Anthony J. Grabowski

Anthony J. Grabowski obituary

Anthony J. Grabowski

Anthony Grabowski Obituary

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Anthony "Tony" Joseph Grabowski, 67, of Southwick, MA, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 10, 2025, surrounded by his devoted family. Known for his infectious humor and generous spirit, Tony was the heart of every gathering and a cherished presence in the lives of all who knew him.

Born in Holyoke, MA, Tony was one of 10 children. He graduated from Southwick High School in 1977 before proudly serving in the United States Navy. He was stationed aboard the USS Frank Cable in San Diego and later in Charleston, South Carolina, where he completed his four years of service.

Following his military career, Tony joined Westfield Gage (WGI), working alongside many of his siblings. He retired early as he courageously battled Myotonic Dystrophy, facing each challenge with grace and resilience.

Tony's zest for life was unmistakable in everything he did. He shared many unforgettable adventures with his beloved wife, Susie - including skydiving, camping, hiking and more. His love for the outdoors was reflected in his passion for snowmobiling, fishing, four-wheeling, and countless nature-filled excursions with friends and family. In his younger years he especially cherished fishing trips to Maine with his dear friend Jack Lamoureaux and summers at the family camp in Granby, MA with his parents and siblings.

Tony also had a special love for playing games including dice, a tradition he began with his sister Nan and continued in later years with his sister Joannie and his adored nieces, Heather and Meghan. These moments were filled with laughter, love, and lasting memories.

Tony's greatest joy was his family. He leaves behind his beloved wife, Susie (Magni), who he often said was "the best thing that ever happened to him." He is also survived by his son, Michael Burgamaster; daughter-in-law, Leigh Murphy; granddaughters, Quinn and Miriam; grandson, Mike; brothers Michael, John (Donna), and Paul; sister Joannie (Carl) LaFreniere; brother-in-law's Bill (Norma) Magni, Wayne Magni, Kelly Magni; sister-in-law's Corinne Magni (Chuck), Antoinette McLean and his great friend, Butch Crosler, who is like family.

Tony's memory lives on through his many nieces and nephews: Tonya Maurer (Cole), Susan Grabowski, Christopher Grabowski, Ty Flagg, Scott Flagg, Heather Flagg Lavoie (David), Cory Flagg, Meghan Moomjian (Doug), Aaron Grabowski, Stephen Grabowski, Jeffrey Grabowski (Beth), Cody Grabowski, Spenser McNiven (Trevor), Ciera Bilodeau (Jake), Brittany Baker (Ross), Samantha Grabowski, CJ LaFreniere, Marcel Magni (Walter Kopec), Eric Magni, Bill Magni, Matt Magni, Kerri DeGrange (Jason), Hannah Johnson, McKinley Magni, Kelli McLean, Andrea McLean and Wes McLean, as well as numerous great-nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his parents, Hendry and Jeannette (Labrecque); siblings Henry, James, William, Thomas, and Nancy (Flagg); nephew Jake; and great-nephew Gavin as well as his brother in-law Frank Magni and sister-in-law Lucy Magni.

Tony's legacy is one of laughter, love, and unwavering strength. His presence will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Calling hours are from 4:00PM-6:00PM, on Friday October 24, 2025 at Southwick Forastiere Funeral & Cremation, 624 College Highway, Southwick. United States Navy Military Honors will follow at 6:00PMIn lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Southwick Firemen's Association (EMTs), 15 Depot St, Southwick, MA 01077 or the Myotonic Dystrophy Foundation - www.myotonic.org
Southwick Forastiere Funeral & Cremation

624 College Highway, Southwick, MA 01077

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