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Linda Gregory
December 6, 2014
Today's memorial service honoring Peter's life restored him to us for a little while. Nice to be reminded of this utterly unique guy, one of the very few in public life with whom you could have a real conversation, vs exchanging talking points, or having someone glance constantly past your ear, scanning for the next contact who must be “worked.” His skills and breadth of knowledge, and the generosity with which he shared them was coupled with humility, and a fearless, lifelong commitment to justice and decency, such that he was equally willing to formulate major, profound public policy change for a legislative committee and chop onions for a benefit event. He taught us a lot, but never scolded. Though none of us are foolish enough to believe we can replace Peter, no-one left today's event with less than a commitment to carry forward a little piece of what Peter did. Blessings and condolences to Peter's close friends and family.
Stephen Long
November 11, 2014
Peter was an amazing man that had some pretty good stories of his life. I was one of his caregivers in the end and took him fishing every weekend. He would share stories of encouragement and temperance. His life was dedicated to helping others and was an American hero in my opinion(even though he was born in Germany). He will be missed.
Jim Lindsay
November 11, 2014
I was just wondering how Peter was doing, and found out he has passed away. Peter was a brilliant man who had a *huge* heart. He was good friends with my father, Bob Lindsay. He would often have dinner with us or be at our house for meetings. I still remember when I was very small he taught me how to count by 3's, using a rhythmic method.
He was a really great guy. My condolences to his family and friends.
Lynn Huidekoper
November 9, 2014
I left out some words in my original posting: Ira considered Peter the brightest person he had ever met and he met a lot of people over the years here and abroad. I will miss sitting next to Peter at PDC luncheons where I would get his current analysis of politics. I feel so blessed to have known him and Ira.
Mom (Lee Sturtevant) and Peter at Lake Almanor
Karen Ramey
November 7, 2014
Daniel and Aidan with Peter at family celebration
Karen Ramey
November 7, 2014
Kit Sturtevant-Stuart
October 9, 2014
I remember hearing about the Sundays Peter shared with Ira! They had a two-man book club, and I always asked what they were reading. His very nice companion was my mom, Leisa Sturtevant, who died August 7.
October 7, 2014
I knew Peter for many years. Both at PDC(Peninsula Democratic Coalition) events where we were members and through his friendship with Ira Sandperl who lived in my apt. complex. He would come by to pick Ira up to have breakfast and visit every Sunday. He would pull into the driveway which is where my apt. is located on Roble Ave. in Menlo Park. Peter was the quietist person I knew-very humble. I am a social activist, like Peter, and I work on Single Payer legislation and the homeless issues. I would ask him questions about Calif. legislature and politics since he served for many years in Sacramento. Several times I saw him on TV testifying at State hearings as a lobbyist for AARP. Ira Sandperl told me that Peter was known. You would never know it because he dressed simply and was humble and even embarrassed when I told him this! Over the years I would see him at various political events, such as the yearly FORUM(Federation of Retired Union Americans) BBQ meeting with local legislators. He was often the MC and introduced the legislators or their staff and would comment on their service in the legislature. I often sought him out at PDC luncheons where, there was a guest speaker, to catch up on the latest political news. I was aware that his health was waning and he had a very nice companion, whose name escapes me, who accompanied him to the FORUM BBQ and Ira Sandperl's memorial service in Menlo Park. I sat next to Peter at the service. The world has lost a very special, brilliant person. I am honored to have known Peter.
Kit Sturtevant-Stuart
October 6, 2014
Peter was a wonderful part of our family for several decades, and a great support to my husband and me in raising our deaf and disabled son, who is named for him. I loved his gentle humor and the way he could always find a historical moment more discouraging than our own. I miss him so much!
Ron Castro
October 4, 2014
I had the pleasure of knowing Peter and Lee for the past few years. Both Peter & Lee were passionate about the workers' rights, womans rights & equality. It was a pleasure to know both of them and to have learned from them. Both will be missed. Prayers to the families for comfort.
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