Bruce Allan Carlson

Bruce Allan Carlson obituary

Bruce Allan Carlson

Bruce Carlson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Merton H Kays Funeral Home, Inc. on Aug. 26, 2025.

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Obituary of Bruce Allan Carlson

Bruce Allan Carlson, age 78, of Mendon, NY, passed away suddenly on August 25, 2025.

Born on June 18, 1947, in Jamestown, NY, he was the son of the late Paul and Harriet (Holm) Carlson.

He graduated from Jamestown High School and went on to Jamestown Community College before a successful career in the insurance industry as Vice President at S.H. Gow & Co.

In 1968, he married Vicki (Kurek) Carlson, sharing 57 loving years of marriage.

He is survived by his wife Vicki (Kurek) Carlson, sons Jason Carlson (Dawn), Jeremy Carlson (Heather) and Jeffrey Carlson, daughter Jennifer (Carlson) Schiedel (Brian) and eleven (11) grandchildren who he absolutely adored – Alexis, Amelia, Addison, Taylor, Jacob, Lauren, Sydney, Tucker, Mason, Wynter and River.

Bruce cherished the memories and friendships he made at Canandaigua Lake during his boating years. He enjoyed golfing, playing guitar, rooting for the Buffalo Bills, working on puzzles, maintaining his beautiful lawn and spending time with family and friends. He never missed a sporting event, graduation or celebration for his beloved grandchildren.

"Papa" will be missed most for his caring and selfless nature, his ability to make everyone laugh, his love of family, and how he always put everyone else first.

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August 27, 2025

David Specker posted to the memorial.

August 27, 2025

Maria Ludovico posted to the memorial.

August 26, 2025

Merton H Kays Funeral Home, Inc. posted an obituary.

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David Specker

August 27, 2025

I remember many moons ago playing tennis with Bruce. I should rephrase that...attempting to play tennis. Bruce was a fantastic tennis player. When he served to me, I "heard" the ball go by me and just moved over to the other side of the court. Bruce was a great husband, father, grandfather, neighbor and friend. He's now in God's hands and may he rest in peace.

Maria Ludovico

August 27, 2025

Bruce was the most gentle loving caring man I ever met. I have the best memories visiting and talking on the phone, texting with him. Bruce has the most wonderful loving beautiful family. He will be forever missed! Love you Bruce.
Don´t worry I will be there always for Vic!
Maria (Ludovico)

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