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Carl Tomchik Obituary

Carl E. Tomchik
Carl Edward Tomchik, age 83, of Monroe, CT, passed away in his home, surrounded by his loved ones, on Thursday, February 6, 2025. Carl was born in Bridgeport, CT, on September 5, 1941. He was the fourth child of the late Michael and Anna (Povesko) Tomchik.
Carl graduated from Harding High School in 1959. He went on to attend Norwalk Community College to study graphic design. He earned money for tuition by bartending at a local bar and repainting the buildings and fixtures at the Danbury State Fair. When his wife, Pat, was hired as a counselor in residence at the University of Bridgeport, Carl changed his career path and earned his Bachelor's degree in Finance.
He explored careers in both public and private enterprises and worked for various local businesses as well as the Towns of New Milford and East Haven. Along the way, he earned a Master's degree in Finance from Sacred Heart University. He finally found his home as the CFO for the Town of Monroe, where he stayed for 15 years, until health issues forced him into retirement.
Carl loved spending time with his family. His daughters and grandchildren were his pride and joy, and he would brag about them to anyone who would listen. He attended many of their sporting events, cheering on the sidelines besides his wife. Carl loved music, reading, cooking shows, and UCONN basketball and vacationing in Naples, Florida.
Carl is survived by his beloved wife of 59 years, Patricia Ann (Tis) Tomchik, his two devoted daughters, Alyssa (Lisa) Pendagast and her husband, Michael, and Ashley Iagrossi and her husband, Andrew, five treasured grandchildren, Thomas, Matthew and Andrew Pendagast, Shane and Riley Iagrossi. Carl's favorite memories were those made with his family and grandchildren.
Friends and family may pay their respect on Wednesday from 4-7 p.m. at the Cyril F. Mullins Funeral Home, 399 White Plains Rd., Trumbull, CT.
Funeral services will be held on Thursday at 10 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment will be private in St. John's Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be made to Project Warmth, 7 Fan Hill Road, Monroe, Connecticut 06468.
For more information or to leave an online condolence, please visit mullinsfh.com .

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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 8, 2025.

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Tino & Marie Modaffari

February 9, 2025

I am so sorry about Carl's passing. I knew him from High School . He was one of the nicest boys. We graduated together in 1959. I know he will be missed. Marie & Tino.

Todd and Michelle Fitz

February 8, 2025

SO MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES with the TOMCHIK FAMILY. CARL-GOD be with You till we meet again
Family-Live with LOVE in your Hearts
Much Love. In Friendship
Todd and Michelle Fitz

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