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Arthur James Toman Jr., of Milltown, passed away on Thursday August 7, 2025 at home. He was 77 years old. Born in New Brunswick and raised in North Brunswick, he has lived in Milltown for the past 51 years.
He was the owner of Arthur James Cleaners in Milltown, before retiring. He was a Vietnam veteran and a member of the American Legion Post 25 in Milltown.
Jim and his late wife Janis enjoyed fishing, NASCAR, and training Dobermans for show.
He’s predeceased by his wife Janis (Festa) Toman and his parents Arthur and Jeanne (Guyette) Toman.
Surviving are his sisters Deborah Toman of Colts Neck, and Alicia Apsche and her husband Bill of South Carolina.
Services are private under the arrangement of The Crabiel Home for Funerals, 170 N Main St.-at Riva Avenue, Milltown. You may sign the online condolence “guestbook” at www.crabiel.com
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170 North Main Street -At Riva Avenue, Milltown, NJ 08850
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