & Barbara Holloway

February 25, 2008

Tillman, was a great friend of ours. In our early years we had many great and fun times. Working together was a pleasure. We will all miss him.

Jill Self Elliott

February 25, 2008

Just a wonderful, wonderful Brother to me. A surrogate father after the death of my father, Tilman Self, Sr. Just a beloved friend, confidant and mentor. Always had a lap for me to rock in and a smile and kind hand to help me. Beloved. Just beloved. Thank you for helping my children as if they were your own.

Becky Howard

February 25, 2008

Celeste,
Our hearts are broken with sadness for your loss of Mr. Tillman. He was a kind and loving person. I will miss his hugs and smiles at church on Sunday's. May his deep and abiding faith in God give you comfort to know he is in the presence of the Lord Jesus. I love you Celeste and will be praying for each of you.

Becky Howard

February 25, 2008

Celeste,
Our hearts are broken with sadness for your loss of Mr. Tillman. He was a kind and loving person. I will miss his hugs and smiles at church on Sunday's. May his deep and abiding faith in God give you comfort to know he is in the presence of the Lord Jesus. I love you Celeste and will be praying for all of you.

Rep. David Lucas, Sr. & Councilwoman Elaine Lucas & Family

February 25, 2008

We want to express our deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one. May you find strength in knowing that he is with the Father.

Wayne & Dale Smith

February 25, 2008

Dear Family, we are blessed to know Tilman and all of you. Tilman was a genuine and caring person. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Teddy Davis

February 25, 2008

Celeste, Shane, Tripp and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss and most certainly a great community loss as well. Tilman was one of the most honorable men of integrity, that I’ve had the privilege of knowing. Anyone could take his word to the bank and know that his handshake was better than any contract. Truly, Tilman’s life was, and will continue to be, a model of conduct becoming a most gentle man of God – Praiseworthy, Upright and Selfless.
The accolade that came to mind begins with I Corinthians 13:4-7 & 12, also known as “the Love chapter”... Tilman was “patient, kind, did not seek for himself, was not provoked, did not take in to account a wrong suffered, did not rejoice in unrighteousness but rejoiced with the truth; he would bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, and endure all things.” 13:12.... for just the other day, he, as all of us, “saw in a mirror dimly and only in part, but now he sees in full.” How glorious this must be for him.
My and John’s prayers are with you all as we miss, remember, and rejoice over the life, of this Good and Faithful servant.

Sincerely,
Teddy Todd Davis, Lizella,
with Tilman Self & Associates, Byron

Ben and Judy Goodman

February 25, 2008

A Great Friend for many years,Tilman will be missed by both of us.Always a True Christian and Gentleman that made us feel good with a smile and handshake from the heart.Our hearts go out to the family that has lost this loving member.That chain will be re linked in heaven one by one.Tilman's love will always be your guide.

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