Upcoming Events
Sep
30
Graveside service
2:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.
Twin Oaks Memorial Park
59 Lake Arthur Hwy., Artesia, NM 88210
Send FlowersServices provided by
Terpening & Son MortuaryOnly 5 days left for delivery to next service.
Bobby Ham Obituary
A Graveside service will be held for Bobby Gene Ham at 2:00 pm on Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at Twin Oaks Memorial Park.
Bobby, 90, passed away surround by the love of his family on September 18, 2025. He was born on December 2, 1934, to Howard Ham and Laura Ham Stephens in Artesia NM
He was a husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather. He loved God and his family. He was always willing to help anyone that needed help.
Bobby is preceded by his wife, Virginia Ham; father, Howard Ham; mother, Laura Ham Stephens; brother, James T Ham; sister, Doris Ham; sister Allene Brown; sister, Betty Cockrum, sister, JoAnn Bentley; brother, Frankie Ham.
Those left to cherish his memory are his son, Danny Ham (Deborah); daughter, Marilyn Oakes; son Gary Ham; daughter, Deborah Romo; girlfriend, Rose Bolen; and numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren.
A special heartfelt thank you to dear friends, Lily and Sergio Morales, for the love and compassion you showed during this difficult time.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
611 W. Grand Ave., Artesia, NM 88210
People and places connected with Bobby
Recent Obituaries
Recent Obituaries
Memories and Condolences
for Bobby Ham
Tell your own story about Bobby
Memories and condolences can be left on the obituary at the funeral home website.
How you can show support
Make a Donation
in Bobby Ham's name
How to support Bobby's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Bobby Ham's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
Sponsored
Upcoming Events
Sep
30
Graveside service
2:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.
Twin Oaks Memorial Park
59 Lake Arthur Hwy., Artesia, NM 88210
Send FlowersServices provided by
Terpening & Son MortuaryOnly 5 days left for delivery to next service.