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Michael Rubashkin Obituary

Michael Paul
Rubashkin, 63
WISCASSET -- Michael Paul Rubashkin, 63, passed away peacefully at his home, surrounded by family, after a brief illness on Thursday, Aug. 29, 2013.
Mike was born on Sept. 2, 1949, in Graz, Austria. With his parents, Paul and Maria (Szaraz) Rubashkin, he immigrated (via Ellis Island, New York) to Shelburne Falls, Massachusetts. He became a United States Citizen in 1958 and graduated from Turner's Falls High School in 1967.
Mike served his country from 1969-1971 as a U.S. Marine Corps officer, obtaining a rank of Lance Corporal. He attended Barrington College, where he received a Bachelors of Arts in Education and continued on to the University of Connecticut (Storrs), receiving a Masters in Education. Later in his career, he pursued an advanced certificate in education administration through the University of Southern Maine.
Mike started his teaching career on the island Vinalhaven and proceeded to educate two generations of students throughout the Mid Coast Region of Maine, spending the last several years of his career at Thomaston at Oceanside West High School. He loved teaching and took pride in sharing the joys of literature with his students, as well as annually torturing them with his own version of a favorite Christmas carol: Igor the Magic Aardvark. His most prized students were his two grandsons, Anthony and Tristan, over whom he and his wife, Sue, have permanent guardianship.
During the summer, Mike recovered from the school year's 'post-grammatic stress disorder' by enjoying the outdoors, gardening, working odd jobs to keep busy, as well as writing soon- to-be-published children's stories.
In addition to spending time with family and friends, Mike loved the Red Sox, Patriots, Celtics and sports in general. He enjoyed being a Cub/Scoutmaster for Richmond's Troop 610 with his sons, and Boy Scouts with his grandsons. His quick wit and dry humor persevered, and he remained a wry punster to his last days.
He is survived by his wife and soul mate, Susan (Courtemanche) Rubashkin; his three children, Christina (Rubashkin) Look and her husband Charlie Look, Nicholas Rubashkin and his husband Drew Banks, Paul Rubashkin and his wife Jessica Rubashkin; his four grandchildren, who were his pride and joy: Joshua Beaulieu, Anthony and Tristan Burnham, and Ellie Rubashkin; his brother Stan Rubashkin and his wife Rose Mae Carrizal- Rubashkin of Channelview, Texas; and his four legged companion, Max. He also leaves a large extended family including multiple nieces and nephews throughout the United States as well as Hungary. He was predeceased by his parents, Paul and Maria Rubashkin; and brother, Alexander Rubashkin.
Visiting hours will be on Sunday, Sept. 1, from 1 to 4 p.m., at Staples Funeral Home, 53 Brunswick Ave., Gardiner. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, Sept. 2, at 10 a.m., at St. Joseph's Catholic Church, Gardiner.
The family would like to extend a gracious thank you to all the staff at Mid Coast Hospital and CHANS Home Healthcare and Hospice Services.
In lieu of flowers, we request
donations in Mike's name to:
Tri-County Literacy
34 Wing Farm Parkway
Bath, Maine 04530
Michael Paul Rubashkin

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Aug. 31, 2013.

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Christopher Wilkins

May 22, 2018

I'm very sorry to just now be learning of Mike's passing. I too had Mr. Rubashkin in 4th grade at Longfellow. He was without a doubt had the most impact and was the most important teacher I had throughout my education. He was the only teacher to recognize and appreciate my learning disabilities. Without making me feel ashamed for my shortcomings he help me learn in ways no other educator even attempted. I have often and will continue to laud him and the efforts he made for me to all that would listen. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Ashley Campbell-Hall

September 30, 2013

I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Mr Rubashkin was my 4th grade teacher at Longfellow. I have always remembered him and the ways he made us all smile. God bless you.

September 17, 2013

We are so very sadden to hear of Michael's illness and passing. We just heard of his passing this week. We know that he is in a better place, free from pain and suffering. He was such a good man. We pray that his family will feel peace with time...
Mike & Helen Gallagher, Hartland, Me.

Colleen Martin

September 12, 2013

So sorry to hear about Mike. I enjoyed working with him at Manson Park School. He was such a great man!!!!

Melissa Bartlett

September 11, 2013

I am so saddened to hear of Mike' s passing. It just doesn't seem to be true. Conversations were never boring with him. What a wonderful person he was and he had and a very loving family. The good really do die young.

Jesse Lang

September 2, 2013

Where do I start? Many fond memories from Gifted and Talented to baseball to Peacock Beach and many family outings together. Mike will always have a special place in my heart and my prayers go out to Sue and family. He was great man and will be missed in this world.

Steve Eagles

September 2, 2013

Just learned of Mike's passing and wish you all strength in getting used to this new world. I remember him as such a kind and gracious man.

Sandy Bodge

September 2, 2013

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. I use to live in Richmond, Maine when we worked together.

September 1, 2013

Mike was a joy to know and work with. His warmth and humor shall be long remembered by those of us who had the privilege of working with him. What a huge loss. My sincere sympathies to all of you, he was a fine man. With much synpathy to you all, Eileen Limoges, Thomaston, ME

September 1, 2013

Sue....I remember your days at Vinalhaven and Bucksport as you brought into the world your beautiful children. You have my deepest sympathy. You, Michael, and family, will be remembered at the Masses I will be saying. He was a remarkable husband and father. Peace, blessings, and love to you. Father Norm Cormier

September 1, 2013

We were saddened to learn of Mike's passing. Our favorite memory (besides Maryann) is of bringing your cat to MA when you moved from Bucksport. Our thoughts, prayers, and love to you Sue and to the family.
Ray and Jacqui Hart

Sharon Neu-Amaya

September 1, 2013

Sue & Family,
We are so saddened to hear of Mike's illness and passing. Even though we didn't get to see each other often I will always remember Mike for his kindness and love of family. My sister Rhonda is a very lucky woman to be part of such a loving group. Love and prayers to all. RIP Mike

August 31, 2013

I am in shock! Such terrible news. So very sorry for the loss of your loved one.
Sue Radley Bucksport/Vinalhaven

ida sweeney

August 31, 2013

love you

Ida Sweeney

August 31, 2013

I am so sorry Sue. MY thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Robin Golosh

August 31, 2013

RIP Spike, you will be missed and remembered.

August 31, 2013

Mr. Rubashkin was my 8th grade teacher at South Bristol School. He was such a wonderful person and wonderful teacher. My deepest sympthay is with his family as this sad time. Lindsay Bryant

Kathleen Robinson

August 31, 2013

my heart goes out to you all.

August 31, 2013

Thank you for your service.

Susan Rubashkin

August 31, 2013

I will miss your forever.

Mary Goulette

August 31, 2013

It is an honor and a pleasure to know you and your family. Their grace and strength - and fierce protection and love for the boys - is a living testament to you & Sue. Well done. May you rest peacefully, Pepe.

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