Alexandra "Zandie" McLaughlin
Alexandra "Zandie" McLaughlin
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Age 82 of Fox Chapel, passed away at home on Monday, December 15, 2025. Beloved wife of the late Clifton M. Gatehouse, Jr. and Harry W. McLaughlin, Jr.; loving mother of Clifton M. Gatehouse, III (Sandra) of St. Charles, IL, Brent C. Gatehouse of Pittsburgh and Leslie H. Bonin (Peter J., III) of Newport Beach, CA; dear companion of Bud Toole of Fox Chapel; cherished grandmother of Jessica Vanek (Dean), Shannon Gatehouse, Whitney J. Bonin and Peter J. Bonin, IV; great grandmother of Aubrey Rose Vanek and Jack Clifton Vanek.
Zandie's presence was pure light and warmth. She was so deeply cherished, a strong and loving mom whose endless devotion made her the heart and soul of our world. She wasn't just the backbone of the family; she was our guiding star, providing strength and comfort in equal measure.
She moved through life with such exquisite grace, a brilliant mind shining brightly, matched only by her independent spirit. Zandie did everything her way, with boundless passion and remarkable success, leaving behind a legacy of love that will forever echo in our hearts. We are all better for having known her love.
The family will receive friends on Friday, December 19th from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the WEDDELL-AJAK FUNERAL HOME, 100 Center Avenue, Aspinwall. Service and Interment private. In lieu of flowers the family respectfully suggests memorial contributions to a charity of your choice.
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Deborah Crowley-L.
December 18, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. What a great neighbor and lovely person.
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