Carl Thomas Carpenter

Carl Thomas Carpenter obituary, Dryden, NY

Carl Thomas Carpenter

Carl Carpenter Obituary

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Carl T. Carpenter, 90, of Ithaca, New York, passed away peacefully on May 21, 2025, in Ithaca, New York, the city where he was born and spent his life building a legacy of dedication to family, business, and community.

Born on January 27, 1935, in Ithaca, Carl remained deeply rooted in the community throughout his life. A veteran of the United States Army, he carried the values of service and dedication into every aspect of his life.

In 1983, Carl made a lasting mark on the local business landscape by reopening Cayuga Lumber after it had been closed by its previous owner. His leadership and vision revitalized the company and contributed to the economic vitality of the area. In addition to his work with Cayuga Lumber, Carl was involved with Fingerlakes Electric and owned several local real estate rentals. His entrepreneurial spirit was matched by a natural ability to connect with others—many friendships blossomed into successful business ventures over the years.

Carl’s generosity toward family and friends was well known. He was a steadfast supporter of local youth sports and could often be found cheering from the stands at Ithaca Youth Hockey games or rooting for Cornell hockey. He also followed Lansing baseball and football with enthusiasm, always eager to support his grandsons in their athletic pursuits. Carl spent much of his later years observing the beauty of wildlife in their natural environment.

Carl is survived by his devoted wife, Elizabeth Carpenter; his son Earl Carpenter and daughter-in-law Kathleen Carpenter; grandsons Christopher Carpenter (Brittany McNamara) and Matthew Carpenter (Fernanda Da Silva); and great-grandchildren Ashton Carpenter and Sloane Carpenter.

He was predeceased by his mother Dorothy D. Carpenter, father Stuart V. Carpenter, son Stuart M. Carpenter; his brother Earl Carpenter (Catherine); sisters Leona Knapp, Velma Kissock (William), Jean Edsall (Millard "Jake"), Helen Wendland (Robert), and Mary Ellen Bond (Miles). He is also remembered fondly by numerous nieces and nephews whose lives he touched over the years.

Carl will be remembered for his enduring commitment to family, community involvement through business leadership, and unwavering support for those around him. May his memory bring comfort to all who knew him.

Heartfelt thanks to the staff at Bridges Cornell Heights in Ithaca.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hospicare of Ithaca or the Tompkins County SPCA in Carl’s memory.

A private burial will be held at the family's convenience. Perkins Funeral Home is managing the arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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