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Andrew “Jay” McGee, 63, of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 9, 2025, after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. He was at home, surrounded by loved ones.
Born on April 20, 1962, in Utica, New York, Jay was the beloved son of the late Robert Andrew McGee and Joyce Anne Bishop. He was a devoted brother to the late Amy Kirby and his loving sisters, Sally Barlow and Paula Tate, and his cherished partner, Lita Henderson.
Jay was a proud and loving uncle to Michelle Norton (Eddie), Renee Neilsen (Josh), Bridget Broussard (Chris Grigson), Brittany Henderson (Nathan), Will Cuny (Lona), Jonathan Kirby, Damien Tate (Kayla), and Derek Tate (Rebecca Butler), and a great-uncle to nine great-nieces and nephews. His deep bond with his family was a source of joy and strength—he was not only a brother and uncle, but also a mentor, confidant, and friend to many.
Jay earned a Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering from the University of Southwestern Louisiana and an MBA from Louisiana State University. In 1987, he founded On Hold Systems, a business he led with vision, integrity, and entrepreneurial spirit for nearly 40 years.
A dedicated Freemason, Jay was honored to serve as Feliciana Lodge #31’s Worshipful Master this year. In a rare tribute, Jay received his Past Master apron early in April 2025, a testament to the deep admiration of his Masonic brothers. Jay was an active and respected member of Feliciana Lodge #31 F&AM in St. Francisville, chartered in 1817 and New York’s St. George #6, chartered in 1774.
Jay’s love for Louisiana and its traditions was boundless. In 2019, he was honored to reign as King Mystique XLIII, the oldest parading Mardi Gras krewe in Baton Rouge. Jay served as Ball Captain for Krewe Mystique de la Capitale and sat on the Board of Directors. He was a proud member of the Pete Fountain Half-Fast Walking Club, parading in New Orleans on Mardi Gras and St. Patrick’s Day for over a decade. In 2022, he was celebrated as King of the Fifolet Halloween Festival. Jay was a dedicated member of the Baton Rouge Jaycees where he held numerous leadership roles and helped organize festivals, parades, and charitable events. Jay embraced these roles eagerly with commitment and enthusiasm. He made countless friends who loved him dearly.
Jay will be remembered for his quick wit, generous heart, and unwavering commitment to service. He had a gift for hospitality, often opening his home to those in need and working to improve the lives of his tenants. His warmth, laughter, and legacy of kindness will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Funeral Service at 3:00 p.m. on Sunday, June 15, 2025, at Resthaven Funeral Home, 11817 Jefferson Highway in Baton Rouge. A Visitation will be held at the funeral home beginning at 1:00 p.m. A reception will follow in the Legacy Room.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests memorials be made to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (PanCAN (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network)), in honor of Jay’s lifelong dedication to community and service.
Family and friends may sign the online guestbook or leave a personal note to the family at www.resthavenbatonrouge.com
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11817 Jefferson Highway, Baton Rouge, LA 70816
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