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Bette DiDonato Obituary
This is not about my passing on to the next life, it is about celebrating the amazing life that I lived and shared with so many wonderful people. I am so blessed to have the family that I do and cherish each and every one. My mother, Helen DiDonato & late father Frankie D. My dear brother David (Pamela) DiDonato. My beloved sisters Lynn Roberts, Susan (Carl) Ruhle. All of my nieces and nephews, Nicky D and Emily, with special thanks to their mother Kimberly DiDonato. Matthew and TJ Roberts, Paul, Michael, and Jennifer Ruhle. I am blessed to have my devoted and true friends, my "Team Detroit", and business partner Joe Piuta, to watch over from afar with gratitude and peace. Be well everyone, I will miss you.
Bette A. DiDonato, 69 years old of Jamestown, passed away at home surrounded by her loving family and dear friend Skip Ciferri. Bette was an avid golfer and member of Wanumetonomy Golf & Country Club. She owned Detroit Collision Center for over 40 years. A private celebration of life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Bette's memory to your favorite charity.
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Janet Burke greene
June 1, 2024
I just returned to Jamestown, and can’t help but notice that Bette’s porch is empty.
When I met her she was so beautiful, friendly and welcoming.
“ come join me for coffee “ she said
I was always off to tennis in the morning, so I would wave to her each morning on my way to tennis.. only once did I join her for coffee. I will miss her. Bette was a very special person.
Janet Burke Greene
Boston and Jamestown,
stefany reed
March 18, 2024
Bette was one of the sparkly people who shined her light on everything and everyone. I knew her through her business- as a customer, and always found her to have the best energy. My condolences to all.
Erin Moitoza
March 2, 2024
By far, our favorite customer at Jamestown Golf Course. Her smile & laugh could light up any room. We will miss you dearly, Bette, May Angels lead you in.
Jason Panell
March 2, 2024
Bette is one of the most beautiful human beings I have ever met. She was kind, caring and generous. She always put others before herself. I´m so glad that we met many years ago and I had the chance to befriend Bette through our work. I will miss her greatly but also take comfort in knowing that she had a one-way ticket straight to Heaven. Rest in peace my dear friend. Jay P. (Viti Inc.)
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Robert Beneduce
February 29, 2024
I'm shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Bette's passing. I remember one day about thirty years ago, we were at that beach house in Newport and I'll never forget that Bette said, "One day I just want to sit on a rock and throw pebbles in a lake." I know that's what you are doing now, Bette, in a most peaceful place. I always had a tremendous amount of respect for you. You were a beautiful and kind soul. Rest now Bette. You will be missed by all who knew you. My most sincere condolences to family and friends.
Love,
Bob Beneduce
Frank Prete
February 28, 2024
Everyone´s best friend. Every day, every minute, Bette would be there, for anyone.
My heart out to her beautiful family. There will never be another "Bet" in my life. Rest in peace my dear friend.
Frankie
Sophia Davis
February 28, 2024
Miss Betty..the first time meeting you i was soooo enthralled by your physical beauty. Then getting to know you i realize you were such a beautiful soul hence why it was radiating on the outside. I enjoyed all our Summer trips we would take to Rhode Island with Skip, and even tho i was a Care giver for his parents, i was always treated like family by you and Skip..you always make sure i was well taken care of when we were there.
I have always treasure my first designer purse you gave me for my birthday, and my pearls that you gifted me....you will surely be missed. Sleep in Peace Miss Betty.
Cira Fernández
February 28, 2024
I´ll always remember first time I met you. You were so beautiful and elegant. We were in Joe's boat, and we hit it off right away. Bette I know you and Joe are together again creating a ruckus up in Heaven. May you rest in Paradise, till we meet again. My condolences to you and your family.
My family and I send our deepest sympathies you will be missed.
Love,
Cira Shanelle and Gia
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