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Gemma Sciabica Obituary

Gemma Sanita Sciabica
January 29, 1924 - September 29, 2020
Gemma Sanita Sciabica passed away peacefully on September 29th which was the Feast Day of St. Michael the Archangel. Gemma was a very loving person and lived Jesus' command: "Love one another as I have loved you". That love had to be tremendous because we were fortunate to receive that love as her sons, daughters-in-law, grandchildren, great grandchildren, Godchildren, nephews, nieces, cousins and friends.
Gemma was born on January 29, 1924 in Waterbury, Connecticut to Donato and Luisa Recchia. Her parents came from the small village of Volturara Appula in the Province of Foggia in the Apulia region of southeast Italy. Gemma had one sister Sanita Recchia who predeceased her and two brothers Antonio (Carmela) Recchia and Pasquale (Mary) Recchia who also predeceased her. She lived to be the oldest of all her family.
Gemma married Joseph Sciabica in 1943 and moved to Modesto. She always preferred the warm weather in California compared to the cold weather in Connecticut. She definitely did not like the snow and ice. Joseph and his father Nicola (Nick) pioneered the production of premium olive oil in California and Gemma, with the talents she learned from her mother Luisa, developed her own cooking techniques using exclusively the family's olive oil. In her latter years Gemma self-published five cookbooks encompassing all her cooking talents covering everything from desserts to main dishes. Joseph was her best promoter and we all enjoyed with so many others her wonderful meals. Joseph passed away in 2010 and it is comforting to know that they are now reunited along with her family and her Mother who she so longed to see. They are all now enjoying a wonderful banquet in Heaven!
Gemma is survived by her two sons, Nicholas and Daniel and her two daughters-in-law, Terese and Emily. She is also survived by her grandsons Joseph (Merrilisa), Jonathan (Katie) and Sean and her granddaughters Christa (Ryan), Mari and Marissa. She is also survived by her great grandsons Nicholas, Andrew, Killian, Dante, Lucca, Lorenzo and her great granddaughters Reagan, Gemma and McKenna. She is also survived by her nieces, Patty, Palma, Louise, Mary Jo, Linda and Dolores and her nephew Anthony. She also had another nephew Daniel who predeceased her.
Services will be private through Franklin and Downs Funeral Home and St. Stanislaus Catholic Church. Memorial remembrances can be made as a donation to the St. Vincent de Paul Society at St. Stanislaus Catholic Church.
We love you Mom and know you have been made whole again and are enjoying the presence of our Lord, whose love for you shined on all of us. Your ministry was your family. We felt God's love non-stop through you. We take comfort that you are now reunited with everyone you so longed to see in the eternal glories of your Heavenly Home.
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Published by Modesto Bee on Oct. 11, 2020.

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Cal Orey

August 3, 2021

I am so sorry to discover Gemma has gone to the angels. She was a mentor to me. A dear, giving woman. Gemma was like a surrogate mother. I miss her. A lot. I did immortalize her and her wonderful recipes. She lives on.

Dave Sciabica (from Boston and Sarasota)

October 12, 2020

First, my condolences to all the Sciabica family. I remember Gemma fondly from my first trip to Modesto around 1995. Joseph told me Gemma had prepared some lunch for us. I was astounded to find no less than 6-7 large dishes of different entrees plus multiple desserts. It was a memorable time talking with the all the family and learning of the ancestral connections over coffee and, of course, Joseph's bottle of anisette. Such a wonderful lady!

John/Annie Stallone

October 12, 2020

Nicky & Danny: We were very sorry to learn of Gemma's passing. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by all who knew her. Our condolences to your families. John/Annie Stallone, Greenville, SC

Virginia and Chuck Amarelo

October 11, 2020

Gemma,
I remenber you making my brother John and my birthday cakes, and you came to our home and showed me how to make macroni and cheese. Those were good times,and now time has gone bye and now I show our granddaughters how to make dishes, I will always remenber how kind your were. God bless you
Love Virginia and Chuck Amarelo

Dolores Sciabica

October 10, 2020

My Aunt Gemma was the sweetest, kindest, caring, most compassionate and loving woman I have ever known!!!! I miss those great days we had together when she was in her home.....we had great talks, laughs, and did some cooking & baking together. She was always a joy to be around. I will NEVER forget her. I know she is “at peace” now in a beautiful place with her creator and all her family, friends, & acquaintances! Rest In Peace, Aunt Gemma....with love always!♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

Dolores Sciabica

October 10, 2020

My Aunt Gemma was the most loving, kind, caring, & compassionate woman I have ever known. She dedicated her life to her husband, two sons, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and all of her nieces, nephews, daughter-in-laws and her close friends. She was the absolute BEST in her cooking, baking....and through all her successes with her five cookbooks and being written up in Sunset Magazine she was always so very down-to earth....when anyone visited her home she would always make them feel so at home with offering them something to eat (be it her delicious cooking and/or baking)!!!!

I missed out on some important years with my Aunt, but I felt that the few years we did spend together were VERY MEMORABLE and SO ENJOYABLE!!!! SHE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BY ME (nor ANYONE who ever had the pleasure of knowing her)!!!! I know she is now at PEACE & VERY HAPPY to be with her husband, parents, and all her loving family & great friends now.....no more suffering for you now, Aunt Gemma. Loving you, always♥♥♥Dolores

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