Charles M Shaffer

1959 - 2026

Charles M Shaffer obituary, 1959-2026, Portland, NY

Charles M Shaffer

1959 - 2026

BORN

1959

DIED

2026

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DiStasio Funeral Home - South Dayton

478 Route 83 Balcom Corners, South Dayton, NY

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Charles Shaffer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 15, 2026.
Charles M. Shaffer, 67, passed away peacefully on February 13, 2026, at his home with family by his side. Born on February 2, 1959, in Salamanca, Charles was a man whose passion for life and love for his family knew no bounds.

Charles is survived by his devoted wife of 44 years, Debbie L. (Doner) Shaffer. Together, they built a life full of joy and laughter. He leaves behind a legacy through his children Charles (April) Shaffer Jr, Jason (Stephanie) Doner, Chasity Kubic, Angel (Roger Woodcock) Doner, Denae Doner, and Sarah (Michael) Smith. His role as a grandfather was one he cherished with unsurpassed affection, his spirit living on through grandchildren Justina, Skyler, Austin, Jayla, Logan, Maxwell, Jayden, Joleena, Kailyn, Jack, Landon, Hope, Jordan, Trevor, Layla, Aaliyah, and Lexi, as well as his great-grandchildren Caleigh and Victoria.

Charles's sibling bond remains an unbreakable chain, with his brother Michael (Kathy) Shaffer and sister Betty Brown carrying forward the family's solidarity. A host of nieces and nephews also survive him, bearing the mark of his influence and kindness. He was preceded in death by his parents, Ernest Sr. and Phyllis (Covert) Shaffer, and his siblings Ernest L., Robert P., Terry, and Anna, who laid the path for him to the next life.

A self-employed logger who worked with horses, a tree cutter, and a farmer, Charles was a man of the earth, his hands always tending to the beauty of the natural world. His legacy in the logging community is characterized by a dedication to his craft and an unwavering work ethic.

Charles was an individual whose interests were as deep as they were simple. He harbored a profound love for all animals, finding joy in their companionship and giving them care. His grandchildren were the sunshine in his day, and spending time with family and friends was the cornerstone of his existence. Known for his culinary skills, he joyously hosted a family pig roast each year that became a cherished tradition. He found solace in the quieter moments of life as well, often found sitting on the porch, listening to music, and sipping on his juices, reflecting on the beauty of life.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton, Friday February 20, 2026 from 3PM to 6PM where a funeral service will immediately follow.

Interment will be held in the spring at Wildwood Cemetery in Salamanca

Online condolences may be made at www.distasiofuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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3:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

DiStasio Funeral Home - South Dayton

478 Route 83 Balcom Corners, South Dayton, NY

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Feb

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Funeral service

6:00 p.m.

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478 Route 83 Balcom Corners, South Dayton, NY

Send Flowers