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Barry F. McCarthy

September 20, 1948 - October 31, 2022

Barry F. McCarthy obituary, September 20, 1948-October 31, 2022, Morgan Hill, CA

BORN

September 20, 1948

DIED

October 31, 2022

Barry McCarthy Obituary

Barry Francis McCarthy passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family. Barry had been suffering from Multiple System Atrophy (MSA) for six years. Barry was born to Vince and Virginia McCarthy on the south side of Chicago, IL, the third of five children. Most of his childhood was spent in Cleveland, OH, where he graduated from St. Dominic's Catholic School in Shaker Heights, and St. Peter Chanel High School in Bedford. He was an accomplished caddy at Canterbury Golf Club in Beachwood, OH. After two years at Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI, he moved to California with his family in the late '60s, where he completed his undergraduate work and law degree at Santa Clara University. Barry's law practice spanned several decades and included extensive work in energy law. He initially worked for the Contra Costa County Legal Services Foundation providing legal assistance to those of low income. He was then hired as an attorney at the City of Santa Clara and went on to become a partner at Duncan, Weinberg, Genzer & Pembroke. He later started his own firm and eventually established a longtime law partnership with Susie Berlin. Barry counseled and advised publicly-owned utilities across the state, guiding them through a changing energy regulatory landscape and helping to usher in a new era of utility regulation. Barry was widely lauded as an expert in the area, and was instrumental in mentoring others on legal issues in this field.Barry delighted in telling people he met his wife Carol/CJ McCarthy at a City of Santa Clara hydroelectric dam dedication (this is true) as he did the legal work for the project, and CJ was there representing the city. Former City Manager Jennifer Sparacino took responsibility for this 'meet cute.' After retirement from the law, Barry began volunteer work with the Clemency Project and the Pro Bono Project before he became ill in 2017. He was diagnosed with MSA, a rare progressive and degenerative neurological disease. He faced MSA bravely, and appreciated the support of family, friends and caregivers Hannah, Miriam and, most recently, Julie.Barry was a loving father, husband, brother, and a fiercely loyal friend to many. Much to his wife's chagrin, he charmed many widows at the Westmont of Morgan Hill assisted living facility where he and his wife of 32 years resided for the last 4+ years. In addition to wife CJ, Barry is survived by son Brendan and grandsons Aidan and Robbie, and daughter Katie (Plaza), her husband Jakub, and granddaughters Charlotte and Sydney. Barry's first wife Kris remained close with Barry and CJ. All will miss him terribly. Whether on the playground, in the classroom, on the golf course or in the courtroom, Barry's talent, creativity and integrity allowed him to shine. Everything he did, he did well. Along the way, he earned the never-ending love of his family and the unconditional devotion of his numerous friends.In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to your favorite charity, or to BrainSupportNetwork.org or to MultipleSystemAtrophy.org in Barry's name. A wake is planned in the new year; friends can email [email protected]">[email protected]">[email protected]">[email protected] to receive a notice of details when available.

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Published by Mercury News from Nov. 4 to Nov. 6, 2022.

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Sandra Moody (Emily´s Mom)

November 8, 2022

Dear Katie... I am sorry for your heartbreak.

Miriam Bakker

November 8, 2022

Barry was a great client to work with for me as a caregiver his last years.
We went for long walks and enjoyed the outdoors. We had breakfast and lunch together and good conversations about what was in the newspaper that day and about his career.
Barry was aways friendly , patient and in for a joke.
Will miss you,

Miriam

Caregiver

Jaimie Mock

November 7, 2022

Barry was a dear and loyal friend since our college days. I feel privileged to have known him, even though I hadn´t seen him in awhile. I send my condolences and prayers to CJ and all his family.

Jerry Murphy

November 6, 2022

A great man from a great family. Sympathy.

Jim Beck

November 5, 2022

Barry,
My colleague, my confidant, my adviser, my gambling partner, my golf partner, my scotch-drinking partner, my Monday Night Football partner, my best basketball opponent, my trusted friend. I miss you already. But you will still be in my heart, especially on Monday nights, whenever I´m in Reno-Reno, when I am on area golf courses, whenever I see Santa Clara University playing basketball, and whenever I am driving north on I-5 in California. Though you have left our presence, you will never leave my heart. Rest well.

Andrew Dean

November 4, 2022

Miss you Uncle Barry, wish we had gotten together and talked more. Say to Grandma and Grandpa

Vanessa Salvador

November 4, 2022

Katie,
Wishing you strength in these difficult days and hoping that with time, peace will heal and comfort your heart. We love you.

-The Salvador's

Mary Sunseri

November 4, 2022

My deepest condolences to Carol and her family. Barry was always a pleasure to talk to. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.

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