Ben P. Bagby

Ben P. Bagby obituary, Wilmington, NC

Ben P. Bagby

Ben Bagby Obituary

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Ben P. Bagby, of Leland, North Carolina, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, December 6, 2023. He was 75 years old. Born in Cleveland, Ohio, Ben served in the US Air Force from 1966 to 1970 and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He worked as optician and sales manager in Ohio, New York, and New England for more than 30 years. Upon retirement, he sold real estate and autos in Wilmington, North Carolina.
In retirement, Ben developed his guitar and vocal skills and joined multiple acoustic bands that performed in the Wilmington area, including Too Far Away, Vital Signs, and Generations. He was a golfer, skier, runner, and racquetball player, and a long-suffering fan of the Cleveland Browns.
He also loved arguing about politics with people of all persuasions, leading in-person and online groups discussing current issues.
Ben was also an active volunteer at Magnolia Greens in Leland and in the surrounding community, organizing neighborhood communications and mentoring students at North Brunswick High School. He took the most pride in becoming a tutor with literacy councils in Wilmington and Sarasota, Florida, helping foreign-language students improve their English-language skills.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Joanne, whom he married in 1995; stepchildren Benjamin Freed of Washington, D.C., and Sarah Freed of Leland; sister, Karen Koran, of Cleveland; and his extended family who loved him very much.
A Memorial Service will be held in Spring 2024.
Memorial Contributions can be made to the Cape Fear Literacy Council, 1012 S 17th St., Wilmington, NC, 28401.
Funeral Arrangements are entrusted to Wilmington Funeral & Cremation � Leland Chapel. Please leave condolence messages for Ben's family on his Tribute Wall at www.wilmingtoncares.com

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July 23, 2024

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December 13, 2023

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December 12, 2023

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Howard Ravit

July 23, 2024

I worked with Ben for many years at Cole Vision exchanging stories, experiences, and friendship up and down New England-New York-New Jersey. No one who knew Ben can ever forget his spot-on Cher singing and dancing routine at a Cole Vision event. I wish I had known sooner of Ben's passing. Ben was among the most intelligent, articulate, creative, and kindhearted people that I have been lucky enough to know. I wonder if he ever found the remaining pages of his Franklin Planner that swooshed from his car while driving the NY Thruway near Albany.

October 2021 me and Ben

Margaret Carrick

December 13, 2023

I met Ben at a gym in the 1980's and became fast friends. Despite a tough childhood narrative, Ben was not bitter or accusatory, but accepting and appreciative.
Ben was thoughtful, smart, pragmatic. He was a photographer and in fact won a prize for one of his photos which I painted for him. He pave me great advice with financial and computer matters.
Ben was brave during his throat cancer journey, in fact taking the time to document his daily experiences to help others.
Ben enjoyed running and skiing, but faced his later physical challenges with grace and perseverance. He was rational about the future.
Ben was interested in the world and helping the humans in it. He participated in the clinical trials of the covid-19 vaccine. He tutored strangers across the globe.
Ben worried about politics, doing his part to set it straight with his involvement as administrator of facebook groups.
I will miss Ben and the qualities that made him an invaluable friend.

Jeri Abernathy

December 12, 2023

I known Ben for years and we played words with friends he always beat me
Sometimes he will let me win
L o l I love you Ben and I will miss you
RIP

Dorothy Wells

December 11, 2023

"The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time"

Marshall Cogdill

December 11, 2023

Kathie Oleksa

December 11, 2023

I joined Ben's online group supporting democracy in the US. I enjoyed his posts & the newspaper articles he gifted members.
I never met him personally but felt I knew him & will miss those interactions.
Rest in peace, my friend.

Tony V

December 11, 2023

We moved here about the same time. Walked up to him in the MG clubhouse and said hi Ben. He looked at me and said "who are you?" Typical Ben. I will miss my friend.

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