Charlene Mills

Charlene Mills obituary, Durant, OK

Charlene Mills

Charlene Mills Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Gordon Funeral Home - Durant on Oct. 1, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Emily "Charlene" Whitworth-Andrew-Mills was born on May 30, 1938 at the family home in Wade, Oklahoma. She died on July 11, 2025 at age 87 in Durant, Oklahoma.
Emily Charlene lived in Wade until 1953 when she moved to Durant. Throughout her life there she worked for Corner Drug, Gibson's Discount Center, Durant Bank and Trust and finally First United Bank before retiring. She was a wonderful singer (even backing up Lowell McManes on one of his albums), cook (who owned the Sugar Shack café and served tons of hamburgers to hungry high school students in the mid-60s and later compiled a recipe book of her tasty dishes including her chicken and dumplings which was a favorite at many a church luncheon), writer (whose poems and stories were published in a book by her children and was surprised with a book-signing at her 80th birthday party), genealogist (who definitely got her money's worth from Ancestry.com tracing our family history back to the 1600s) and avid collector (who would joyfully show any visitor to her house her treasured Barbies, brooches, carnival glass and whatever else happened to be tickling her collecting bone at the time).
She loved the town of Wade, writing many stories of her childhood adventures and putting together a list of all the families who lived there when she was growing up.
In 1960 she married Edward Andrew and they were married until his death in 1979. She met the "Love of her Life" Reverend Robert Mills in 1983 and they were married until his death in 1996. Robert and Emily Charlene loved to travel and collect antiques.
Emily Charlene was preceded in death by her parents Joseph Lewis Whitworth and Sarah Lillie Hardiman-Whitworth; four full siblings Odie Lloyd Whitworth, Joseph Lewis Whitworth Jr., Artie Hansel Whitworth, and Aaron Gomer Whitworth.
She was also preceded in death by half siblings from the first marriage of her father Joseph Lewis Whitworth: Opa Whitworth-Penuel, Vera Whitworth-Williams, James Otto Whitworth, Joseph Clyde Whitworth, infant daughter Whitworth, Naomi Whitworth-Byrn, and Opha Edith Whitworth.
Emily Charlene is survived by Dean and DiAnn Mills of Houston, Texas and their children Ben and Machille Egert, Brian and Maria Egert, Beau and Allison Egert, Brett Egert (Deceased) plus their grandchildren Grace Egert, Lane Egert and Ruby Egert; Wesley and Roberta Morgan of Marietta, Oklahoma and their children David and Kim Staton along with Chris and Toni Morgan plus grandchildren Kaygan Staton, Karrington Staton, Lincoln Staton, Camden Morgan and Blaine Morgan; Gerald and Pamela Whitworth of Glenpool, Oklahoma and their children Jeremy and Tiffany Whitworth of Kiefer, Oklahoma along with Ian Whitworth of Glenpool, Oklahoma plus grandchildren Jackson Whitworth and Sara Winfrey; Russell and Penney Andrew of Fort Worth, Texas. She is also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
A graveside service will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, July 19, 2025 at Highland Cemetery in Durant, Oklahoma with Marcus Whitworth officiating.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer's Association or your favorite charity. https://alzfdn.org/donate/
The family would like to thank the wonderful staff of Featherstone Assisted Living and Centric Hospice for taking such great care of Emily Charlene!
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Gordon Funeral Home, 221 N. 3rd, Durant, 580-916-9090
To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Charlene Mills, please visit our Tree Store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Gordon Funeral Home - Durant

221 N. 3rd Ave., Durant, OK 74701

Make a Donation
in Charlene Mills's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

How to support Charlene's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Charlene Mills's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Charlene Mills's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?