Charles Ortolani And Melissa Fleming

Charles Ortolani And Melissa Fleming obituary, Danvers, MA

Charles Ortolani And Melissa Fleming

Charles Ortolani And Melissa Fleming Obituary

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Charles Ortolani and Melissa Fleming Obituary
DANVERS – Charles "Charlie" Ortolani Jr., 71, of Danvers, devoted husband of 39 years to the late Melissa Woodell Fleming and loving father of Nicholas Ortolani, passed away on December 12th, 2023 at Hathorne Hill in Danvers after a brief bout with cancer.
Raised in Revere, he was the son of the late Charles and Josephine (Rice) Ortolani.
Charlie was born on December 14th, 1951, in Chelsea, MA. He graduated from Revere High School, the University of Massachusetts, Amherst, with a BA in Psychology, and Boston College, with an Masters degree in Social Work - MSW.
Charlie was known among his friends and family as a gentle soul and an easy heart whose values were reflected in his words, work, and actions. He valued patience, kindness, generosity, music, and love without condition or exception.
Charlie worked at the Center for Addictive Behaviors in Salem, The Home for Little Wanderers in Roslindale, and taught at Salem State University and Boston University. A lifelong musician, Charlie played in many bands, including 3 with his wife Melissa: 4th Street Station, The High Tops, and He Said/She Said. Charlie also performed with the Boston Rockabilly Music Conspiracy, Busy Little Kitchen, Cold Cold Heart, and many others. He made countless lifelong connections through his music, whether through various musical groups or his time at the Summer Acoustic Music Week and Winter Acoustic Music Week.
Charlie is remembered by his son, Nicholas Ortolani and daughter-in-law, Kathleen McCarthy; his sisters, Patricia Demase and Judy Calder (her husband Ray Calder); his nieces and nephews, Jill Caputo, Jan Silva, Donna DeBerardinis, Kate and Michael Demase, John Roger, Michael Surette, Alison and Andrew Silva; his second-nieces, Mia and Lola Copeland; and many friends. He was followed in death shortly afterward by his wife, Melissa. In addition to his wife and parents, he is preceded in death by his sister, Carol McKenna, brother, John Ortolani, and his beloved brothers-in-law, Jack McKenna and Larry Demase.
ARRANGEMENTS: Relatives and friends are invited to his celebration of life funeral which will be held at O'Donnell – Cremations – Funerals – Celebrations, 167 Maple St., (Rte. 62) DANVERS on Tuesday, December 19th, 2023 at 9:30 A.M. Visitation will be held prior to the service from 9 A.M. until the time of service. Burial will follow in Wildwood Cemetery, 70 Strong St, Amherst, MA. In lieu of flowers, please donate to The Home for Little Wanderers at thehome.org.
DANVERS - Melissa (Woodell) Fleming, 72, of Danvers, beloved wife of 39 years of the late Charles Ortolani and loving mother to Nicholas Ortolani, passed away on December 13th, 2023 at Beverly Hospital. She was the daughter of the late Iva Ruth (Hardgrove) Woodell and Parker Mitchell Woodell.
Melissa was born on August 12th, 1951, in Evanston, IL. She graduated from Downers Grove South High School, the University of Illinois, with a B.A. in Special Education and from Antioch University New England with an M.A. in Education. She completed post-graduate work at Rutgers University.
She valued human service, charity, music, and love without condition or exception. She was fiercely dedicated to helping the most in need and believed in giving back to the community at every possible opportunity.
She worked at the Center for Addictive Behaviors in Salem and taught at Cambridge College and Northern Essex Community College. She and her first husband, Patrick Fleming, founded the second halfway house in Massachusetts in Lynn. A passionate musician, she performed in many bands, including 3 with her late husband Charles: 4th Street Station, The High Tops, and He Said/She Said. Music laid the foundation for many of her lifelong friendships through performance and involvement in Summer Acoustic Music Week and Winter Acoustic Music Week. She also performed in theater, most recently at NECCO's production of Eve Ensler's The Vagina Monologues.
Melissa is remembered by her son, Nicholas Ortolani and daughter-in-law, Kathleen McCarthy; her sister, Susan Woodell; her nieces and nephews, Kristin, Paul, Erin, Devon, Shannon, and Darby; cousins, Stuart, Steven, and David; in-laws, Patricia Demase, and Judy and Ray Calder; and many friends. In addition to her husband and parents, she is preceded in death by her sister, Nancy Woodell Callahan; her beloved aunts and uncles, Bryon, Jack, and Elois; her cousin, Tony; and her parents, Dixie Jean and Merwin.
ARRANGEMENTS: Relatives and friends are invited to her celebration of life funeral which will be held at O'Donnell – Cremations – Funerals – Celebrations, 167 Maple St., (Rte. 62) DANVERS on Tuesday, December 19th, 2023 at 9:30 A.M. Visitation will be held prior tot he service from 9 A.M. until the time of service. Burial will follow in Wildwood Cemetery, 70 Strong St, Amherst, MA. In lieu of flowers, please donate to one of the many charities she held dear, including The Innocence Project, NARAL, and Amnesty International.
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December 28, 2023

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December 17, 2023

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Gail Dorey

December 28, 2023

I played with Charlie and mark Shapiro in a band (Warm Ways), from 1976 - 1978. I'll always remember Charlie in his 20s, with that clear youthful voice, and wonderful guitar talent. I also worked with Charlie, at the Department of Public Welfare in Dorchester at the same time. He was a treasure. So glad that he continued to sing and play for his whole life.

Gail Dorey

December 28, 2023

I sang with Charlie and his friend Mark Shapiro under the name "Warm Ways" from 1976 - 1978. I also worked with Charlie at the Department of Public Welfare in Dorchester (that's how we met). Charlie was already singing with Mark, and I joined them. I'll always remember Charlie as the 20 somthing, with a pristine voice. Can't believe he's gone.

Bo Veaner

December 17, 2023

I first met Charlie and Melissa at Week 1 of SAMW music camp many years ago. They were an inseparable duo that everybody wanted to hear. They played at all the jams adding beautiful harmonies and gracious guitar licks to all the songs! They enjoyed playing with all the campers, making camp an even better experience!
I got to know them as a dynamic music duo and as friends. Charlie was a fixture at Roslindale Open MIC. We affectionately called him the "house band". Ken Porter and I invited both of them to play with us at a few gigs including Tangerini's Farm in Millis and a special event in Medway. They were so gracious and kind as we played new and old tunes and just had a great time together! They were a real treasure and will be sorely missed.

Victor Lospennato

December 16, 2023

Charlie O was one of the first two lead guitar players with our band, Boston Rockabilly Music Conspiracy back in 1980. His great talent on the guitar, vocal ability, tech skills and overall wonderful personality made him a natural for the band. The sudden jolt of disbelief and sadness and the unbelieveable loss of his beautiful wife, Melissa is extremely difficult to fathom. It will be a great void to fill for all the people who loved them and whom they entertained over the years. May their music continually play on so they can still can be heard from beyond. Rest in peace, Charlie and Melissa, and till we meet again, Keep On Rockin'! God bless you both! Vic Lospennato(Vic Layne BRMC) and Maryte Lospennato

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December 28, 2023

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