Blake Westerlund

Blake Westerlund

Blake Westerlund Obituary

Published by Star Tribune from Sep. 25 to Sep. 26, 2004.
Westerlund Blake, age 14 of Brooklyn Center. The Lord received Blake into his arms 9/23/04. Blake loved the outdoors & sports & was a 9th grader at Northview Jr. High. Blake is survived by his parents, Tina (Shawn) Monette & Ken Carlson; brothers, Bryan & Brett; sister, Alyssa; grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, friends & neighbors. Service 11AM Monday at Edinbrook Church, 4300 Edinbrook Pkwy, Brooklyn Park. Interment Crystal Lake Cemetery. Visitation 2-6PM Sunday at Evans-Nordby Funeral Home, 6000 Brooklyn Blvd., Brooklyn Center & 1 hour prior to service at church. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred. Evans-Nordby 763-533-3000
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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September 24, 2024

Madonna Monette posted to the memorial.

September 23, 2024

Shawn posted to the memorial.

July 17, 2024

Lex Ryan posted to the memorial.

Madonna Monette

September 24, 2024

20 years of missing you! Holding you in my thoughts and heart. Love, Aunt Madonna

Shawn

September 23, 2024

Miss you Blake!
Wow! 20 years ago!

Lex Ryan

July 17, 2024

Stumbled upon an old pic of Blake at a birthday party when we like 10. Seeing it made me cry. I still vividly remember our teacher crying at the front of the class... As a father myself now the pain is only more real. Best wishes to all your family and friends.

Madonna Monette

September 24, 2023

Missing you Blake.

Shawn Monette

September 23, 2023

19 years without you here. Just thinking about you Blake, on this sad day 19 years ago. I wonder how my world would have been like these last 19 years if you were still here. We miss you dude!
❤✝

Minh Dinh

August 17, 2022

Love you and miss you tons olf friend.

Minh Dinh

December 12, 2021

I love you. I’m crying cus I miss you. Looking thorough your photos Andi am so mad we never had a photo together.

Shawn Monette

September 23, 2021

Blake's laugh & smile are missed but not forgotten. 17 years now! Wow! It is still the worst day of my life so far! ❤

This was 17 years ago. I look at it every day. Miss you!

Scott Monette

September 19, 2021

Scott Monette

September 19, 2020

Wow 16 years ago! I look at your picture everyday. You are still missed. Forever.

Shawn Monette

September 22, 2019

In a few hours, it will have been 15 years since you your passing. You are not forgotten "Blake Wake Fake Take Cake"! Love you & miss you! ❤

Scott Monette

September 19, 2019

Been too long. Hope you're doing well up there! Miss you every day.

Brett m

November 4, 2017

Happy birthday big bro. Miss you tons.

Blank Blank

June 3, 2016

Miss you buddy maybe ill see you soon

Madonna Monette

September 23, 2015

11 years now and still think of you fondly Blake. Missing you & your infectious spirit ... Love Aunt Madonna

Tina Monette

September 23, 2015

Awe my sweet Blake not a day goes by that I don't think about you wondering what you would be doing wishing you were here, I miss you deeply as a part of me went with you when you left us, just want you to know that I love you and miss you and hoping you , gramps and Lisa are enjoying each other's company you brought such great joy to my life and are forever in my heart and I think about you daily, love Mom

Shawn Monette

September 23, 2015

Miss ya dude! 11 years without that laugh etc!

May 9, 2015

Hey there buddy. I sure miss you right now. Reminiscing about our time together and just wanna go back in time and talk to ya.. Or perhaps fix them bikes, ride to the corner store, walk home from school together. Lol or even play ding dong ditch on the neighbors. Just know, I keep you deeply in my heart. I miss you every day my friend. I know you hear my thoughts. Love - Minh

Shawn Monette

December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas Blake!

Shawn Monette

November 3, 2014

Happy Birthday Blaker! Hard to believe that it has been over 10 years since we have had that smile & laugh to see & hear. I always think about you when I hear one of my favorite songs & the one we played at your service..."Broken" by Seether. I saw them in concert in May of this year & they, of course, did that song...it was effing awesome! Love ya buddy!

Brett Monette

July 15, 2014

Hey blake! Take care of gramps up there okay? Show him the ropes! Haha miss you tons buddy i onow you two will have alot fun up there<3

Shawn Monette

May 25, 2014

Miss ya buddy!

michael salazar

May 5, 2014

Havent forgotten you brody never will. Its been years since english class at northview. But ill remember you kid. I swear it.

Madonna Monette

December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas Blake! We miss you so much & know you are with us always! Love aunt Madonna

Lyssa

December 24, 2012

Because someone we love is in heaven, there's a little bit of heaven in our home. Blake we love you & you are never ever forgotten. We're all thinking about you this holiday season. I bet you & Lisa & Grandpa Clayton are having fun up there. Tell them all hi & we love & miss them. I'm excited for July. Mom & I are going to New York for modeling & acting. It'll be a lot of fun. <3 Love you,

Shawn Monette

December 24, 2012

Blakester,
Yet another Christmas without you & your awesome laugh! We sure do miss ya buddy! Hugs!!
<3

Shawn Monette

November 22, 2012

Miss ya Blaker Cakers! I will eat some for you today too!

Shawn Monette

November 4, 2012

Happy Birthday Buddy! Miss you! <3

Lyssa Monette

September 23, 2012

Today it has been 8 years. It's crazy how fast time flies. I love you, RIP. Never forgotten! I'm actually in the ER right now with Mom getting tests done cause I fainted.

Madonna Monette

September 15, 2012

Hey Blake,
Another very special day today with MANY folks were thinking of you. With every stride in our walk you were with us. You will never be forgotten and missed so much. Love you always ... Auntie Donna

Shawn Monette

September 13, 2012

Blake, we are excited to be walking in your memory on Saturday. We miss you & think about you every day. <3

Shawn Monette

July 9, 2012

Oh 'Lyssa, sweetie-pie, I cried a little when I read what you wrote! We all sure do miss Blake! I wonder what kind of young man he would be today... By the way, it's almost 8 years! <3 Love you L.B.C.G.!

Lyssa Monette

July 6, 2012

I can't believe it's almost been 7 years... I think about you everyday. I try to think of the memories, but a lot I can't remember. I always wonder what it would be like if you were still around. There is always that one day where I want to just go to heaven & see you. I can't wait... Everything is supposed to happen for a reason, but I really don't understand why this happened. I think about it everyday and I just don't know. I don't get it... I miss you like crazy. I always want to wake up hoping that it's all a dream, but the worst part--It isn't. I talk about you to Mom a lot. I hope someday soon The Lord will take us all so I can be with you & Lisa. I love & miss you <3

Michelle Westerlund

February 17, 2012

Oh how I remember the making benches picture on here. Blake you were so kind, you waiting for Wayne to be ready to work on them. You looked forward to it all day. You are one of the sweetest young guys I have ever known. Polite, considerate, compassionate, funny as all get out! I remember yours and Eric's dance on the deck out camping too. Funny!!!!
We sure do miss you...However, as I learn more about God and the bible, I know we will meet again, when my life on earth is done, and God calls me home. I will recognize you. That's awesome news. Thinking of you today. Aunt Michelle

Madonna Monette

December 28, 2011

We sure missed you this holiday Blake! I think your sister Alyssa was really missing you as she was pretty quiet when we got together. You were definitely in our thoughts this Christmas season ... Aunt Donna

Shawn Monette

December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas Blake! We miss you! <3

Shawn Monette

December 16, 2011

Blake,

I had to laugh as a memory of you popped into my head today. You LOVED ice cream & I remembered once or twice, for your Birthday, I would play "The Ice Cream Man" by Van Halen while you would dig into your bowl of Birthday ice cream. Good times.

Summer 2004 with Uncle Wayne in Cokato

Shawn Monette

November 3, 2011

1996 in the U.P. of Michigan

Shawn Monette

November 3, 2011

Summer 2004 in Cokato

Shawn Monette

November 3, 2011

Shawn Monette

November 3, 2011

Happy Birthday Blakester! It is also my Mom & Dad's 50th Wedding Anniversary! The Golden One! Pretty amazing! See what you can do about sending a deer over towards your Brother Brett so he can shoot his first deer. He got his first ducks last year & I'm sure he would like to get his first deer THIS year. <3 you buddy!

alyssa

October 7, 2011

well, we have our last soccer game on monday , hopefully we'll do better than our last double header game... went to the football game tonight with some friends, it was fun. our team won. it was home coming week this week too that was also fun . mom, wayne, and i were all thinking of you wednesday at church we were also thinking of lisa our confirmation was talkig about losses , we were all tearing up thinking of the fun times we had with you. it was a good discussion though. anyways i'm tired and we all love and miss you, bretts at the dance right now ;)
love ya -lyssa

September 27, 2011

Thinking of you today Blake. Hard to believe 7 years have passed ... the hurt sometimes feels like it happened just today. Family and friends miss you so dearly ... hold strong your light giving others strength. Your picture hangs in our home in memory of you ... knowing that someday we'll see all the loved ones we miss so much. With love, your auntie Madonna

Lyssa

September 25, 2011

2 days ago was 7 years. We miss you and moms friend that she works with gives her flowers every year on that day, how nice. The bouquet this year has this really pretty flower in it! (: love & miss you! <3

Heather Ocken

September 23, 2011

We miss you Blake. 7 years ago today and it's so hard to accept that your gone. I'm so sorry I missed your walk I didn't check back in time obviously after your sister posted it. BUT there is always next year. You live on in our hearts and watch over us daily. I love you Blake <3 Keep watching over us angel...

Michelle Westerlund

September 18, 2011

Dear Blaker Cakers,
We walked yesturday in honor of our memories of you. As I started out the day, I remembered back to all the sweet things we experienced together. I'm sure everyone has there favorite memories. Mine was the night before hunting our time spent loading clips, and unloading and getting familiar with your Grandpa's guns. The excitement the night before and the first day hunting when it was 37 below zero. I still laugh at the fact your Grandpa and you built a fire to keep warm, and we laughed about that, like the deer were going to come. Hahahah! Then we went to territory no one in their right mind would go to because we were basically kicked out of where we were sitting by some guy that was way camoflouged. When we went to that territory no one would go to for it would be tough to get a deer out. High ridges and mountainous terrain. That's when you got your deer! We were suppose to wait 15 minutes once we shot, for there could be more deer coming. You lasted 10 minutes and yelled "Michelle come help me drag em!" I was so flipping excited for you! That's the joy I remember with you and will never forget. I also remember dragging him out. And grandpa Ronnie came into help. We were worried about him for he was huffing and puffing. Grandpa said there is no place I'd rather die more as in the woods pulling a deer out. We laughed.
Thanks for the cherished memories.
I still haven't shot a deer, but enjoy my time in the woods and wilderness. You are not forgotten.
Love ya,
Aunt Michelle

Shawn Monette

September 17, 2011

Hi Blake. We had about 16 people at the walk in your memory today. That's 7 more than last year. I was kind of disappointed that none of your friends made it this year. Hopefully some friends will make it there next year. Your family is ALWAYS there for you & we proved that today! Also, everyone, look ^^^^^^ above this entry & see the 4 family members that were awesome enough to keep this Guest Book online! Thanks Uncle Wayne, Aunt Lisa, Aunt Kim, & Aunt Michelle! Please see what you can do about directing some wildlife our way when we are out there hunting this fall.
C-ya Blake-wake-fake-take-cake!

alyssa

September 16, 2011

we have your walk tomorrow!! i'm excited! well i had 2 soccer games this week and the first one we tied 1-1 and today we lost 3-0 but it might have been 4-0 i don't remember but that's okay cause there's still time to improve! i've been working hard lately! i have a very busy schedule, i am trying to write on here more but i have school, soccer practice, soccer games, confirmation groups, and piano lessons and i need time for homework so if u think... yeah that's a lot!! but i'm excited for tomorrow and i'm really loving soccer, and also confirmation. they both brought me into a new world. confirmation is teaching me to be nicer, & soccer is teaching me that if i want something i really have to try hard & try my best but have fun at the same time! so anyways...
this is very long but i love you and say hi to everyone for me! :) lots of love,
lyssa-byssa-fee-fy-fo-fyssa-lyssa

Lyssa

September 10, 2011

The walk is on September 17th from 12:00-3:00 pm.

September 10, 2011

Alyssa, Has the walk for him already passed? If not can you let me know when it is?

September 10, 2011

Missing you Blake! Your greatly loved and missed <3

alyssa

September 1, 2011

i know i haven't wrote here in a long time & i'm sorry but it really gives me a hard time. we have the walk coming up in memory of you! and i thought i'd come and write something because i was just taking a shower and thinking about the walk for you and i just started tearing up and felt i needed to come and say that no matter in heaven or on earth you can never forget how much we all love you. and if you promise me that you don't forget that then i promise you that we will never forget how nice you were and we will never ever forget about you no matter what. you are my big brother, you protected me here on earth and i know that even though you're in heaven then it doesn't mean you won't protect me because even in heaven you are still here and i know you still protect me and watch over me. tell lisa i said hi and love her and miss her... <3

January 3, 2011

Happy New Year Blake! We had Shawn, Brett and Alyssa over along with Tom/Sonia and your cousins on New Years Eve for our gift exchange and we all made it through to welcome the new year. Thinking of you buddy ... Miss ya! Aunt Donna

Shawn Monette

December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas Blake! <3 ya buddy!

Shawn Monette

November 3, 2010

Happy Birthday Blake! I know you will be hunting in spirit & your loved ones out in the field will be thinking of you & looking your way for some luck with the big buck!

Michelle Westerlund

September 26, 2010

Blake,

We walked In Memory of you yesturday. The rain quit before the walk, you must have talked to "The Big Guy". We all had a great time reminiscing about fun times with you! It was so nice to your friend Chinzy Linzy and Cousin Eric, Aunt Donna and Uncle Scott there too...Your Mom, Brett, Alyssa and Shawn were also there walking. We got to show off your first deer pic on our shirts. We all enjoyed the walk and know you were there in our hearts forever. You are always in our hearts and never forgotten.
Love Ya,
Aunt Michelle
PS Send some luck our way for hunting soon!

Shawn Monette

September 21, 2010

Blake,

Michelle started up a team for you to do a walk in your honor. They are doing it Saturday, the 25th of September which will be approximately 2,192 days since you have been gone. We will be thinking about you & remembering your funny personality, not that many of us don't do this a lot at other times as well. Please see what you can do about getting us some nice weather for this day as you're a little bit closer to "The Big Guy" than us. Thanks "Blake-wake-fake-take-cake"!

-"Shawn-won-bon-fon-tawn"

Katie Gervais

August 16, 2010

Hey blake,
how's it going up there?
I havent got a chance to write you in quite some time and im sorry for that!
I miss you alot blake I cant believe its been this long sence you left! But knowing that your happy and in peace makes me feel so much better! My brother misses you too! We were talking about you the other day and we just laughed thinking about the times we got to share! Were moving this friday and corey will be moving in with cassie isnt that crazy?!! me and my mom are getting an appartment to share in new hope and its super nice! so were all excited for the change! So things are coming together slowly but surley! I hope you continue to look down on us and help us out threw the hard times exspecially (COREY) because this is the start of his life and you were his BEST FRIEND and still are and no matter what he and we will never forget you and we look up too you blake for all the good you did in your life!
We all miss you and love you!
You are always in are heart!
take care in the paradise we call heaven!!

'Lyssa

June 17, 2010

Hey Blake,
I miss you so much and Brett's birthday is coming up on Saturday! I got him a pocket knife it's red he's started a collection! Mom is giving him your old ones, hope that's ok. We're having fettuccine alfredo and having Grandma and them over we're also having terriaki chicken!
Miss and LOVE you <3

Grandma Carol

June 17, 2010

Blake we miss you and hopeflly you can see everything going on, in our part of the world. We wanted to go fishing today but it was so windy and I'm thinking of how you like to fish so much and wish we could all go together. You would like to be here for Cousin Eric's graduation party. You and Eric were good buddies and had the best of times. They were kind to you and traveled all over. Nice people, Well it's hot here today but we went and got Brett's birthday swimshorts and flip-flops to match! Mom, Grandpa Ron, Brett, Alyssa, and I are all here thinking about you and miss you tons.
Much LOVE <3,

Michelle Westerlund

May 17, 2010

Blake ~ I thought of you as I was fishing on opener on Cokato, remembering when you took your mom and I fishing. I laughed out loud, thinking how we almost lost the boat motor. Miss you and your spunk!
Enjoy heaven, I hear it's awesome!
Love ya,
Aunt Michelle

April 15, 2010

Hey Blake,

You're presence has been with us recently. Eric has been having dreams of you and I never realize how much you impacted his life. He doesn't share with me the details, but then again ... he's graduating this year and is busy with Prom, Sr Pictures, etc. Sure wish you were still with us for his graduation. I know you are in spirit. Miss you ... and again, just thinking of you today.
Love aunt Donna!

Shawn Monette

January 2, 2010

Well Blake, it looks like Kalley will be joining you up there. Today I noticed that the tumor in her breast had enlarged quite a bit & was bleeding. Then she threw up today too, so I told your Mom about it & she came over with Brett & Alyssa to check her. They took some pictures with Kalley & tomorrow will take her in to do the humane thing. She's in pain, so this will be the best thing for her. I hope your Mom knows that I have done MY best to take care of Kalley. But being that I'm not a pet person, Kalley probably deserved better than just being housed & fed here by me. I will admitt that she did not get the attention & love that she really needed from somebody, but that person was not me. I am not a pet person & will probably never will be a pet person, but I would never intentionally be cruel to an animal. She will be in a better place. Hope you had a good Christmas "Blake-wake-fake-take-cake".

Michelle Westelrund

December 25, 2009

Blaker Cakers,
Merry Merry Christmas, I wonder if you have seen Lisa in Heaven, and if she is dancing with the Angels and you to celebrate Jesus's Birthday! We love you and miss you, you are always in our hearts. We have a white Christmas here in MN and think of your energy and drive as we shovel and snow plow.
Love You,
Aunt Michelle

Madonna Monette

December 23, 2009

Merry Christmas Blake,
We'll here we are a couple days before Christmas and I ask you to send your "angelic" strength to your mother and family this holiday. Loosing your Aunt Lisa this past Fall has been difficult and I hope they find strength in their memories to get through each day. We all miss you so much Blake ... will never forget you sweetheart!
Love,
Aunt Donna

November 30, 2009

Hi Blake,
Thinking of you this time of year. Thanksgiving was nice with your uncle Scott deep frying our small Turkey. I thought about you and how I could see you out Turkey hunting to catch the bird for Thanksgiving dinner. I'm sure it would have been phenomenal! It was nice to see your family at Lisa's service and yet so very difficult. Life is what we make of it and letting those we love and care about know it is so very important. I try to live each day with a goodness and thanks for we have all come to know it can be gone from us so very fast.
Missing you ...
Aunt Donna

This is mom's fish she caught

November 27, 2009

Alyssa Monette

November 27, 2009

Hi Blake I miss you lots. We went to Lisa's memorial. We knew Lisa was going to go and she always wanted Brett and I to be baptised so Gandma Carol asked mom if we could get baptised there and we did it was very emotional.

love always,
Alyssa your little sister

Carol Westerlund

November 27, 2009

Dear Blake
It has been a long time since I have been on your guestbook site. Now you, Lisa and Grandma Eva are together. You guys will always be in my thoughts and never forgotton. Lisa will ill before she left us and we talked of the good times together. I had told her I had the priveledge of sorting out your "lego's, matchbox cars & toys" you were too busy to keep them seperate. I am so glad to be your grandmother and I will never forget our great times together. I had a nice hug with your wonderful Aunt Donna at Lisa's memorial service. She misses you and the great memories also. You were loved so much by all of your family. Your Mom gave you a nod when she spoke at Lisa's Memorial Service with mention of you and your sister Alyssa, brothers Bryan and Brett& all our loved ones.
Take good care of you and your Aunt Lisa and Great Grandma till I join you when the Lord Jesus says my time is up.
Love You and Miss you so much,
Grandma Carol

Madonna Monette

November 5, 2009

Happy Belated Birthday Blake!
You are always in our thoughts - we miss you so very much.
Love Aunt Donna

Michelle Westerlund

November 4, 2009

Blake Cakers,
Happy Birthday hunting buddy.
We are getting ready for hunting, I always think of you so much this time of year. The Joy of your first deer, now we are praying for Mariah to get the Joy of her first deer. I miss you a bunch, miss you cracking jokes, fishing, hunting, camping and just being around. Say Hi to everyone up there from me. Thank God for our Blessings too!
Happy Birthday Buddy!
Love,
Aunt Michelle

heather olufson

September 25, 2009

Hey buddy, WOW its been so long since you left. WIsh you were here, you would be having so much fun graduated, driving, going to college.. meeting all the girls you were always talking about back in the day.. well i miss you little bro.. i love you

Love always Pickle

Madonna

September 24, 2009

Wow, it's been five years since you left us. Our lives continue on, but know it's not without thinking of you in our own way. Last night Eric read to us a draft of an essay he had to write for English and it was about you. All I could say was Wow - it was so powerful and left us all in tears. Once it's complete I will post it out here. It just goes to show how you impacted so many lives and we all miss you so much. You are always with us Blake.
Love Aunt Madonna

September 24, 2009

Blake,
Jim & I have been talking about you and the departure of Jim's parents on the same fall day. I often see a young man & wonder if that is what you would be like. Well of course not you were a special individual, a child of God.

You were assured that having Christ received into your life, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit and stamped with God's name on you. This trust is based on the authority of the Word of God and His promises to you and all who believe.

Thank-you God for sending Lord Jesus Christ to pay for our sin & guilt. Joyously we can receive the free gift of eternal life.

Love Aunt Lisa

Shawn Monette

September 23, 2009

Blake,

I know everyone has trailed off on writing on here, but we have not forgotten you or that day 5 years ago today when you left us. Wish you were here dude!

-Shawn

September 23, 2009

Blake,

I know everyone has kind of trailed off on writing on here, but we have not forgotten you or that day 5 years ago today when you left us. Wish you were here dude!

Katie Gervais

March 19, 2009

HEY BLAKE,
SORRY ITS BEEN SO LONG SENCE I WROTE YOU.
IVE JUST BEEN WORKING SO MUCH LATELY.
I HOPE YOUR HAVING A GREAT TIME UP THERE!
I KNOW ITS GOING TO BE AWESOME...
I SURE DO MISS YOU BUD AND I KNOW ALL YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY DO!
I JUST HOPE YOU CONTINUE TO LOOK DOWN ON ALL OF US CAUSE WE COULD ALL USE THAT IN ARE OWN LITTLE WAYS.
YOU TOUCHED US ALL IN A WAY AND WE WILL CHERISH THOSE MEMORY'S FOREVER!
TAKE CARE BUDDY,
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU LOTS.
LOVE ALWAYS KATIE GERVAIS

Madonna

December 23, 2008

Merry Christmas Blake! The holiday season is upon us and every day seems like a whirl to get ready. We have lots of snow now and it would be nice to have the weather a bit warmer to be able to go outside and enjoy it. I was decorating the house a couple weeks ago and put your deer hunting photo away (just for the Christmas holiday). I still can't believe you hunted that deer -- you looked so very proud. We miss you terribly and not a day goes by that your presence is not felt! Keep us strong Blake and Merry Christmas!
Love,
Aunt Donna

Michelle Westerlund

December 10, 2008

Dear Blaker Cakers,
Hi there, with the holidays coming I think of you often. I remember the Christmas's we shared. I remember you playing the dice game with us, and every one fighting over the Hot Wheels Chevelle car, or other Hot Wheels cars I bought thinking the boys would like them. I remember one year you wanted a CD and I got it for you, but couldn't remember the singer. Then the other day they played the song on KDWB and I remembered that was it.
"You're my Angel" your my darling angel. Funny how now you are our Angel up above! I remember you singing that song in the back seat of the car. Too funny!
You're bright and bubbly personality is greatly missed!
Deer hunting this year was not very successful, none of us got a deer. But I got the very much needed breaks in the woods. My favorite part of hunting is enjoying the nature that God has created for all of us and what a wonderful gift to enjoy! Mariah enjoyed our time together and we had fun so that is what counts. Better luck next year right! The whole family is missing you and your spunk. We think of you often, and you are never forgotten. Miss you bunches, and love you to pieces Maurices!
Love,
Michelle

Tina Monette

December 6, 2008

Hi there blake, it has been a while since I wrote last, I check your guest book every week, pretty much.
The Holidays are apon us now and this is the hardest time of year for me, ever since you have been gone.
I try to weather thru it as best as I can. Alot of unpleasant things have happened in the last 4 years, and some good I guess, I do have alot to be thankfull for, The lord blessed me with 4 beutiful children and I thank him for that, also my health and good friends and my faith, I think alot of people need to not judje one another and remember to be kind, as the lord is the only one who will do the judjing, and people need to act like cristians if they believe their selves to be one.
I did a little decorating for christmas , brett alyssa and I baked over 7 dozen cookies last week while listening to christmas music it was alot of fun.
We just got some snow, it is pretty outside with a little blanket of white.
I bought a new tree and decorated it in silver and white, alyssa is adding the silver icicles as i am writing you, well now she needs my help for the up high branches.

I love you and miss you bunches,

may god bless all this
holiday season,
Love, Mom

alyssa monette

December 5, 2008

hi blake its only a couple weeks until christmas and i am so excited because i am getting a nintendo d.s. from shawn well my dad but hes not your dad so ya thats why i said that well bye love ya love alyssa

November 25, 2008

Well "Turkey Day" is approaching and that brought thoughts of hunting which reminded me of the deer picture I have of you. Missing you very much Blake - Happy Thanksgiving!
Love,
Aunt Madonna

michelle westerlund

September 23, 2008

Hi Blake,

I think of you often, now that hunting is coming up and when I am fishing I think of your excitement.

I enjoyed doing things with you, and miss you a bunch!

I can't believe you have been in Heaven for 4 years today. I know someday we'll meet again! Love you to pieces Maurices!
Love,
Aunt Michelle

Heather Ocken

September 22, 2008

Hey Blake,
Megan and I are comin to see you tomorrow! Miss u & love ya!

Aunt Lisa

September 22, 2008

We still love and miss you Blake.

Heather Ocken

September 19, 2008

Hey Blake,
I'm writing a paper for my college class today and again your on my mind. Were writing about poems and of course most of them are sad but you're a happy memory. I sit here crying tears of good memories. I wish you were here with us! I love you Blake! Miss You!

Heather

alyssa monette

September 12, 2008

hi blake im at moms house right now it is so fun here i play midnight tag with all the neighbor kids well g2g love ya

Katie Gervais

September 6, 2008

Blake!!
HEY BLAKE HOWS IT GOING? LONG TIME NO TALK!! I SURE DO MISS YOU BUD! AS YOU KNOW IM IN TREATMENT RIGHT NOW AND IM ALMOST ABOUT TO GRADUATE!! AND TODAY IS MY 18TH BIRTHDAY IM SPENDING IT OVER HERE AT MY GRANDMAS HOUSE! I SURE HOPE YOU WATCHING DOWN ON ME, I PRAY TO YOU EVERYNIGHT STILL TELL THIS DAY!! BRYAN REALLY NEEDS YOU TO!! IM NOT SURE WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN TO HIM BUT I MISS HIM MORE THEN EVER! I HOPE I CAN SEE HIM AFTER I GET OUT!! BUT I JUST THOUGHT I WOULD STOP BY AND SAY HI!! I MISS YOU AND I LOVE YOU!
TAKE CARE!
LOVE ALWAYS KATIE GERVAIS

alyssa monette

August 29, 2008

hey blake schools startin soon my teacher is mrs. biorn i can tell she is goin to be really nice! shawn is takin brett and i shoppin this weekend to get new shoes and cloes for school and he said he mite buy me some new wheels and a new tool for my heelys i lost my other wheels and tool. cant wait for school to start on tuesday well im not that excited but im excited to see my friends i cleaned my room today well gotta go bretts bein annoying love ya

Madonna Monette

August 1, 2008

Hi Blake,

You were on my mind today and I think mainly because of the situation with your mom & Shawn. You are probably one of the strongest connections between them so I ask you to please watch out for them. Guide them to what will make them happy in life and know you will always be a part of both of theirs.
Miss you Blake ... still have your skateboard picture on my frig and see it all the time.
Love,
Aunt Madonna

Michelle Westerlund

May 16, 2008

Blake -
I found this little poem
and thought of you.

I've heard people say that our children are just on loan to us from God.

I thank god for the precious times I shared with you, may the memories stay forever in my heart..

A Child Loaned

"I'll lend you for a little time, a child of mine," he said,
"for you to love the while he lives,
and mourn for when he's dead.

It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three,
but will you, til I call him back,
take care of him for me?

He'll bring his charms to gladden you,
and should his stay be brief,
you'll have his lovely memories, as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay,
since all from earth return,
but there are lessons taught down there,
I want this child to learn.

I've looked this wide world over,
in my search for teachers true,
and from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you.

Now will you give him all your love?
Not think the labor vain,
nor hate me when I come to call,
and take him back again.

I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, thy will be done,"
for all the joy thy child shall bring,
the risk of grief will run.

We'll shelter him with tenderness,
we'll love him while we may,
and for the happiness we've know, forever grateful stay.

But should the angels call for him,
much sooner than we planned,
we'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
and try to understand.
~author unknown

Miss you and love you
Michelle Westerlund

Shawn Monette

March 23, 2008

Blake, Happy Easter. Blake we all need you to look after us more than ever now. I'm sure Bryan could use some sort of angel to look after him & turn things around. Brett & Alyssa will be splitting time between your Mom & I. I hope everything works out for all of us & I really think it will, but it will just be a bit tough at first. Well, I know you had a good Easter up there with the Big Guy - hob-knobbing with the "Brass" & "High-Rollers"

Love, Shawn-Won-Bon-Fawn-Tawn

Alyssa Monette

March 12, 2008

Mom and I saw a cake last night that had an eagle on it. It just reminded me of you.


LOVE,
ALYSSA

alyssa monette

March 6, 2008

hi blake i just got my girl scout cookies i wish tou were still here so you could taste my new favorite kind they are called all abouts they have crunchy stuff on the top and chocolate on the bottom


love,
alyssa

Shawn Monette

February 27, 2008

Blake, I just wanted to let you know that Brett is taking firearms safety & I decided to take it too. As long as I am bringing him anyway & if I ever want to hunt in another state, I have to have it. I love it. I am actually learning very important things that I thought I knew already. Everyone should take the course. Brett won a shotgun in January. That was pretty cool. He has two Remingtons now (his single shot - 20 ga. & now an 870 - 12 ga.). We will get out more this summer to the range to practice & hopefully Brett will get his first duck this fall. I wish you were still here to go hunt ducks with us. I know you seem to prefer deer hunting, but ducks are so much fun. Well, Love ya.

-Shawn

miranda 2knee

February 27, 2008

wow, it's been years since i've visted this site. i hope you don't think that i have forgotten you, because that would be impossible.

i hope you are doing well, wherever it is you're at. you haven't left my thoughts or anybody elses and we all miss you terribly.

you were so special to so many people, i hope you knew that.

we love you, blake.
we always loved you.

-miranda 2knee

alyssa monette

February 25, 2008

hi blake i just wanted to tell you that brett mom and i were in the car yesterday on our way to d.q. (dairy queen) and we saw some eagles it reminded me of you because you love eagles love,
alyssa your lil sis

alyssa monette

February 17, 2008

Hi Blake i just wanted to say that i was lookin at some pictures a couple weeks ago you,Bryan,Brett,and me looked so cute in them!!

Aunt Madonna

January 29, 2008

Hey Blake,

Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you today. We all miss you terribly and wish you were with us. You will forever be in our hearts ... always! I'll watch for those angels and know that one of them is you.
Love ...

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