Patricia Irene (Warner) Sholey
July 5, 1936 - November 30, 2023
Patricia Irene Sholey, life-long resident of Butte, MT, passed away November30, 2023. She was born July 5, 1936 to Ted and Irene Warner, She attended Elementary School and with hard work earned her GED.
Pat married Bert Sholey and they welcomed six beautiful children, Bert, Rick, Mark, Susan, Scott and Steve.
She spent her early years raising her children and being a huge influence on their Ramsay School years by being involved with the PTA, chaperoning school dances and attending all of their athletic and scholastic events. In 1970 Pat and Bert purchased the CourtHouse Grocery in uptown Butte, she became a big part of the small town family grocery store's success. Later in life Pat and Bert divorced and she tried her hand at several new ventures including a Life Insurance Agent, Laundry Attendant for Copper Ridge Health and Rehab, and finally as an attendant for Lenny's Casino.
Pat loved playing cards with her many card buddies, but her greatest joy was family game nights where Hand & Foot or Shanghai were always on tap while listening to "Tie a Yellow Ribbon" on the old stereo. Her grandchildren loved stopping by her home to conversate and soak up her wisdom on life, and to raid the infamous Candy Cupboard.
She is survived by daughter and son-in-law Susan (Ken) Beck, sons and daughter-in-laws Bert (Dolores) Sholey, Rick (Sherry) Sholey, Scott (Lori) Sholey and Steve (Pam) Sholey; numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren; "daughter-in-law" Bonnie Sholey and close friend Sheila Mayes.
She was preceded in death by her son Mark, grandsons Rick and Bert, parents Ted and Irene and brothers Ron and Bob Warner
Pat's loving, warm and kind spirit where family always comes first will be forever missed.
Remember mom, "It will all come out in the Wash"!!
Memorials in memory of Pat may be made to a charity of your choice. Memorial service will be held Wednesday, December 13th, 2023 at 11:00 at Duggan Dolan Mortuary. Internment of ashes will follow in Sunset Memorial Cemetery. A reception will follow at the McQueen Culb at 1:00.
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Sponsored by Duggan Dolan Mortuary - Butte.
Sue Konda
November 25, 2024
Pat, Huggs and I know that you are resting in piece with the boys that we have continued to love and miss all of these years. And you have (Sis) and ( Georgia )up there with you. Hugs to all of your family to, You were a great and beautiful mom.
Tedd Warner
January 30, 2024
Love you Aunt Pat!!
Douglas Rykiel
January 4, 2024
So sorry for your loss
Cindy Jones
December 14, 2023
So sorry for your loss! She was a wonderful lady!
Cindy Jones and family
Shirley Grant
December 7, 2023
Patty-Very Special Fun Loving Cousin! I cherish my memories of staying over with her and the kids when growing up. Much Loved and Missed!!!Shirley Grant
Janice Clark Muniz
December 6, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
My thoughts & prayers to Susan (Ken), Bert (Dee), Bonnie ( Jen) and all of the Sholey Family. Pat was such a wonderful lady but mostly a devoted mother to her children, Grandchildren and great Grandchildren. May her memories hold dear in your hearts. Rest in peace Pat. ((((Hugs))))
Janice Clark Muniz
Cec Flink
December 6, 2023
Pat was a great lady. I loved her laugh. I worked with her at Lennys for a lot of years. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Toni "James" Messer
December 5, 2023
Susan and family I am so sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful lady. I enjoyed as a your girl at Ramsay when I would spend the night at your house. RIP
Greg LaMiaux
December 5, 2023
My condolences to ALL of the Sholey family. She was the best! I hope her and Grandma Ann are playing cards and Bunko! We love you.
Sue Konda
December 5, 2023
Sholey family, I am sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I know what a great lady she was. I often ran into her at Walmart before her Copper-ridge days. She was a strong lady and what a beautiful young lady. We will always remember her and the sad connection with our family and my nephew Tony. Our thoughts and prayers will always be with all of your family.
RPI Pat and give my sister (Sis) a hug and Tony too please.
Sue Konda
Carole (Grant) Riley
December 5, 2023
Sorry to see this..Patty was my cousin. I saw her on my trips to Butte.. I remember times with family fun growing up in the big family.. Loved her & great fun memories!! May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Bobbie
December 5, 2023
Pat was one of my favorite residents at copper ridge she will be missed I Loved her so much. GOD BLESS HER
BOBBIE
Sherri Sholey Dankets
December 4, 2023
Bert. Ricky, Scott, Susan and Steve, your Mom was such a very special lady! She always played with us kids growing up, social and such a wonderful disposition. It is always hard to understand as our parents age but we love them no matter what.
Aunt Patty holds a vety special place in my heart,
I am so sorry for your loss
Charlene Warren
December 3, 2023
Susan & Ken - I am so very sorry to read of your mother's passing. Susan - you are in my thoughts tonight.
Charlene LeProwse Warren
Tammy Larson
December 1, 2023
I will always remember the fun times playing soft ball with Aunt Patty, she was better than any guy on the field, she always made visiting so much fun, will love and miss her always
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