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Thomas MacDonald Obituary
November 30, 1944 - May 5, 2021
Modesto, California - Tom MacDonald, age 76, passed away Wednesday May 5, 2021 with his wife Jeannie and his children by his side. Born on November 30, 1944 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Tom attended Philadelphia area Catholic schools. Upon graduation from La Salle University, he began work in sales moving west to Manhattan Beach, California, where he met Jeannie Angelo. On October 9, 1971, Tom and Jeannie were married in Modesto, California. They spent a short time in St. Louis, Missouri, before settling in Modesto where they raised their five children. Tom began work at Paul M. Zagaris Real Estate, now PMZ, in 1973, setting the early foundation of a 48-year career in real estate in the Central Valley. He was passionate about personal relationships with his clients, understanding the responsibility of helping families find their home. Tom was a life-long learner and avid reader whose passion for knowledge was endless. His warmth, generosity and intelligence were felt by all who knew him. He loved spending time with his family, watching his grandkids play tennis, baseball, basketball and soccer.
Tom is survived by his wife of 49 years, Jeannie Angelo MacDonald, his daughters, Lisa (Gerard) Thoukis of Modesto, Jenna (Steven) Knudsen of Los Angeles, Jamie MacDonald of Modesto, Katie (Tom) Schendel of Lincoln, and his son, TJ MacDonald III of Modesto and his grandchildren, Georgia Thoukis and Stefan Thoukis of Modesto, Julian Knudsen of Los Angeles and William Schendel and George Schendel of Lincoln. He is also survived by his brother Jack (Adele) MacDonald of Springfield, Pennsylvania and many cousins, nieces and nephews. Tom was preceded in death by his parents, Thomas Joseph and Mary Elin MacDonald.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 am on Thursday, May 13, 2021 at St. Joseph's Catholic Church at 1813 Oakdale Road, Modesto, CA. Committal Services will be held at Lakewood Memorial Park in Hughson. A vigil service will be held for the immediate family. The family has requested in lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tom's name to Stanco (Stanislaus County Affordable Housing) at 909 15th Street, Suite 6, Modesto, CA 95354 or Lodi Association of Realtors (Christmas CanTree) at 777 S. Ham Lane, Lodi, CA 95242.
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Lynda Soares
September 21, 2022
Jeannie and Jamie - I JUST found out about Tom's passing and want to tell you just how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Andy spoke very highly of Tom and we looked forward to the years ahead being friends and neighbors. Now they are together and we are left to go on with them in our hearts. Jeannie, please don't hesitate to call any time. I'm in Texas now and would love to have you come visit any time!!! Know that I'm praying for your family. Warmest wishes and feel a warm hug from me! Lynda Soares
Mike and Linda Gianelli
May 20, 2021
Jeannie and family. We were so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We heard your last evening was a special one celebrating with Mexican food and good friends. May your memories stay in your heart and give you comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Mike & Linda
Phil and Gloria Harris
May 19, 2021
Jeannie and Family, We cannot express the sadness felt for your loss of your loving husband, father and grandfather Tom was a class act .He will be missed in our community and by friends . Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Sending our Love.
Marla and George Arata
May 17, 2021
He was always positive and happy. Family first then his community as he was caring toward all he met. He will be missed.
ReminderMedia
May 13, 2021
It was a pleasure working with Tom for many years. Our thoughts are with the MacDonald family at this difficult time. May you be comforted by loving memories.
Kate McAuley
May 12, 2021
Dear Jeannie and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Very sad news indeed. Keeping you all in my prayers.
RIP Tommy
Kate McAuley
Tracy Herbeck
May 10, 2021
Tom, you are a truly honorable man. Our community has suffered a great loss with your passing. Jeannie says you're in a better place. I hope that's true. You deserve it.
Ramona Ochoa
May 10, 2021
I offer my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May Tom's soul be at peace with our Heavenly Father. I pray for peace and comfort for you and your family at this difficult time and offer my condolences to Jeannie and to the family. I will always remember Tom as a man with a gentle soul, willing to share his vast knowledge and always with a smile. May he rest in peace!
Kenn Cunningham
May 10, 2021
Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to all of the McDonald family. Tom was a gracious and kind neighbor, and we mourn his death. Jessica and I send our prayers to Jeanie and her family for God's peace to be upon them.
Lou Christie
May 9, 2021
One of kindest and caring people I had a pleasure of knowing. A man that truly loved his family. May he rest in peace.
Erika Wasmund
May 9, 2021
Beautiful tribute, my heart goes oit to his family. Xo
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