Benjamin Herning

Benjamin Herning obituary, Modesto, CA

Benjamin Herning

Benjamin Herning Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Evins Funeral Home on Jul. 11, 2024.

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Benjamin O'Coileain Herning, known to us as Bo, A soul too bright, whose time has come to go. Born on the first of February, '93, In San Jose, CA, a young spirit wild and free. In Modesto's gentle embrace, he found his sunset end, Leaving behind memories, our hearts to tend. An automobile's unforeseen twist of fate, Took him from us on July seventh, two-zero-two-four, our hearts to deflate. Bo's life was a tune, a melody of cheer, Studied music at San Jose State University, his passion clear. A brass musician, with a hospitality charm, Managed band equipment, never one to harm. Krystal Devi, his beloved wife, in her eyes a glimmering lake, Together they danced life's steps, for love's sweet sake. Rohini, his guiding mother-in-law, in curry and care, Benjamin John and Caroline Lee, parents beyond compare. Meghan, Tarah, Emmet, siblings of his accord, In each other's lives, they struck a loving chord. Through notes and songs, Bo's essence we recall, A life of rhythm, selfless he stood tall. Bo loved the creatures, walked dogs with pride, In their joyful company, he'd always confide. Hiking through Nevada City, Donner Pass trails he'd roam, Amongst nature's grandeur, he found his earthly home. The beach where waves whispered tales to his heart, In meditation's silence, he played his quiet part. With chalk in hand, the pavement was his art, Each piece a story, from his soul a chart. Sunset drives with Krystal, rock anthems paved their way, Conversations random, yet beautiful, in their shared display. Cooking with Rohini, curry's spice would dance, In each shared meal, love had its chance. Bo on a skateboard, beneath him life took flight, Feeling the wind, in freedom's sheer delight. "Love until you live," he'd often recite, A mantra of his days, a beacon so bright. Selfless in action, kind in every deed, Passionate heart, he was a rare breed. Encouraging greatness, he'd often lead, In his wake, a trail of goodwill to heed. His life was a canvas, painted with love's hue, A brave soul, through storms, he always flew. To be great was his wish for me and for you, With strength and courage, he saw life through. As the sunset paints the sky with colors bold, Bo's story on Earth has been lovingly told. For in the hearts he touched, his spirit will unfold, A legacy of love, more precious than gold. A quote to remember, as we bid our goodbye, "Though he be but gone, his love does not die." For in every note, in every sigh, Bo's melody lingers, in the vast, endless sky. Farewell, dear Bo, your journey's at rest, Know you were cherished, loved, and blessed. Your song plays on, as you've passed life's test, In our hearts, your memory, forever a guest.
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July 13, 2024

Nicole Anne Palapal posted to the memorial.

July 12, 2024

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July 12, 2024

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Nicole Anne Palapal

July 13, 2024

I will always remember Benji as one of the sweetest and greatest coworkers ever. Before he left Modesto Olive Garden, I trained him on running food and how to expo. He didn´t even need any training cuz he knew what he was doing, and that´s one of the things that I liked about him. He always had the best suggestions on where to eat at in Modesto, we would always laugh together because he has the same name as our GM and it´s funny when we call one of them, he was always there to help everyone out, and not once in my life have I ever seen him upset about a guest at work. He would always talk about what he did over the weekend or on his day off with his wife and family, and lastly, he would talk about his goals in becoming a manager one day at Olive Garden. I´ve always believed the dream of becoming a manager at Olive Garden will come true for him, because I could see him managing Olive Garden. He was such a sweetheart, and one thing he taught me was to be there for everyone and to keep smiling.

Leiloni villavicencio

July 12, 2024

You know, I learned a lot from Bo. From his college years to his lovely wife and to his ancestors being traced to a ship from centuries ago. I will say Bo is one of the most knowledgeable people I´ve ever met. The amount of history he knew was actually impressive and once he started rolling on the topic of history he could not stop...he would take off. It was truly amazing to hear about things in history that I didn´t even hear in college! But I will say something else Bo truly taught me and many others was even in the toughest of times... to smile and have some levity because life happens.

Jenny E.

July 12, 2024

Bo not only was hardworking and smart but an amazing person to be around. He was always willing to help anyone around him, and used his voice for those who couldn´t. With 10/10 food recommendations and plenty of jokes to simply create a smile, he will for sure be missed :( Sending lots of love and prayers to his family during this difficult time.
RIP Bo, your legacy will continue to shine

Leiloni Villavicencio

July 12, 2024

Something´s that memorable about Bo was his smile, laugh, and attitude. My friend Bo always had the biggest smile, even when we had had some guests at our serving job that weren´t the easiest to deal with Bo never once let that drag him down. With such a positive attitude about nearly everything it is truly inspirational how someone can have a toughest of days and still flash a smile and say " that wasn´t that bad" or " it could´ve been worse" Truly it was a blessing to have met such a wonderful person and how much he created such a fun atmosphere.

Krystal Devi Bipat Herning

July 12, 2024

To any one visiting this page this is Bo. He was the most amazing husband. He was so kind and caring. He was the most loyal friend who always encouraged others to be happy. He loves music and was a very talented musician. This was one of his favorite pictures I ever took of him. Please live in his honor. Bo once watched a Bollywood movie called Tum Bin and one of the songs he loved most had a lyric that said, "I will love you until I live" and I would love any and all who loved Bo to follow that and love life until you truly live. I was incredibly blessed and lucky he chose me as his wife and life partner. He was my best friend and I promise to keep his legacy alive. Rest well my King. You were more loved and saved more lives than you will ever know.

Julie

July 12, 2024

I will never forget my friend Bo
He was always happy always smiling that huge smile always had a funny comeback always cracking us up at work he will be missed by so many I will miss our good times and I´m glad I got to meet a genuinely nice person with a heart of gold always in our hearts always in our prayers will always be in my thoughts

Julie

July 12, 2024

Bo was a coworker of mine at Olive Garden even though I didn´t know him for a long time in the short time we spent together at work he became like family I knew it was Gna be a good day when I worked with Bo he was the best always smiling always helping out I´m Gna miss our undercover jokes and laughs we had I´m Gna miss him so much my condolences and my prayers going out for Krystal at this hard time he will always be shining down on us

Amendaly

July 12, 2024

Today and always, may loving memories bring you strength and comfort. With a heavy heart, I wish to give my sincere condolences to you and your family.
Bo´s legacy of kindness will continue to shine through! The impact Bo had on our team at Olive Garden will never be forgotten! He was a kind hearted soul! May the love of Bollywood and egg salad sandwich with hot cheetos continue I´m here if you need anything Krystal.
with love from Amendaly, Carlos & Olivia

Destiny Hatley

July 12, 2024

This is definitely a loss that hurts many. Bo was such a fun, outgoing person, who truly made me and other people happy by just being around. He made me laugh countless of times, w his jokes and stories. There was never a dull moment with him. Heaven really gained an angel. I will never forget our friendship Bo, im lucky I got to have met you and got to know you. I´ll miss you. Rest in Peace

Destiny hatley

July 12, 2024

I will always remember Bo as a happy, full of life person. He always made me and the people around us laugh with his jokes and his funny personality. He will be so missed. I still can´t believe that he´s gone. Heaven really is gaining an amazing AngelI´ll miss you, Rest in Piece Bo

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