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Samuel Callahan Obituary

Samuel Butler Callahan
Oct. 25, 1995-Jan. 14, 2013
Resident of Campbell
Surrounded by his family at home, Samuel Butler Callahan was peacefully called to heaven after a three-and-a-half year battle with a rare childhood cancer. Sam was taken far too soon but that didn't diminish the impact that had on so many people's lives. Sam was an old soul, wise beyond his years, with a keen sense of humor and an intense curiosity about life.
Sam was born in Los Gatos, California and attended Sacred Heart School in Saratoga and later St. Lucy's Parish School in Campbell. Sam was a bright student as well as a gifted athlete. He was an all-star baseball player and later a competitive golfer. Early in Sam's 8th grade year, he was diagnosed with metastatic Ewing's Sarcoma, a form of cancer that typically affects young people. Sam was initially treated at the Lucile Packard Children's Hospital at Stanford and he kept up with his class by having his tutor Eric Hansen come to his home as the doctors didn't want Sam exposed to any infections. Sam graduated with his class in June of 2010 and gave and emotional and uplifting speech at his graduation.
Sam attacked his cancer journey with every intention of becoming cancer free. After surviving nine months of intense chemotherapy and radiation at Stanford, Sam and his family navigated the medical world to find specialists who could help him.
Sam found those specialists at M.D. Anderson in Houston, Texas and at the Sarcoma Oncology Center in Santa Monica, California. It was in Houston and Santa Monica that Sam participated in clinical trials that helped shrink his tumors. This allowed him to eventually undergo radical surgery to remove 75 tumors and two thirds of his right lung, a surgery that the doctors described as "life-saving." He maintained this travel schedule for two years while continuing his education at Bellarmine College Preparatory in San Jose. Sam passed all of his classes and was progressing towards graduating with his class. He loved his time at Bellarmine and he preferred to not let on to his classmates how sick he was.
Along the way, Sam experienced a lot of life. He met Kevin Frandsen, then with the San Francisco Giants, during his first stay in the hospital at Stanford. Kevin provided tremendous encouragement to Sam and later wrote a letter of reference for Sam as he applied to Bellarmine. Sam was a guest of the San Francisco 49ers where he met all the players and gave blue "Sam's Team" bracelets to Frank Gore and Moran Norris, each of whom wore them in games to honor Sam. The San Francisco Giants hosted Sam at FanFest where he met most of the 2010 team that went on to win the World Series. Later in the summer he attended the Giants vs. Red Sox (both of Sam's favorite teams), where a friend introduced Sam to Darnell Macdonald, outfielder for the Red Sox. Darnell gave Sam signed baseballs from several team members and Sam gave Darnell one of his "Sam's Team" bracelets with the idea that if he wore it he would hit a home run that day. Sure enough, Darnell hit the third pitch he saw in the first inning over the left field wall. Dan Shaughnessy, the famous Boston Globe sportswriter wrote an article about that special day that appeared on the front of the sports section a few days later. Both Dan and Darnell stayed in touch with Sam from then on, seeing him whenever they were in town to play and cover the Oakland A's. In May of 2012, Dan and Darnell hosted Sam and his mother in the trip of a lifetime to see two games at Fenway Park in Boston. Of all of Sam's incredible experiences, he held this one as his favorite. Sam often said that what he really liked wasn't being invited to games because he had cancer; he wanted to meet and talk to the players and get to know them. As much as Sam was inspired by these adventures, the people he encountered always went away inspired by Sam. There were so many other adventures with UFC, Strikeforce and MMA fighters who visited Sam in the hospital, to Olympic Gold Medalist Andre Ward who did a photo shoot and public service announcement with Sam, to participating in NBA player Drew Gooden's charity golf tournament to benefit The Make-A-Wish Foundation. Sam was fortunate to take a Make-A-Wish trip to Maui to play golf, surf and enjoy his favorite place on earth.
Together with his Aunt Jeanne Butler, Sam organized the Sam Butler Callahan Foundation to raise money and awareness for Ewing's Sarcoma research and to help Sam's family with the travel related expenses for his treatment. Sam hosted two "Club with Sam's Team" events and raised more than $200,000 for the cause.
For the past two months, Sam had been at home under the care of Pathways Kids, a dedicated hospice group who came to the house as needed to help care for Sam.
Sam is survived by his mother and stepfather, Suzy Callahan van Bronkhorst and Derek van Bronkhorst of Campbell; his father and stepmother, Kenn and Fati Callahan of Santa Cruz; his beloved brother Joseph Butler Callahan and grandparents Gerald and Judie Butler of Saratoga, CA and Don and Joleen Callahan of Los Gatos, CA.
Friends and family are invited to a celebration of Sam's life on Thursday, January 24th at 11:15 a.m. in the Gym at Bellarmine College Preparatory at 960 West Hedding Street San Jose, CA 95126. A reception will follow on the grounds at Bellarmine. Parking for the celebration will be available at the lot at the intersection of Emory and Stockton, please access via Stockton Street. Sam requested that everyone wear his/her "Sunday Best" to honor his memory and his style. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations be made to The Samuel Butler Callahan Scholarship Fund at Bellermine College Preparatory, 960 West Hedding Street, San Jose, CA 95126.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Jan. 20, 2013.

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Antonia Walker

October 4, 2022

Sam, I remember the first time I met you at Lucille Packard & was in awe of your strength & beautiful smile. Remember you signing our check in log with an attitude of a warrior & who knew he could handle anything. I miss you Sam very much & think of you often with loving fondness. Thank you for being my strength when I needed it.

jeanne butler

January 15, 2015

You are forever missed...

Sonya Paz

February 23, 2013

I just learned about Sam's passing, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I had the pleasure to meet Sam and the Butler, Callahan and Van Bronkhorst families at the Sam's Team fundraising event at my gallery in 2011. I see where Sam got his shining light from - a warm and loving family. I know that Sam brought a lot of light and love to those who were fortunate to know him and I know he will be greatly missed.
My thoughts and prayer go out to his family. Bless you all.

February 23, 2013

I just learned about Sam's passing, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I had the pleasure to meet Sam and the Butler, Callahan and Van Bronkhorst families at the Sam's Team fundraising event at my gallery in 2011. I see where Sam got his shining light from - a warm and loving family. I know that Sam brought a lot of light and love to those who were fortunate to know him and I know he will be greatly missed.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. God bless you.

Kim Stowell

February 6, 2013

My favorite memory of Sam was when we took him out to BJ's one night for a pizookie. We walked in the door thinking that we would each get one and with Sam's persuasion and big smile at work, we ended up with a party platter sized pizookie to split between the three of us. I will never forget the huge smile on his face and the excitement in his eyes as the waiter set the huge pizookie on our table. Sam is with the Good Lord now, looking out for us and smiling as bright as usual. He is patiently waiting to see us all again one day but he is happy and is the the caring arms of Our Lord. Blessings and love to you all. xoxo

Mary Pope-Handy

February 6, 2013

Sam is one of the most inspiring people I've ever met. He had so much drive and determination, but also a lot of humor and love, as was shared at his funeral recently.

I got to meet Sam a few times when he was young, and less when he was older, but I enjoyed hearing how he was doing and keeping track even from a distance.

I remember being at Mass with Sam and Suzy one day, long before he was in school. Sam seemed to just take things in very completely. His concentration impressed me that day!

A very smart young man, he knew the score and lived his life to the fullest, a good message for all of us. Rest in peace, Sam, you changed the world for better.

Sonja Perkovic

February 5, 2013

When I used babysit!!!!we would always carefully pick a good movie and I would sit between Sam and Joe. Watching a GOOD movie and eat popcorn, but before that we would try to make old fashion mac and cheese it was funny great times. God bless you and your family. always on my mind love Sonja

a silly day in the summer

Jeanne Butler

February 5, 2013

I will never forget how much fun we would have over nothing and the giggles we shared.

Amy & Mike O'Donnell

February 5, 2013

Sam, I loved you when I didn't know you, when I met you I loved you more. You will always be the man who inspires life. You are my light and my hero. Always in my heart. xo

Lisa Hansen

February 4, 2013

The picture forever in my heart of Sam will be this: A beautiful spring morning full of sunlight and warmth at the Pony field. Bright eyes under a green A's hat throwing heat with that live arm. Brushing sweat from his brow with the back of his hand. Shirttail untucked as he smiles with satisfaction. Strike 3!
Sweet memories of the passionate fighter.
In this time of sorrow and heartbreak, i am trying to hold on to my belief, (as I know Sam did), in God's promise of everlasting life.
God bless Sam. God bless Derek, Suzy, Joe and all who love him.

Aime Charlebois

February 4, 2013

My greatest time and memory of Sam wasn't my wedding day... It was a time months before when he and I were having a conversation on the phone about nothing in particular. But suddenly I felt a wave of emotion come over me that I couldn't explain. It was a mix of so many things but one by one Sam talked me through each thing I was feeling until, together we discovered what was wrong. He was 16 and I was 43... I knew than what I know now, Sam is and always will be my hero... A young man who had the soul of someone so wise beyond his years. I can never repay him for what he had given me, but in life I will strive to pay that love, respect, faith, compassion and understanding forward always..
You're always in my heart Sammy!
I love you...
Aime

January 30, 2013

Suzy - It's Patty Smith from Stanford -- I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Sam was a beautiful young man. With Sam's passing it make me less scared to go to Heaven. There is a reason he left so early and you will find out eventually - Just know that he is looking down at you, smiling.

January 30, 2013

Beautifully said "... the people Sam encountered always went away inspired by him."
His memory be a blessing to all who knew him. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. Deb + Mike

January 27, 2013

Dear Joe, and family, I'm so sorry to hear about Sam. I wore his bracelet as support of a strong young man. Now I will continue to wear it in his honor.

God be with you and your family

Diane Artacho
(safeway)

Ali Miano

January 25, 2013

Dear Suzy and family,

I just found this. I am so, so sorry to learn of Sam's passing. God bless him and all of you. I will never understand why such wonderful people's lives are cut short, but God bless Sam for making every minute count.I feel privileged to have known him and to have read about him. He was amazing! God bless you, Suzy, Derek, Jeanne, and the whole family.

Clare Lovett, Jaime Goyes, Kathryn Monique Goyes, and Andres Goyes

January 25, 2013

Dear Butler and Callahan Families,

We offer our prayers during this time of loss. Sam was blessed to have such an amazing family surrounding and supporting him. This is evident in the way Sam led his life in friendship and with other families suffering from illness. His beautiful smile and jovial personality will be remembered always.

Melanie Wrappe

January 24, 2013

We were so sad to get word from Principal Meyercord at BCP last week letting us know of Sam's passing. Kenn (Sam's dad) had been keeping us informed of his valiant battle for the past three years. We were so hopeful he would beat it. Sam, we know you are in heaven and at peace. You were an inspiration to many and will be missed. Our hearts go out to your family and close friends as they will really miss you the most. May they find comfort from the wonderful memories of you. And last, as was said at your service today--Go Bells! Tom, Melanie and Thomas Wrappe (BCP '15)

Mark Hidde

January 24, 2013

Suzy and Derek,
My heart goes out to you,Sam was an inspiration to me and I will never forget him, he was, as I always said "all boy", what a great gift.
Go Bells!!!
Mark Hidde

Donna, Nicole & frances

January 24, 2013

Sorry for your loss, words can't even explain it.

Tammy Campbell

January 24, 2013

Drawn to view Sam's guest book through a mutual friend I am compelled to reach out to you and I know Sam"s journey is not over. He has yet more to offer and give as we speak even if he is not here in his human body he will and can continue to live through your thoughts, memories and your quest to spread to others things in which Sam was inspired to do himself or believed in It would be an awesome compliment to his legacy which he leaves with you his family. Embrace it and celebrate him each day not with sadness when possible at this time but with happiness and love for it is absolutely what he would want you to do. He is at peace now and embracing another journey and I believe it would make him happiest to know you were at peace and celebrating his life. It would sadden him to see anything less for you.

Joan Smith

January 23, 2013

Suzy, Joe, Derek and the whole Callahan Family,
We ca not tell you how sorry we are for your loss. There is a bright star shining in Heaven with the prescience of your beautiful angel. May the many wonderful memories of life with your Sam be a balm to heal your soul.
The Smith Family
Steve, Joan, Craig & Kyle

Linda O'Leary

January 23, 2013

Words cannot describe the sadness in my heart. We'll miss you beautiful boy.

January 23, 2013

Dear Kenn, Don and the entire family,
I am a better person for knowing Sam. I will always remember his positive attitude and his big bright smile. What a man he had become. I know how proud he made his family and how much you all loved him. No one can ever take that away. He will forever live on in all of us.
Sincerely, Janet Thrasher

Bill & Kathy Cleary

Bill & Kathy Cleary

January 23, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. Words can't even express our sadness for you all.

Valerie Cox

January 23, 2013

I do not know Sam nor the family but am a grieving mother of two sons in the last year . I send with heavy heart all that I can give of light and hope..May Sams wings fly strong and beautiful....

Dawn & Greg Simpson

January 23, 2013

Our entire family is mourning the loss of your Sam. He was a wonderful young man. Brockton will be proudly be wearing his baseball number this season. Our prayers are with you.

kathy kelley

January 23, 2013

Joleen, I am so sorry for you loss. My prayers are with you.

Albert Perkins

January 23, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the family.I prayed for my son,Justin, to meet Sam in heaven.Justin also fought
couragously against Ewing's sarcoma.I also never met Sam,but knew Aunt Jeanne
from Sam's Team.

Albert Perkins,
Justin Perkins Sandlot Award.

Keitha & Jim Haley

January 22, 2013

Dear Suzy, Derek, Joe, and Callahans,

O' that words could be touched, held, and felt as we write to express our heart for you. We love you deeply and hold you gently in our thoughts and prayers. We met Sam a few years ago, and we were so impressed with his quiet, vibrant presence. We heard of, and watched, a young man of maturity and depth-of-soul that was both inspiring and challenging. We thank God for such a LIFE in so compressed a time! And we are grateful to be inspired continuously by his life for the rest of ours.

With loving empathy,

jodi sloan

January 22, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't get to meet Sambut heard alot about him from Joe and David. I worked with them at Safeway.

Bell Mom

January 22, 2013

Sam, you will be missed.

January 22, 2013

Dear Derek,
My heart goes out to you, and Sam's entire family. Unfortunately I never had the opportunity to meet Sam, but through you, I know he was an amazing young man who inspired every life he touched. May his loving spirit and your wonderful memories guide you, Suzy, Joe and his entire family through this very difficult time.
With caring thoughts,
Terri Wright-Scheer

pat fisher

January 21, 2013

You have all been a tremendous inspiration, and Sam, a beautiful boy. with love.

Melynda Bonner

January 21, 2013

There are no words of comfort that I can offer. While I didn't personally know Sam, I know his stepfather. Sam was blessed to have such a loving family and he inspired me so much as he valiantly and courageously fought one of the ugliest disease known to us. I believe Sam is catching up with Miller and they are enjoying each other's company as they await the rest of us in a heavenly reunion. I pray for peace, comfort and precious memories for you all. Your friend, Melynda Bonner

Ben Gulmon class of 2011

January 21, 2013

It is always a sad day when a Bell goes silent.

Martha Dominick

January 20, 2013

Please look to The Compassionate Friends (on the web) for grief support whenever you feel up to it. We. Have lost two sons, and this support group run by parents for parents saved our lives. My prayers go out to your entire family. God bless,

January 20, 2013

For Sam

January 20, 2013

Dear Callahan Family. I am so sad to hear that Sam Passed. I have followed his progress though of him daily and wrote when I could. I intend to keep his team on my fb page to remember him daily. I know his family and friends really pulled for him and that neither her or his loved ones ever gave up. I was honored to be included in his battle and give thanks for daily blessings. Ken, my heart just goes out for you, I hope each day gets a tiny bit better. Carole Siegel

Olivia Gray

January 20, 2013

Dear Kenn, Don & Callahan,van Bronkhorst family,
Words are not enough to express the loss of a child. Please accept my most sincere condolences.

Jacki Berlinberg

January 20, 2013

All my love and support during this tragic loss. Sam may have lost the physical battle, but won the hearts of many!

Steve rISKO

January 20, 2013

Kenn and family-Although it has been many years since the days of YMCA family camp, I always held you and your family in such high regard. Upon reading about your son, I was so saddened that this happened in your life. I know God will take such good care of him and I know he will take care of you and your family at this very tough time. My extreme symphathies are with all of you right now.

Big dawg and lil dawg. Maui 2012.

Joe Callahan

January 20, 2013

I love you baby bro, beastmode forever. I will reunite with you in the stars one day.

Julie Brassfield

January 19, 2013

Dear Suzy and Family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sam was an amazing spirit and a true gift from God. May his incredible life bring inspiration to others for years to come.
Fondly,
The Brassfield Family
Scottsdale, AZ.

Erin O'Callaghan

January 19, 2013

An inspiration to many, I'm blessed with having the chance to meet Sam. He touched so many people. My thoughts are with Suzy and family and know that now Sam is now smiling down from heaven.

Caroline Miller Williams

January 19, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Though I never had the chance to meet Sam I know that he was a wonderful and loved gift from God. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

The Balbas Family

January 19, 2013

He will be sorely missed by all who new him. Rest in peace dear Sam. To Suzy, Derek, and Joe our hearts go out to you, Sam was a very special young man,you should be so proud to be his parents and brother. I'm sure he's looking down on you, and smiling. Know that he is in a better place, no more pain, just blissful happiness.

January 19, 2013

Derek and Suzy, he passed with a full heart. Your loving support made live a better life, full of love and momories to us all. Love, Becky

Stella Rodgers

January 19, 2013

I didn't know your family or Samuel, but reading his story made my soul sad. So young, and full of life. Know that he will always be with you; you won't see him physically, but his spirit will be next to you always. His love will come through in ways you may not be aware of. Bless you at this time of sorrow. Samuel is an "angel."

Beverly & David MacKinnon (Class of l959)

January 18, 2013

There are just no words for us to tell you how very sorry we are for the loss of Sam. My husband, David and Sam's Grandfather attended Mass. Maritime Academy, together, and we have been friends with he and Judy, throughout all these years. We have kept very closely in touch and knew each and every thing about Sam and the progress he was making. What an example Sam has set for everyone who knew him, never giving up and always looking forward. He, truly, was a gift to the world and especially to his family and he will never be forgotten. Please accept our Deepest Sympathies and we send our Thoughts, Prayers and Love to the entire family. May all your wonderful memories help to sustain you through this devastating loss.

KELSEY DOETSCH

January 18, 2013

I DIDNT KNOW SAM BUT I HAVE KNOWN JOE FOR A FEW YEARS AND FROM WHAT I HEARD HE WAS A FIGHTER THAT NEVER WANTED TO GIVE UP. YOU TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES SAM AND YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY ALL OF US! YOU WERE AN ANGEL TAKEN WAY TO SOON!

January 18, 2013

Dear Suzy & Derek,

Our hearts go out to you and your family. Please accept our condolences and if there is anything we can do to help, please let us know.

Jim and Susie Vaudagna

Darling Fischer Chapel of the Hills

January 19, 2013

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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