Carla R. Schilken

Carla R. Schilken obituary, Minot, ND

Carla R. Schilken

Carla Schilken Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Thompson - Larson Funeral Home, Minot on Oct. 31, 2025.

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Carla Schilken, 65, Minot, ND, passed away Wednesday, October 29, 2025, in her home surrounded by her family after a six-year battle with glioblastoma.
Carla Rae Backes was born October 6, 1960, the daughter of Roger and Connie (Schimmelpfennig) Backes, in Minot, North Dakota. She was raised and educated in Glenburn, where she graduated from Glenburn High School in 1979.
On July 11, 1981, Carla was united in marriage to Rick Schilken. In 1987, they moved to Glenburn, where they raised their three children, Chris, Dani, and Cameron. In her early years in Glenburn, Carla operated an in-home daycare so she could stay at home and raise her children. As well as providing daycare for the community.
In 1997, Carla began a successful career at Scheels. While working there Carla and Rick were able to enjoy many vacation trips that she earned for her sales. She was forced to retire from Scheels in 2019 due to health issues.
Family meant the world to Carla, especially her 10 grandchildren who were the joy of her life. She was incredibly proud of all of them.
She was a member of St. Philomena's Catholic Church, Glenburn and later became a member of Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church, Minot.
Her loving family includes: husband of 44 years, Rick; children, Chris (Erika) Schilken, Glenburn, Cameron (Sara) Schilken, Minot, and Dani (Brent) Dolbeare; grandchildren, Vaida, Hazel and Burke Schilken, Bella, Knox, Mack, and Case Schilken, Reggan, Anabelle, and Slade Dolbeare; brothers, Brian (Joan) Backes, Blair (Annette) Backes, and Bryce Backes; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Gayle Vogel, George (Kathie) Lach, Jim (Jeani) Geer, Jay (Shelley) Schilken; along with numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.
She was preceded in death by her parents; mother-in-law and father-in-law, Pat and Bob Schilken; brother-in-law, Dick Vogel; sister-in-law, Patti Miller; niece, Tiffany Geer; and several aunts and uncles.
Mass of Christian Burial: Wednesday, November 5, 2025, at 10:00 am at Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church in Minot.
Burial: at Rosehill Memorial Park, Minot.
Visitation: Tuesday from 5 to 7 pm at Thompson-Larson Funeral Home, Minot.
Vigil Prayer Service: Tuesday at 7 pm at Thompson-Larson Funeral Home, Minot.
Memorials: In lieu of flowers memorials are preferred to the Our Lady of Grace Food Pantry.
The service will be livestreamed for the public to view and can be accessed by going to Thompson-Larson Funeral Home's YouTube channel at
https://youtube.com/live/DkHMIX9Utus?feature=share

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steve d scheel

October 31, 2025

Carla was an absolutely marvelous partner in our business. She performed at an ultra high level and it was fun to send her and her husband on trips she earned with her performance. She is in a better place, and all of us at SCHEELS have the family in our thoughts and prayers. Steve D Scheel

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