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Charlie Postma Obituary

CHARLIE POSTMA JUN 17, 1953 - DEC 20, 2010 Charlie passed away at Modesto Kaiser Hospital due to complications from multiple sclerosis (MS). He was surrounded and comforted by his loving family and many dear family friends who helped through these last difficult days. Charlie's life may have been short in years, but long in quality. Charlie was born in Picton, Canada after his family had emigrated from Holland. The family then emigrated to Southern CA when Charlie was about 1 1/2 years old. Charlie grew up in Artesia, attended schools there and then in 1972 relocated to Oakdale, CA to help his parents start their dairy. After his parents sold their dairy he worked for the Ed Tilma family dairy and eventually for his cousin Pete Postma's dairy. Charlie and Diana were married in 1988, and had many happy years together while working and living on the Postma dairy on Albers Rd. In 1998, Charlie started his own lawn care business, Organic Landscape Maintenance, which he operated for 8 years. He enjoyed his work and appreciated his loyal customers. When his MS progressed in 2006, he discontinued the business, and spent his days caring for their home, gardening, bee keeping and cooking delicious meals. Charlie's passions were his plants, gardening, fishing with his brother Jim, and scuba diving in Mexico. Charlie is survived by his wife Diana, his faithful dog Cayce and 6 siblings: Jo Mulder (Duane) of Santa Rosa, Bill (Eva) of Anaheim, John (David) of Cloverdale, Ed (Akke) of Holland, Jane Erro (Pat) of Oakdale, Jim Postma of Oakdale, and nine nephews and nieces. He was preceded in death by his parents Nies and Anna Postma and his youngest brother Ted. A special thank you to his mother-in-law Madonna Opela-Searcy, sister-in-law Debbie Opela-Crume, nephew Adam Erro (with whom he shares a birthday) Tami Postma, Jon & Amie Postma, LeeAna Postma and of course sweet Dana Postma for all their comfort and care during Charlie's final days. A celebration of Charlie's life will be held on January 15, 2011 in Oakdale, CA. Memorial Donations can be sent to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, Northern Calif. Chapter, 1700 Owens Street, Suite 190, San Francisco, CA 94158 designated for Charlie's Angels MS Walk Team, or to the Commemorative Giving Program for Monterey Bay Aquarium, 886 Cannery Row, Monterey, CA 93940. One of Charlie's favorite quotes: When one door closes another one opens.'' www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee on Jan. 2, 2011.

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Lisa Brunswick

January 7, 2011

Charlie was my neighbor. We talked occasionally when he was out in his front yard and he was always a very pleasant person. Although I didn't know him well, I felt that he was a very brave person who fought to have his life, although wheelchair bound, be the best quality life one could have. My hat is off to you Charlie! My deepest heart felt condolences to you Diana.

john tilma

January 3, 2011

we will miss Charlie. It was my pleasure to have him as my employee/roommate for a few years and I never saw him angry or say anything bad about any person whatsoever. He liked everyone and everyone liked him.

rachel ann

January 2, 2011

Mr.Postma was such a joy to take care of. I knew him only a short time, but in the short time i really enjoyed visiting and caring for him.

Dorothy Pitassi

January 2, 2011

Dear Jim, Jane and Families...
I know the loss of Charlie to you all is a very sad happening. There is a quote that I hold onto since my own loss that helps me to remember to cherish each person in my life every day. It says, "When someone we love becomes a Memory, that Memory becomes a Treasure." I'm sure you have many memories to treasure about Charlie. My husband and I had many conversations with him as he worked next door as the gardener. He was a fine man.
God Bless you and comfort you all

Dorothy Pitassi

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