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Alexander Mayer Obituary
ALEXANDER VINCENT MAYER
AGE: 69 SAYREVILLE
Alexander Vincent Mayer, 69, of Sayreville passed away Saturday Feb. 13, 2010 at his home in Toms River where he resided for the past several months. Born in New York City he had resided in New Brunswick before moving to Sayreville in 1954. Mr Mayer was a U.S. Navy Veteran serving from 1958 to 1964, was a member of the Sayreville Sportsman Club, big time Giants and Rangers fan and a communicant of Our Lady of Victories R. C. Church in Sayreville. Al was co-owner of Sayreville Bar for 45 years and was also book keeper for Mayer Catering.
He is predeceased by his parents, Bela and Ann Mayer. Surviving are his loving wife of 44 years, the former Margaret Shurina; his children and their spouses, William & Sharon Mayer of Jackson, Raquel "Kelly" & Mark Delgado of Sayreville and Michelle & Matthew De Mild of Salt Point, New York; his grandchildren, Samantha, Meranda, Conner, Christine, Justin, Victoria, Apryl, and Alexandria; his brother, Walter Mayer and his wife Donna Jeanne of Morganville; his sister, Ann Weber and her husband Kenneth, of North Port, Florida; his sister in laws, Mary O'Halloran, Liz Shurina, Diane Shurina and Debra Campanile and many nieces and nephews.
Funeral services will be held Wednesday 8:45am from the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home 15 Cherry Lane Parlin followed by a 9:30am mass at Our Lady of Victories R. C. Church in Sayreville with private cremation to follow. Calling hours at the funeral home will be Tuesday from 2pm to 4pm and 7pm to 9pm. In lieu of flowers the family would like donations in Alexander's name be made at the funeral home where the family will select the charity of their choice.
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Memories and Condolences
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Carol Schmidt
February 28, 2010
Dear Marge, Michelle, Kelly, & Billy,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I have special memories of each and every one of you. He is no longer beside you but will remain forever in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Carol
Ernest Gladys Schmitt
February 16, 2010
Marge; Gladys and wish to extend our concolences to you and you children
Angela Alfonso
February 16, 2010
Dear Mayer Family,
I was very sorry to hear about your loss. I have many fond memories of Al that will always live in my heart. He will be missed.
Michael Anghelone
February 16, 2010
Dear Margie,Michelle,Kelly,and Billy,
We are very sorry for your lost.I have great memories and good times with Al and the family.Al will be deeply missed.
Mike and Betty Anghelone
Paqui Hauber Barton
February 15, 2010
Dear Mayer Family,
We am sorry for your loss. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Paqui Hauber Barton and Family
Pat Minnick
February 15, 2010
We are very sorry for your loss. Al was always so nice and friendly to us during our times at Sayreville Bar. He was a class act.
Pat and Andrea Minnick
Gina Argonish
February 15, 2010
Dear Margie, Billy, Michelle, and Kelly:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray that the memories, and spirit within, help to overcome your sorrow during this difficult time.
Love,
Gina
Gina Argonish
February 15, 2010
Dear Margie, Billy, Michelle, and Kelly:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray that the memories, and spirit within, help to overcome your sorrow during this difficult time.
Love,
Gina
Jim and Pat McCracken
February 15, 2010
Dear Marge and Family,
We are sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Rip Garbowski
February 15, 2010
My heartfelt sympathy to Al's family. Every time I came back to Sayreville for a visit, I would stop in and get the happy welcome
from Al and the scoop on the Giants.
Tina Storrs
February 15, 2010
Dear Mayer Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina and Brian Storrs
Marie Chuntz
February 15, 2010
Our deepest sympathies during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
With love & prayers,
Marie & Barry Chuntz & Family
February 15, 2010
Dear Marge and Family So sorry for your loss. John and Fran Rupp
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