Charles M. Shaffer

Charles M. Shaffer obituary, Salamanca, NY

Charles M. Shaffer

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Charles Shaffer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by DiStasio Funeral Home - South Dayton on Feb. 15, 2026.
Charles M. Shaffer, 67, passed away peacefully on February 13, 2026, at his home with family by his side. Born on February 2, 1959, in Salamanca, Charles was a man whose passion for life and love for his family was immense.

Charles is survived by his devoted and loving wife of 44 years, Debbie L. (Doner) Shaffer. Together, they built a life full of love, laughter and fond memories. He leaves behind a legacy through his children Charles (April) Shaffer Jr, Jason (Stephanie) Doner, Chasity Kubic, Angel (Roger Woodcock Jr.) Doner, Denae (Thomas Dalton) Doner, and Sarah (Michael) Smith. His role as a grandfather was one he truly cherished. His spirit lives on through grandchildren Justina, Skyler, Austin, Jayla, Logan, Maxwell, Jayden, Joleena, Kailyn, Jack, Landon, Hope, Jordan, Trevor, Layla, Aaliyah, and Lexi, as well as his beloved great-grandchildren Caleigh and Victoria.

Charles leaves behind two siblings, a brother Michael (Kathy) Shaffer and sister Betty Brown. A host of nieces and nephews also survive him. He was predeceased by his parents, Ernest Sr. and Phyllis (Covert) Shaffer, and his siblings Ernest L., Robert P., Terry, Anna, and one nephew Robert Shaffer Jr.

Spending many years self employed, he worked as a logger skidding with work horses and cutting firewood. He also spent many years working for the union installing glass in buildings including the Nascar Hall of Fame in Charlotte NC and Buffalo General Hospital in Buffalo NY.

Charles was full of surprises and lived life on his own terms. He enjoyed going to livestock auctions and would often come home with a new animal. His grandchildren and great grandchildren were the light of his life. He enjoyed hosting a family pig roast each year that became a cherished tradition. Charles found solace in the quieter moments of life as well, often found sitting on the porch or under his willow tree, listening to music, smoking cigars and sipping on his juicies.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton, Friday February 20, 2026 from 3PM to 6PM where a funeral service will immediately follow.

Online condolences may be made at www.distasiofuneralhome.com

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DiStasio Funeral Home Inc

478 Route 83, South Dayton, NY 14138

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478 Route 83, South Dayton, NY 14138

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