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Bernice Kempler Obituary

Bernice Kempler

Monmouth Beach - Bernice Kempler, age 98, of Monmouth Beach, NJ, formerly of Deal, NJ, passed away in her home on February 18, 2020.

Bernice was a renaissance woman, a maverick, ahead of her time. She was a wife, a mother, a friend, an artist, a performer, a career woman, a business woman.

She attended Queens College, where she studied art, and continued on to Columbia University where she received a Master's Degree in Education. She then pursued teaching and went on to a career at Lenna Conrow School in Long Branch, NJ, where she taught 3rd grade for more than 30 years.

In addition to being a school teacher and a mother of three daughters, she shared her gift for singing and acting with her local community. She was the lead in several musicals at the JCC In Ocean, NJ, and sang on the radio when she was young.

Bernice and her husband, Henry, were also entrepreneurs, starting and managing several businesses throughout their life together. They successfully conquered several challenges, from a pie factory in FL, a kitchen cabinet factory and home building business in Ocean, NJ, two beach clubs (The Colony Surf Club and The West End Casino) in West End, NJ, and an off-campus dormitory for Monmouth University which they had converted from a Victorian house in Long Branch, NJ.

She was predeceased in 1994 by her husband of 48 years, Henry Kempler, and her parents, Philip and Dorothy Gordon. She is survived by her sister, Jean Moslin of Farmingdale, NY, her three daughters, Joan Goode of Ocean, NJ, Ellen Theodore of West Long Branch, NJ, and Susan Kempler Robbins of New York, NY, four grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.

She led a long and wonderful life that inspired many. We will miss her very much.

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Published by Asbury Park Press from Feb. 25 to Feb. 26, 2020.

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Bruce Fisher

February 26, 2020

Mrs. Kempler came to Liberty Street School in early 1952 when our first grade teacher left on maternity leave. She had first and second graders in one classroom. After a few weeks, she felt I should be moved from first to second grade and the principal, Mr. Waxwood, agreed with her. Much later I learned that they took a good deal of criticism for doing this, but they stuck to their convictions. I personally had no ill effects from this and happily went forward with my new classmates. I very fondly remember Mrs. Kempler's warmth and enthusiasm as a teacher, embodying every attribute of excellence one could ever hope for in the elementary education setting. She was part of a cadre of outstanding teachers at Liberty Street School. I am proud and grateful to have been her student. May her family be comforted by memories of a life well lived. Bruce D. Fisher, MD

Karen McGee

February 26, 2020

Mrs. Kempler was my teacher at Liberty Street school. She was an wonderful teacher and made learning fun. I have so much respect for contribution to the students at Kiberty Street school. May God comfort the family and may the family celebrate her awesome life. Rest In Peace

Linda Puryear

February 26, 2020

My 3rd grade teacher at Liberty St School. She was a great teacher and role model. May God bless her soul. Condolences to the family and all who mourn her loss.

Peter Skokos

February 26, 2020

Ellen: so sorry to read of your mother's passing. I remember seeing some of her paintings around the area and never realized they were hers.

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