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JOHN YOUNGER Obituary

JOHN F. YOUNGER, JR. John was born on November 28, 1939, in Beaumont, Texas, the son of Charlene and John F. Younger, Sr. When he was five, the family moved to Midland, Texas, where he was raised, together with his kid brother, Charles. After graduating from Midland High School, where he served as president of the student body, John spent a formative post-graduate year at the New Hampton School in New Hampshire. He then earned an undergraduate degree from Yale University, where he took tremendous pride in being a core member of the undefeated freshman football team. He earned a law degree at the University of Texas at Austin where he met, quickly fell in love with, and married Chica Gray, whom he loved more than anyone. Always a champion of the underdog, John intervened and advocated for those who suffered injustices and lacked the resources to defend themselves. He felt it was his duty. It is this conviction that led him to the Marine Corps and to the practice of law. His first post was in the JAG Corps. From there, he went on to become a respected trial attorney in San Antonio. In addition to giving his time and expertise in the courtroom, his professional success afforded him the ability to give philanthropically. He gave generously to friends and family, the church, people who were down on their luck, and entrepreneurs with "new and promising" business endeavors. We are still waiting for the Pet Ambulance to make it big. John loved golf, and his prowess on the course earned him the affectionate nickname, Bogey. Fishing was another favorite pastime, especially in Junction, and his friends and family all agree that he spent far more time acquiring, assembling, and organizing his gear than he did in the water. The pleasure in acquiring gear for himself was exceeded only by the joy of buying it for someone else. John's accumulation of manly accoutrement applied not just to fishing but to all other activities befitting a sportsman. He had driving gloves, was among the first to rig in his car a CD player and not long thereafter a television screen. In the Marine tradition, he was always prepared with multiple rain jackets, a variety of umbrellas, watches for every occasion, dozens of knives, and boxes of golf balls, all just in case. And no one loved to read an instruction manual like him. Cover to cover. Then tell you about it. Perhaps the thing he loved most, outside of his friends and family, was music. The 50's turned out his all-time favorites, and he also "discovered" Neil Diamond in the 90's, then Meatloaf a decade or so later. He always talked about "The Greats" and carried their music with him in his car, on the golf course, at weddings and even nursing homes and mental institutions. As a result of his passions, and because he was good-natured, kind and patient, John had friends from all walks of life, human and animal. His love for his pets, and all animals, was unconditional and unabashed. It also meant that, while John loved the camaraderie of a guys' weekend away, he didn't make for much of a hunter. Like all children of God, John was imperfect. He knew his faults. He also struggled with depression. He walked through life on earth led by his heart - a true romantic - which meant he was vulnerable, and he didn't always make the "smart" choice: recall the Pet Ambulance and his conviction that Whataburger was the perfect breakfast. He never stopped loving his family and friends, and we are all grateful that he is now, and will forever more be, at eternal peace. The family offers special thanks and tremendous gratitude to Liduvena Elizalde, a dear friend and caregiver; Don Hanson, Miranda Rankin and Dr. Alan Merin, all of whom were instrumental in John's well-being in his last years on earth; and the many other providers who took such good care of John including the staff at Franklin Park Alamo Heights, Embrace Hospice of San Antonio and University Hospital. John is survived by his wife of 54 years, Chica Younger; children, Galeana Elizabeth Younger (San Antonio, TX), John Stuart Younger (Burbank, CA) and Isabella Allen (Boston, MA); daughter-in-law, Co-Co Aiello-Younger; son-in-law, Chris Allen; Rachel and Jeff Woodson and their boys, Han and Bude; grandchildren, Gray, Eleanor, Lila and Polly; brother, Dr. Charles "Doc" Younger (Midland, TX) and his wife, Frances; numerous nieces and nephews; and his beloved dog, Reo Bravo. A memorial service will be held for John at St. Mark's Episcopal Church in San Antonio, TX, on Thursday, August 25, 2022, at 11am, followed by a reception in Gosnell Hall at the church. In lieu of flowers, John's family would welcome a contribution in his name to St. Mark's Episcopal Church (315 E. Pecan St., San Antonio, TX 78205), SNIPSA, an animal rescue organization (P.O. Box 90325, San Antonio, TX 78209), or the charity of your choice. Vaya con Dios, Juan in a million.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram on Aug. 23, 2022.

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Mary Virginia Holcomb Dickerson

October 13, 2024

John, Charles and I are cousins. Our blessed grandmothers were very close first cousins. John and Charles would come to McKinney to visit and we got to play together while our grannies cooked, laughed, shared news about all the relatives and had a wonderful time. My grandmother was Ray McLarry Lucas and the boys´ grandmother was Elma Hunn Younger, who I called Aunt Elma. I looked forward to the visits because John and Charles were such fun! I last saw John at McKinney´s Chesnut Square memorial for his Uncle Bobby Younger. To John´s family, I send sympathy, blessings, prayers and hugs. I wish I could have met each one of you. May he rest in peace and joy. Mary Virginia Holcomb Dickerson, McKinney and San Francisco, 2024.

Peter Greene Hardy

September 16, 2022

I am truly sorry to hear about John´s passing. "Tex" and I were classmates at New Hampton. We played football together. I can tell you that the hardest hit I ever took was from John in practice. We used to say that John was 157 pounds of "blue-twisted-steel."
I believe the last time I saw John was at our 50th Reunion in 2009. We hadn´t seen each other since graduation. New Hampton was good for us. We were both PG´s or post graduates. New Hampton helped us to get accepted at better schools than we might have otherwise. John we on to Yale and I to Tufts. We never crossed paths again until our 50th Reunion. It was good to see him. It is awful that our lives grow apart, but John was is Austin I believe and I was in San Francisco.
It sounds like John had some struggles I was unaware of. Now he´s at peace. God rest his soul.

Frank R.Southers

August 25, 2022

John Younger, a complete lawyer in every sense of the word, always there to lend a helping hand, a fighter for his clients, especially for the poor and disadvantaged, and a good friend-- Rest In Peace, John!

Jeanne and Franklin Redmond

August 25, 2022

Our hearts are with you, Chica, and the wonderful children you and John share. May God's comfort surround you.

Charles "Bubba" Bryce

August 24, 2022

My cousin John was an incredible person who leaves behind a great legacy. I'm proud to call him one of my relatives and I'll always treasure the great times and laughs we shared together. My prayers go out to the Younger family. May God comfort you all during this tough time. I'll see you in the next life John!

Princess Cook

August 24, 2022

I send my heartfelt condolences to you, Chica, and your family for your terrible loss of your beloved John. He was one of the kindest people I know--a wonderful, caring person who loved his family and was greatly valued by his huge collection of friends. He was a great friend to me and was one of the most generous, caring and compassionate people I know. I will always remember him with love.

LaDawn Crouch Shryer

August 24, 2022

Dear Younger family, my heart hurts for your loss. John will continue to be a sweetheart in my memories. He was an exceptional boss to my sister Princess. I had the pleasure of babysitting the kiddos once. Then giving family massages in your home. Also he came to Comfort once to fly fish on Cypress Creek trying unsuccessful to teach me to cast. Those memories live on and I am so blessed to have known John, a precious soul. God Bless.

Henry Roberts

August 23, 2022

John was a very fine man and a great friend. Always had a smile and a good word. He will be missed!

MARIA G TREVINO

August 22, 2022

My JFY, I will miss you! I will miss calling you on your birthdays. Safe travels...
Love,
Maria

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