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Peter Joseph Barnes Jr.

1928 - 2018

Peter Joseph Barnes Jr. obituary, 1928-2018, 89, Edison

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Peter Barnes Obituary

Peter Joseph Barnes, Jr.

Edison - Peter Joseph Barnes Jr. of Edison, New Jersey died on Tuesday, September 11, 2018, one day shy of his 90th Birthday.

Born September 12, 1928 in Providence, Rhode Island, Peter was the sixth of seven children born to Charlotte (née Walsh) and Peter J. Barnes, Sr.

Barnes graduated from LaSalle Academy in Providence and served in the U.S. Army Military Police, later receiving a football scholarship to Marianapolis Prep in Thompson, Ct. He graduated with honors from Providence College in 1954 and received an appointment to the FBI where he enjoyed a remarkable career until his retirement in 1980.

Following his retirement, Barnes embarked on a career as a Security Consultant which led him to the investigation of several notable cases. Barnes also served as Director of Security for the New Jersey Devils seeing the team to their first Stanley Cup.

Barnes served 11 years in the New Jersey Legislature where he represented the 18th District. He was the Majority Whip and Chairman of the Law and Public Safety Committee. In addition, he was a member of the Regulatory Oversight Committee and Human Services Committee. During his time in the Assembly, Barnes was the primary sponsor of 62 bills that were signed into law, including but not limited to a landmark bill to reform criminal sentencing practices, smart gun legislation, and stem cell research. Over the years, Barnes established a reputation for candor and collegiality.

Following his retirement from the Assembly, Barnes was appointed as Chairman of the New Jersey Parole Board assisting in the formation of prison reentry programs for parolees. Additionally, Barnes served two terms as Chairman of the Middlesex County Democratic Organization. Barnes also served on the Executive Board for the Metuchen-Edison YMCA where the Peter J. Barnes Community Champion Award was established in his honor. In addition, Barnes was named Irishman of the Year by the Friendly sons of Saint Patrick and received the Good Citizens Award by the Boys Scouts of America. For twenty years he was a proud member of the Metuchen Savings Bank Board of Directors. Barnes was a faithful communicant at St Francis Cathedral in Metuchen.

Barnes was predeceased by his son-in-law Rick Stewart and his daughter-in-law Dr. Virginia (née Monsul). Barnes is survived by the love of his life wife Barbara (née Gallogly) with whom he shared 63 years of marriage, his sister Bette of Chagrin Falls, OH, his children Peter J. Barnes III of Edison, John Patrick Barnes of Sea Girt, Sheila Clemente of New Canaan, CT, Kelly Stewart of Darien, CT, as well as his daughter-in-law Katie Barnes, son-in-law Paolo Clemente, and his ten beloved grandchildren.

Near the end of his life, Barnes was asked to sum up the beliefs most important to him. Faith, Family and Flag, he commented, in that order.

A visitation will be held on Friday, September 14, 2018 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Costello- Runyon Funeral Home, 568 Middlesex Ave (Rt.27), Metuchen, NJ 08840. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, September 15, 2018 at 10:15 a.m. at St. Francis of Assisi Cathedral, 32 Elm Ave., Metuchen, NJ 08840 followed by interment at Hillside Cemetery, 52 Lincoln Ave., Metuchen, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Central Jersey Spinal Cord Association, PO Box 74, New Brunswick, NJ 08903, OR the MEWSA YMCA, 483 Middlesex Ave, Metuchen, NJ 08840.

To send condolences please visit www.costello-runyon.com.

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Published by Home News Tribune on Sep. 13, 2018.

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September 29, 2018

God cares for you personally and individually. 1 peter 5:6,7. He will heal your heart and help you during this period of sorrow.

Bro. Thomas Gerrow, FSC President

September 24, 2018

On behalf of the entire La Salle Academy community, I extend my sincere condolences to the Barnes Family on Peter's passing. He was a valued and loyal alum.

Carol Johnson

September 16, 2018

Dear Mrs. Barnes & family, I am so sorry i didn't know about this until Saturday, otherwise, I would've been there for you. Mr. Barnes was a very special man, and will be greatly missed. Praying that God will comfort you & give you His peace. Love, Carol (Umbach) Johnson

Reid Weinman

September 15, 2018

So sorry for your profound loss. A truly great man, just like the sons he raised that I do know.

Reid Weinman

September 15, 2018

I am so sorry to hear of this profound loss. Although we have never met, I feel I know him through his career of making the world around him a better place, just like the sons he raised do.

g b

September 13, 2018

One day i got a knock on my door and it was Mr Barnes . He wanted to know what he could do for my family.I needed a handicap parking spot for my son who is wheelchair bound .Less than a months time i had it.He was truly a blessing for the people of Edison.

Bill Oels

September 13, 2018

Pat, I am very sorry to hear about your dad's passing. God bless you and your family.

September 13, 2018

Our condolences to the wonderful Barnes family. Pete was a great role model and, a great friend.

RIP


Pat & Tina La Rocca
Sarasota Fl

September 13, 2018

My sincere condolence to mrs Barnes on the passing of your dear husband.Job 33:25

Michael Hegedus

September 13, 2018

My condolences to the Barnes Family.

R D

September 13, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jim Stanke

September 13, 2018

To a Great Man and a long time good friend. Rest in peace. You made this world a better place!

Rev 21:3&4 G. Johnson

September 13, 2018

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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