Alan Lee Quale

1944 - 2022

Alan Lee Quale obituary, 1944-2022, San Mateo, CA

Alan Lee Quale

1944 - 2022

BORN

1944

DIED

2022

Alan Quale Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by CLOSED-Crosby-N. Gray & Co. Funeral Home and Cremation Service from Mar. 1 to Mar. 8, 2022.
Alan Lee Quale was born on January 3rd, 1944 and died on February 19, 2022 at the age of 78. He was born in Glasgow, Montana to Oral and Annie Quale, both second generation Norwegian immigrants. When Alan was eight years old the family settled in the small town of Alexander, North Dakota, where they ran the local grocery store. With money saved from working at the store Alan bought his horse Moonlight, the ideal form of transportation for a child on the prairie.?

Alan attended The University of North Dakota, earning a degree in journalism in 1966. Soon after receiving his diploma, he was drafted into the Army for two years. He served as a supply sergeant for an infantry company stationed outside the village of Duc Pho, Vietnam.

After the Army Alan worked for several newspapers before finding his way to The San Mateo Times, where he worked as a reporter and then as an editor. He loved the bustling newsroom, the challenge of daily deadlines, and working for a paper focused on the community.

It was in San Mateo that he met his wife Kathleen and where they raised their two sons. Alan loved camping and backpacking vacations with his family, always anticipating the reward of his beer chilled in a cold mountain stream.

After the Times was sold, Alan transitioned to a new career as an editor at Gartner, a global technological research firm. At Gartner, Alan especially enjoyed working with employees from every corner of the world.

Upon retiring Alan returned to his love of writing, which was fostered by time at his cabin in a quiet corner of the Plumas National Forest. For his first novel, My Dakota, Alan drew upon his experience growing up on the Great Plains. His second novel was Replacements-Endless War and the Men Sent to Fight It. Based on his experiences in Vietnam, writing this novel allowed Alan to reflect on his memories of the war.

Whether it be on his walks around the neighborhood or talking on the phone with strangers, Alan could hold a conversation and find genuine interest with anyone. He had an easy, recognizable laugh and a warm smile.

Alan was a devoted husband, father, and brother. He is survived by his wife Kathleen Quale, his sons Brian and Stephen Quale, and his sister Carol Sims. He was preceded in death by his sister Claire Leer.

The family is planning a private ceremony. Friends and family are invited to leave their remembrances of Alan on his Crosby - N. Gray memorial webpage.

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July 29, 2022

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March 8, 2022

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Glenn Cunliffe

July 29, 2022

To Alan's wife and family ... Sorry for the belated message (5 months later) on your husband and father and brother's passing earlier this year.
I only just heard about it when searching for an email address for Alan, because I wanted to tell him I'd just finished reading "My Dakota" this month and that I'd really, really enjoyed it.
I was part of the San Mateo Times crew, and worked alongside Alan -- (just the other side of a plexiglass partition :) -- as a member of the Times' sports staff from 1986 onward thru the paper's sale in the mid/late-1990's.
If memory serves, I later had lunch with Alan and also John Allen, another former Times-er, when they were then working for the Gartner Group; and my wife and I also saw Alan again at a Times' reunion in Redwood City maybe 10 years or so ago, possibly right after he'd finished his Dakota book.
Any Norwegian I knew, I learned from Alan, and we always greeted each other with a hearty Norwegian "Good Morning" when starting our shifts with the Times at around (ugh! :) 5 a.m.
He was a great, great, friendly guy -- and it was a pleasure and blessing to have known him. I wish Alan all the best and blessings (posthumously), and also condolences and blessings to you all, his family and close friends !!!
-- Glenn Cunliffe

Chris Daman

March 14, 2022

Alan was probably my best friend 1986-89. One of three, all best friends, that have called me Daman more often than Chris. Remember most his enjoyment of life that was often accompanied by his booming laugh. Missed not getting to spend time with him at their mountain home.

Teresa Rosensweig

March 8, 2022

I was so sad to read about the passing of Alan. He was a wonderful person. It always put a smile on my face when I saw Alan's name on my patient schedule. I knew we would have a wonderful conversation about his new adventure, his cabin, his family or his next topic for his book. I hope his memory will help you through this difficult time.
Teresa ( Alan's Dental Hygienist)

teacher helen

March 6, 2022

my peaceful thoughts for strength during this difficult time of transition, dear Kathy

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

The Leer kids and families

Planted Trees

Paul Daman

March 1, 2022

I spent a good portion of my childhood at the Quales house being good friends with Brian. Alan's humor and the way he was quick to laugh always brightened up a room. Even though we were kids, we enjoyed when he joined in and gave us a tip on how to modify the tree house or build some contraption. Most dads weren't like that. Though I hadn't seen him in quite a while, I will continue to keep my fond memories of Alan.

NIcole Means

March 1, 2022

Uncle Alan always made me laugh and his humorous comments will stay with me forever. He brought joy to our lives. After my mom would talk to him, she would have a twinkle in her eye as she would recall what he said. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kathy, Brian, and Stephen. Love you, Nicole and Jake

Loreeta and Don Canton

March 1, 2022

Kathy, Brian, and Stephen, my heart is breaking for you all. Alan was like a big brother to me. I will never forget his laugh and his gentle nature, and I can't imagine the world without him in it. Don and I are sending you our love and hope your memories of him will bring you comfort. Love, Loreeta and Don

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