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Thomas Gaetje Obituary

Thomas S. Gaetje MORGANTON Mr. Thomas Stephen Gaetje, 69, of Morganton, died Monday, Dec. 10, 2012, at Burke Hospice and Palliative Care Center, Valdese, after several months of declining health. Mr. Gaetje was born May 22, 1943, in Newark, N.J., a son of the late Frank and Ann Karby Gaetje. Thomas was a graduate of Wake Forest University and played football as a proud Demon Deacon. His working career included trust officer for a bank, Hospital Administrator, and teaching at the Summit Christian School in West Palm Beach, Fla. He served his community as Vice Chairman of the Board of Directors for the Good Samaritan Clinic in Morganton, and his country as a member of both the U.S. Army and U.S. Navy. Surviving are his wife, Patricia Rogers Gaetje, of the home; a brother, Frank Gaetje, of Prosser, Wash.; two nephews, William Pat and Clay Gaetje; an uncle, Stephen Karby; and a cousin, Richard Karby. Also surviving are his extended family, the Theodore Royster family and a special nephew, Ty Bell. No Services are planned at this time. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Burke Hospice and Palliative Care, 1721 Enon Rd. Valdese, NC 28690 or to the Good Samaritan Clinic, 305 W. Union St., Morganton, NC 28655. An online guestbook and obituary is available at heritagefuneral services.com. Heritage Funeral Service and Crematory is assisting the Gaetje family.

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Published by The News Herald from Dec. 11 to Dec. 12, 2012.

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William D. J. Wallis

William Wallis

December 17, 2012

Tom threw me a long pass. We were playing football during a physical education class at Chatham High. He judged my speed, put the ball right into my hands, and I continued my unbroken stride. Then WHAM! I was slapped in the back on the shoulders by a defensive player and I did a complete forward flip. Landing back on my feet, I scampered into the end zone. I had dirt in my hair as a witness to the unplanned somersault.
Tom's skill made other people look good. His friendship made others feel good. His smile lit up everyone's world.
God is in all the details of our life. We learn special values in our heart by events engineered by a loving Heavenly Father. It was no accident that I attended the same high school as Tom. Tom blessed my life. In a few years I will be joining Tom for making more God-directed memories.
In the meantime, I will be running the patterns that God calls, to the best of my ability. God has the skill to put the ball right into my hands. I learned that from Tom.
Eternally grateful, William

ART BLEVINS

December 17, 2012

COACH TOM, MY FRIEND, COACH, AND FATHER FIGURE TO ME, I WILL MISS YOU !!!!!
THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES AND GUIDANCE !!
LOVE YOU AND PAT ALWAYS !!!

Jo Gaetje

December 14, 2012

I will miss you forever and cherish the memories.

The Gaetje's

December 12, 2012

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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