Barnett Lois J. Graham
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Lois J. Graham-Barnett was born February 15, 1945 in the Saint James Community of Lake Waccamaw, NC to the late Annie Louise Jacobs Graham and Haynes Graham, Sr. She entered eternal rest September 30, 2025 at her residence in Plainfield, NJ. Lois was employed with Johnson & Johnson Co. in Raritan, NJ for many years before retiring.
Along with her parents she is predeceased by her son John T. Barnett; three sisters Letcy Graham, Barbara Spaulding and Lydia Moore; two brothers Haynes A. Graham and William Porter Graham.
She leaves to cherish her memory her loving husband John Barnett; her daughter and son in law Trenisha and Roger Ball; three grandchildren Jade I. Barnett, Roger J. Ball and Jahad I. Wilson; Two brothers John Dawson Graham and his wife Otelia, and Charles Graham. Also surviving are a host of nieces, nephews, sisters and brothers in law, other family members and friends.
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VIVIAN M. NEHRENZ
Yesterday
Our heart goes out to Uncle John, Trenisha , Jade and Jahad. We love you and we will cherish and always remember Aunt Lois as a wonderful Aunt.
Love Kai, Vivian and Kaiann Nehrenz
The Campbell's : Craig & Marie
October 4, 2025
Our sincere condolences to family and Tracy on the passing of my cousin ! Continued prayers !!
Loretta & James Chavis, John & Laura Webb
October 4, 2025
Our loss is Heaven´s gain. Thoughts & Prayers for the immediate family.
Henry (June) and Hattie (Rae) Campbell
October 3, 2025
Dear Graham and Barnette Families, I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many good memories of cousin Lois. Please know you will be in our prayers for the difficult days ahead.
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Pastor Glen & Rhonda Spaulding
October 3, 2025
Lifting your names in prayer at this time. Love you all.
Añnie M. Jacobs (sissie)
October 3, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Praying for the family
Marie Howard
October 3, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Valeria Peacock McKoy and Lula Peacock
October 3, 2025
We are so sorry hearing about your loss
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