Bernard Birnbaum

Bernard Birnbaum obituary, Kansas City, MO

Bernard Birnbaum

Bernard Birnbaum Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Louis Memorial Chapel - Kansas City from Jul. 20 to Jul. 31, 2025.

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Bernard Birnbaum, born on November 5, 1924 was 100 years, 8 months, 12 days, 21 hours, 30 minutes and 33 seconds old when he peacefully passed away on July 18, 2025. He was a man of character, integrity, gratefulness and a steadfast devotion to his family and to G-d. Always an entrepreneur, his work career started in the shoe business and ended at the age of 87 when his wife and his work truck decided it was time. He could be seen in his Dekro Auto Supply truck all over the city and in later years you would find it parked at various community centers where he played bridge until it was time to come home for dinner. Home. That was wherever his beloved wife Barbara was. Married for 74 years this past week, July 15, 2025 to be exact. Barbara and Bernard enjoyed playing cards and socializing with their "Club"- lifelong friends that have mostly passed on but those times and stories live on in the minds and hearts of all their children. Always an active person, he went from tennis to golf and enjoyed their travels, which often took them to Florida. At the end of the day, no matter where, no matter what, they always ended their day together. With family always at the forefront, he helped raise his brothers after his father's passing when he was nine years old. He was always supportive of his mom, put food on the table for his wife and kids and would do anything for a hug and kiss from his grandchildren and great grandchildren. Bernard had a reverence for G-d second to none. The Beth Shalom Synagogue congregants were his second family. Over the years he helped to make daily minyan when he could, attended shabbat services every week, and first born services at Passover time had an extra special place in his heart when the four generations were able to attend together. He did not mean any disrespect when napping during the Rabbi's weekly Dvar Torah while waiting to get back to praising G-d for all of his blessings. Bernard is survived by his dear wife Barbara, son Bruce (Jeanette), daughter Patti, his grandchildren Melissa Friedman and Bradley (Taly) Friedman, and his great grandchildren Emmett Friedman and Remy Friedman. He is preceded in death by his father Isadore Birnbaum, mother Minnie Klugman, step-father Joe Klugman, brothers Melvin Birnbaum and Leibert Birnbaum, sister-in-law Miriam Birnbaum and his son-in-law Gary Friedman. He was grateful every single day that G-d opened his eyes and let him be a part of the world around him. There was a spark, a spirit inside of him that he shared with those who touched his life. Zichrono livracha. May Bernard's memory continue to bring goodness and inspire those who remember him. Graveside services will at 10:00am Tuesday, July 22, 2025 at Mt. Carmel Cemetery, 5529 Ditzler, Raytown, MO. If you would like to make Memorial contributions please consider Congregation Beth Shalom, Village Shalom, or a charity of your choice.

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