Brian D. Hayes

Brian D. Hayes obituary

Brian D. Hayes

Brian Hayes Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Dirsa-Morin Funeral Home - Worcester on Sep. 25, 2025.

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WORCESTER___Brian David Hayes, 86, of Worcester, Massachusetts passed away Thursday morning, September 11th, at the University of Massachusetts Hospital, Memorial campus.

Brian was born and raised in Worcester, MA. to John and Blanche Hayes. After high school, Brian spent four years in the United States Air Force. During his final year in the Air Force, he married the love of his life, Lorna Jean Martin of Worcester. Not long after, he began working on the assembly line at General Motors in Framingham, where he stayed for more than twenty years. Brian then began working at the Big Y Supermarket in Worcester, where he spent another 20 years enjoying his interactions with both co-workers and customers alike.

Brian will be remembered for his friendly, sociable personality, wonderful sense of humor, and love of family. He loved being involved with his children's activities, often making their hobbies his own. He coached Little League baseball to spend time with his three sons, and continued coaching for the next 25 years. In his 50's, he followed in his two younger sons' footsteps when he accepted a role in a play in which the two sons were also featured, and then went on performing for many more years in various community theater groups. In his 60's, he became an umpire for his oldest son's 1860s vintage baseball team - where his reputation for fairness and friendliness made him a favorite even among opposing clubs. Over the years, few things gave him greater pleasure than visiting his daughter and her family in Ireland. Researching Irish culture and capturing his visits to Ireland in video form became another hobby.

A loving husband, father, and grandfather, Brian is survived by his wife of 62 years, Lorna; four children, Diane Hayes Flanagan and her husband, Gerard of Doolin, Ireland; David and his wife, Cathy of Warwick, Rhode Island; Michael and his wife, Christine of Holliston, Massachusetts; and Steven of Providence, Rhode Island; and six beloved grandchildren, Rachel, Ava, Lily, Maddie, Henry, and William. Brian is also survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Donald and Pauline Hayes of Walpole; his sister, Paula Morrisette of Edgewater, Florida; and his brother-in-law, Terrence Martin, of New York City.

Brian's funeral Mass will be held at Our Lady of Mount Carmel and Our Lady of Loreto Parish Church, 37 Massasoit Road, Worcester, MA at 11:00 AM on Thursday, September 25, 2025. Interment will follow in St. John Cemetery, Worcester. DIRSA - MORIN FUNERAL HOME, 298 Grafton Street, Worcester is directing funeral arrangements. www.worcesterfuneral.com

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Gina Perna

October 10, 2025

It was Mr. Hayes, my dear friend and neighbor who taught me the proper way to swing a bat while he coached the after school Adams Street School little league. Because his love for sports and coaching, I had the courage to join an all- boys team back in the 1970s due to the confidence he inspired in me, just Ann 11 year old girly- girl who didn´t even know what the term " bench me" meant as the boys hurled major league insults my way.
Thank you, Mr. Hayes for your inspiration and commitment to our school and neighborhood, always making it a better and safer place to live. I will truly miss your friendly hellos, your stories about Ireland, your comedic sense of humor.
Your next door neighbor,

Gina Perna

Nancy and Rick Hopkins

September 24, 2025

So sorry to see this. Mr Hayes to everyone. One of the nicest men around. Will be missed. Great baseball memories. The Hopkins Family

Deirdre Foran

September 20, 2025

Diane, Buddy, Girls and extended family, my condolences on the loss of Brian. RIP

Tim Mahoney

September 19, 2025

To the Hayes Family,

I am so sad to hear about Mr. Hayes's passing (I suppose he will always be Mr. Hayes to me).  He was an extremely kind person and outstanding father with a deep appreciation of music, a subversive sense of humor (on full display with that raspy laugh), and was always a blast to play board games with.  I still admire his ever-youthful spirit and openness to try new things even later in his life.  I am of course here thinking of his decision to act on the stage for the very first time in "The Marriage of Bette and Boo" alongside the more seasoned Mike and Steve.  In this play, not only did he have to deliver an enormous monologue as Father Donnaley (while Mrs. Hayes paced nervously in the lobby), but he was also called upon at some point in the same speech to imitate a piece of bacon frying on a skillet (accompanied by "Thus Spake Zarathustra", no less) - a thing did to great acclaim!   It was impossible not to like Mr. Hayes and he will always hold a special place in my thoughts.

I wish you all much strength and healing in the weeks and months to come and please know that I am sending much love your way.

Sincerely,
Tim Mahoney

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