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Connie Hieb
April 26, 2025
Dr Vap was the greatest doctor of all doctors. Kind, caring, thoughtful, confident and did a great job. He saw me first in the VCU hospital after I ended up there from my liver failing, because I was in so much pain and taking Tylenol and Sentara just brushed me off 2 times and the 3rd time they sent me to VCU hospital. What a blessing for me. Dr Vap is the one sent to me and I was in surgery for my shoulder in a week and a half. God Blessed him with all his skills. It is a great lose for all who ever came into his life in anyway. He is God's great son and walked the earth in God's way. He now walks with his Father and we will for ever miss him. Blessings to his family and friends.
David Haney
April 22, 2025
I was extremely saddened to learn of Dr. Vap´s passing when I called to make an appointment last week. I remember my first visit to see him in 2023 as I was so impressed with his confidence and manner. I fully trusted his opinion and expertise. Prayers for his family and all those mourning his loss.
Kaitlyn
April 22, 2025
I was a patient of Dr. Vap, he did my knee surgery and was confident in my ability afterwards to be able to join the United States Marine Corps, I did. I´m now a 4 year active duty Marine thanks to him. Semper Fi.
Catherine Chafin
April 22, 2025
Dr. Vap was one of my favorite VCU doctors, (and I've had plenty), because he was the perfect combination of highly competent, great personality, and wonderful communication skills.
My heartfelt condolences to all of his loved ones.
Emma
April 21, 2025
3 years ago, Dr. Vap was my hip surgeon. He took me from a broken runner to one who is now flourishing, not just in sport but in life. I am forever grateful for Dr. Vap and all he has done to help those around him. He will truly be missed.
cheryl varner
April 21, 2025
So sad to learn this today April 21
Theresa Royster-Stephens
April 17, 2025
I am extremely saddened by hearing of the passing of my beloved doctor Vap. He was an amazing, loving, caring person first then a doctor. The family have my condolences and prayers. Dr. Vap was my doctor and I trust him fully. He was a gift ftom above. The medical field has lost a giant. My prayers are that he shall rest in peace until we all met again.
Margaret Howard
April 12, 2025
I´m so incredibly sad to find this, Dr. Vap was my surgeon just two years ago and did an incredible job, he was a great doctor and I will always appreciate his skills that healed me. My heart goes out to his family and those two little girls, may they always hear about what a great man their dad was!
David. van Esselstyn
March 11, 2025
He was my doctor in 2018 when I shattered my left shoulder. He said he liked puzzles and I had given him one. His excellent surgery and patient care were superb! I was shocked to hear of his passing. May God watch over his family.
Parker Williams
February 25, 2025
Hello! Dr. Vap fixed up my knee five months ago. I really want to thank him for all he did for me. Prayers are sent to Dr. Vap and his family.
Traci Schoppert
February 4, 2025
Dr. Vap was one of my many doctors at VCU. He was always so kind and compassionate and caring about my whole well being, always asking how I was doing as a whole, as well as asking about my children. Knowing my great health issues and the fact that I am a single mom, he made sure to always let me know he truly cared. He was a brilliant compassionate doctor that will be missed by so many. I know there are no words to help the deep heart hole, but know my heart and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and give you comfort now and in the days to come. May you feel His loving arms around you.
Charletta Byrance
February 3, 2025
My heart felt condolence to your wife children family friends patients and all those you love and love you !! It was an absolute pleasure to work with you I learned a lot I worked a lot (lol) you definitely were a legendary sports medicine doctor! It was an absolute pleasure to be apart of the orthopedic team and I am even happier to have worked with you personally! May God continue to hold your family close!´!
Fosters
February 2, 2025
We offer our most sincere condolences to the Vap family on losing Alex. Although only meeting Dr. Vap a few times while at his brother's home, we greatly enjoyed his company, and now grieve the loss for his family, colleagues and patients. His legacy of kindness and hard work will continue, after helping many while here with us.
Fosters of South Berwick, ME
Elizabeth D Meyers
February 2, 2025
I have lightheaded memories of babysitting Gordie & Alex when they were toddlers. Alex was adorable, active, curious & a most mischievous tot!! He kept me on my toes as a teenage babysitter! Several years later, Alex was our guest of honor at my little son's very exclusive, "by invitation only", birthday party! Grant it, Alex & his siblings were accompanied by his wonderful mom, Jeanie, joining myself, my mother, and my 3 kids (to include the birthday boy, Jay!). As I said, exclusive! I will never forget that tiny, 'lil party...nor, will I forget Alex being there, forever in one of my favorite, memories from a very cherished time in my life. Rest in splendid peace, Alex. May God cloak your beautiful family, parents & siblings in His comfort & love.
Compassionately,
Elizabeth (cousin "Lizzy") Meyers and family, of Rockville, MD
Kwadwo Owusu-Akyaw
February 1, 2025
An honorable and steadfast man with a passion for excellence and caring for others. May his legacy live on and his memory remain a beacon of warmth and hope for his family
Mark Cinque
February 1, 2025
I first met Vap when I was a medical student researcher at The Steadman Clinic, he immediately made me feel like I was one of the sports medicine fellows. Always including me, always teaching. He continued as an incredible mentor to me from that point forward, though I think he was disappointed in me when I went to Stanford instead of Duke for orthopedic residency. He shared in the excitement with me when I matched at The Steadman Clinic for fellowship 7 years after we first met. I followed in his footsteps and spent time doing training in Norway as well. He always was there for me from the tough times of residency to the highs of living and doing surgery in Oslo. I will deeply miss Vap, but will live life the way he did and the way he would want me to moving forward.
Bruce and Denny Dorr
February 1, 2025
“Dear Alex’s Family,
We are heartbroken that we can’t be there to comfort you for your loss of Alex. I have wonderful memories of Alex as a very young boy in California chasing a ball around and around the driveway with a hockey stick.. Perhaps it was that drive that drove him to accomplish more in his very short life than most would in a lifetime. It is 8:30 A.M. here in California. Alex’s funeral has just started in Virginia. I know you are feeling our heartfelt love across the country.
Bruce and Denny Dorr
February 1, 2025
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“Dear Vap Family, We are heartbroken that we can’t be there to comfort you for your loss of Alex. I have wonderful memories of Alex as a very young boy in California chasing a ball around and around the driveway with a hockey stick.. Perhaps it was that drive that drove him to accomplish more in his very short life than most would in a lifetime. It is 8:30 A.M. here in California. Alex’s funeral has just started in Virginia. I know you are feeling our heartfelt love across the country.
Cassandra Taylor
January 31, 2025
It was an honor to work with Dr. Vap. I had the pleasure of working with him for his first case in ACC at VCU. Though he has gone, he will never be forgotten. My sincere condolences to each of his family members. May all of your memories and time spent together help in celebrating his life and his legacy forever.
-Cassandra, RCST
Tom & Barbara Lott
January 31, 2025
Barbara and I are deeply saddened to hear about Alex´s passing, and we extend our heartfelt condolences to Gordon, Jeanne, and family. Although it's been years since we have seen Alex, we cherish the memories of the times we and our kids spent together in Alex´s teenage years. We especially and fondly recall those ice hockey days at St. Albans and Chevy Chase, with Alex leading the charge both on and off the ice. As an accomplished scholar, athlete, and family friend, Alex will be deeply missed by the Lott family.
Tracey Ruffin
January 31, 2025
You will greatly be missed. This picture is the same look you always had on your face. May God strengthen your family. May God also grow your two little girls in every way that you had hoped and prayed for
Emil Cohen
January 31, 2025
I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences and I hope you can find strength in the love of your family and friends.
Lauren Aliceburg-Snyder
January 31, 2025
Dr. Vap was always quick to smile when we told him he never seemed "in a hurry"! He will be greatly missed by the Richmond VA PACU staff. He was taken oh so quickly and so very soon.
Karen McCormick
January 30, 2025
I am deeply saddened to hear of Dr Vap´s passing. I have been his patient since January of 2017. I had a long history of knee and hip issues. Even when typical treatments didn´t seem to work as they should he would never dismiss a symptom. He listened and worked with me to get to the bottom of the issue and worked with me to find a resolution. He didn´t give up and wouldn´t let me give up ever. He helped me through 4 surgeries over the years and always made himself available to answer all my questions. He was not just an excellent surgeon he was also an incredibly kind and compassionate person. Such a tremendous loss for his family, friends, colleagues and patients. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Deepest sympathy,
Karen McCormick
Kurt Newman, M.D.
January 30, 2025
Dear Alex's family, I am devastated to hear of Alex's passing. I remember so vividly his passion and dedication for medicine. It was an honor to mentor him along the way--I recall an amazing moment when Alex was shadowing me at Children's National, we went into the Operating Rooms-and coincidentally Gordon was operating on a child that day-Alex was so proud to see his Dad's impact, doing surgery helping a child and family. It is an inspiration to know that he dedicated his own life to that vision. Respectfully and with sadness, Kurt Newman
Kathy Figler FNP
January 29, 2025
Such an honor to see the amazing work of a brilliant young orthopedic surgeon and always know that our consultations would be handled with care. A light has gone out but all prayers to his wife and extended family. Thanks for sharing him with the world.....
Meredith Beadles
January 28, 2025
Such a hard worker, so dedicated, so talented, such grit AND heart as so eloquently stated above. We're all in shock here at the Durham VA medical center. We got to watch Alex over the years mature and grow into the doctor that he ultimately became. What an honor to have known you, buddy. My thoughts and prayers to his family, especially Hailey and their precious little girls.
Thomas Gochenour
January 28, 2025
Deeply saddened by Dr Vap´s passing. It was truly an honor to have worked alongside of him in the operating room.
Sherone Whitaker
January 28, 2025
I´m so sorry to hear that Dr. Vap passed away. He was my knee doctor for years. Every visit he would make jokes and we would talk my whole visit. He was a great doctor, he will greatly be missed. I´m going to miss you joking about getting the double barrel shot gun (cortisone shot) for my knees. LOL
Uncle Brian & Aunt Dawn
January 28, 2025
We are absolutely crushed. We both loved Alex with all our heart & soul. We are so appreciative that Alex came into our lives and are going to miss his phone calls ANF text messages. We have hundreds of pictures of the little ones thanks to him. We take comfort in knowing that grandpa was waiting for him at the gates of St. Peter with a bourbon in hand.
Rachel R. Tramutolo
January 28, 2025
He was an excellent Dr. and Surgeon! He was always nice and answered my questions when I went with my daughter, Jennifer Wahl, to her appointments. He was on my mind the day before he passed away. I had no idea he was so sick. I pray that God will use the gift he had of helping so many to God´s Honor and Glory! God bless his precious family!
John Piotrowski
January 28, 2025
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Dr. Vap. He was a truly remarkable person, not just as a doctor, but as a kind, compassionate soul who touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know him. His care and dedication to his patients went above and beyond, and I always admired the genuine warmth he brought to his work.
I have such great respect for him, and I will always be grateful for the treatment and kindness he gave to me as one of his patients. Please know that my thoughts are with you during this incredibly difficult time. Dr. Vap´s legacy of kindness and excellence will never be forgotten.
With deepest sympathy,
John Piotrowski
Tom
January 28, 2025
Dr. Vap was such a talented surgeon and physician. I am a long distance runner and he worked with me for over a year on a meniscus tear in my right knee. It finally came down that there was nothing left to do and I needed surgery. He performed a meniscus repair on my right knee. I am fully back running and competing. Dr. Vap was also an incredibly nice guy.
I send my sympathy, thoughts and prayers to his family and to the VCU Team, which were awesome. I am so very sorry.
Pauline Holmes
January 28, 2025
I am shocked to hear of the passing of Dr. Vap. I was one of his first patient, when he arrived from Duke. He was a great physician. Condolences to the his family.
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