Charles Dearden Vernon

Charles Dearden Vernon obituary, Windsor, CT

Charles Dearden Vernon

Charles Vernon Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carmon Windsor Funeral Home on Nov. 2, 2024.

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Charles Dearden Vernon was born on November 4, 1944, in Worcester, Massachusetts and died peacefully on October 18th in Hartford, Connecticut from medical complications. He was the son of the late Hollis and Jean Dearden Vernon.
Chuck grew up on the campus of the Williston Northampton School in Easthampton, Massachusetts. At Williston, he stood out as an inspiring leader of the student body as president of the Student Council and as a gifted, determined athlete who exceled in football, hockey and lacrosse, serving as captain of the latter two. In a remarkable tribute to Chuck and his leadership abilities, a teammate's family donated a Victory Bell to the school in his honor. Dedicated to Chuck, the inscription reads that he proved to all that "sportsman is the true victory." Chuck was elected to the school's Athletic Hall of Fame in 2023.
After Williston Chuck attended Dartmouth College, graduating in 1966. At Dartmouth he was once again a campus leader and recognized athlete, captain of the men's lacrosse team and named as an All-American for his sportsmanship and love of the game.
Following graduation from Dartmouth, for a brief time Chuck managed a Dixieland-motif restaurant, Your Father's Mustache, first in Bay Head, New Jersey during the summer and then in New York City the following winter. It was in Bay Head that he met the love of his life, Jamie Sandra Gardner, whom he married in 1968.
In 1968 Chuck began his illustrious career at the Loomis Chaffee School in Windsor, Connecticut, serving on the faculty in myriad roles throughout his career in secondary school education, but primarily as the head of the Community Work Program, which he established shortly after his arrival. Again, Chuck's commitment to athletics and his ability to engage and lead others to perform at their highest level were evident as he coached 135 teams for over 40 years. To honor his outstanding contribution to girls' ice hockey, the New England Preparatory Schools Athletic Conference named the Elite Division championship tournament in his honor.
When he wasn't coaching during the school year, Chuck, along with Jamie, spent every summer at the Jersey Shore hosting gatherings for family and friends, making furniture in his shop and body surfing at Bridge Avenue Beach.
Throughout his quasi-retirement, Chuck continued and expanded his passion for woodworking and his commitment to walking, engaging friends and neighbors to join him. In this latter realm, as in other forums, Chuck's effervescent personality, punctuated by forceful insistence and a quick wit, brought people into his orbit, summoning them to action and enriching their lives.
Throughout Chuck's life, he was fiercely committed to his family and friends as they were to him. In his eyes, his wife Jamie, who predeceased him, was the most incredible person on the planet. A loving and present father to Jill and Andrew, he also leaves his special GrandGirls Lila, Jenna, Hannah and Tatum; Jill's husband Todd and Andrew's wife Adrianne, along with many friends, especially Ginny Drapeau who was a constant source of care and strength the past two years. Predeceased by his brother Kirke, Chuck also leaves several cousins and their children.
There will be a Celebration of Life for Chuck at the Loomis Chaffee School on Sunday November 24th at 10:00 a.m. with luncheon to follow.
Donations in his memory can be made to The Loomis Chaffee School, for the Charles D. Vernon Teaching Fund, Alumni/Development, 4 Batchelder Road, Windsor, CT 06095
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Carol dosdalll

November 10, 2024

Bruno was the very best mentor to these students. His belief in their abilities and life lessons and his loving gifts will live forever. We lost a great angel, but his spirit should guide all of our lives

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November 2, 2024

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

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