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Marisela Granjel
October 6, 2023
My condolences to the family and this is very sad news for me. I am a former foster child who met Barbara at age 15. She was a beautiful soul in this world. She was always there for me when I had no one else to turn to. I learned so much from her and I can say I am much of the woman I am today because of her. I had always kept in touch with her and lost contact when I moved away from California two years ago. The world needs more people like Barbara in it. Thank you for all the life lessons learned barb, I will always remember you and tell my children of our time together making green chicken enchilada casserole at your home and all the times we spent trying different Mexican restaurants. I love u.... RIP.
Marisela
Joseph Kolber
August 30, 2023
I am so saddened to hear of Barbara's passing. She was an advocate of mine when I was a foster child and it was a lifelong friendship. I'd known her since I was 11 years old, making our friendship the longest I'd had in my life. I tried to stay close to her when I got older and moved from California and would call every so often to say hi and catch up. She was such an important part of my childhood and I always valued our time together. RIP Barbara, you were a wonderful part of this world.
Paul Hennessy, Pat Casey
July 25, 2023
Barbara was a close friend, role model, frequent tennis partner and inspiration to our family in the 9 years when we lived in San Jose and worked at Santa Clara University. She lived a wonderful life and her spirit--along with that of husband Gene and the entire Gerwe clan--enriched our lives and will never be forgotten.
Paul Hennessy & Pat Casey
Newton, MA
Sally Cole
July 24, 2023
Whenever I attended one of the many Gerwe family get togethers at Kate and Mindy's house, Barbara was always a constant, loving presence and a friend to all. I feel so honored to have known her and to witness the example she set for everyone around her. Sending all the Gerwes my love and deepest sympathy.
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