Claudia Bernstein

Claudia Bernstein obituary, South Windsor, CT

Claudia Bernstein

Claudia Bernstein Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Daly Funeral Home Inc. - Schenectady on Jan. 8, 2026.
Claudia Bernstein of South Windsor, Connecticut

Claudia Bernstein, 71, passed away peacefully on January 1, 2026, at her home in South Windsor, Connecticut.

Claudia was born in New Rochelle, New York, the daughter of the late Louis and Lucy Verruto. She moved to Schenectady, New York, as a young child, where she was raised and later graduated from Notre Dame High School. She went on to earn her Bachelors degree from Siena College in Loudonville, NY.

Shortly after marrying her former husband, Thomas Feeney, Claudia moved to Connecticut, where they spent their early years in Vernon before moving to Glastonbury while supporting Thom's career. When her children were young, Claudia ran a home-based business called Brimming Baskets. Later, she pursued a career in radio and television advertising, a field which she was deeply passionate about. She was also actively involved for many years in the Glastonbury Junior Women's Club.

In October of 2002, she married her husband Barry and settled in South Windsor, where they lived for the last 25 years. She was very active in her Church, St. Margret Mary, regularly volunteered at the South Windsor Senior Center, the Connecticut Humane Society, and served on the committee for the South Windsor Alliance for Families.

Claudia is survived by her daughters, Sarah Feeney and her partner Dean Aresco, and their daughter Ryan; and Christa Feeney and her daughter, Amelia. She is also survived by her loving husband, Barry Bernstein, and his family: Eric Bernstein (Breanne) and children Ben, Abby, Caleb, and Josephine; and Elisha Rose (Eric) and their children Julianna, Andrew, and Samantha. Claudia also leaves behind a large extended family and friends.

In addition to her parents, Claudia was predeceased by her brother, Louis Verruto.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, January 12, 2026, at St. John the Evangelist Church on Union Street in Schenectady. Calling hours will precede the Mass on Monday from 11:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at Daly Funeral Home, 242 McClellan Street, Schenectady. Burial will follow at St. John the Baptist Cemetery, Schenectady, New York.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 14, 2026, at St. Margret Mary Church on Hayes Rd in South Windsor, Connecticut.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Connecticut Humane Society.

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January 16, 2026

Christa - peeshadoo posted to the memorial.

January 16, 2026

Christa - peeshadoo posted to the memorial.

January 15, 2026

Joe Orlando posted to the memorial.

Christa - peeshadoo

January 16, 2026

I love you , forever and more. To the "moon-a-moon" and back
I miss you more than words can describe

"Up in the sky ever so high swinging so free in the air" (thank you for teaching me that song on the piano. Only one I can really play lol. ) sing free , smile bright, wrap arms around us with your warming light.

Forever
Amelia says "I love you "

Christa - peeshadoo

January 16, 2026

Joe Orlando

January 15, 2026

I am so sorry for your loss. Used to work with Claudia many years ago at WDRC. Kept in touch off and on thru Facebook last few years. Sent me a nice message commenting on a Facebook post I made last year. Hope happy memories help get u thru this time.

Janet, Larry, and Steven Haffner

January 15, 2026

Barry - We were so very sorry to hear about Claudia. Our deepest sympathies go out to you, Sarah, and Christa.
Claudia was always so sweet to the three of us. Every time we spoke, she was funny and bubbly. We will really miss her.
Remembering all the good times, will get you through the difficult times.
Always respect her memory!
We love you, and are here for you. - Janet, Larry, and Steven

Donna Mercier

January 13, 2026

Sincere condolences for all your family and friends. Remembering your smile, enthusiasm, generous spirit, faith, and love of family. And imagining your heavenly reunion with your father, mother, and brother. Love you, dear Claudia.

Lisa Meyer

January 12, 2026

This is such sad news about Claudia´s passing. Such fond memories of our Siena days. Thoughts and prayers for your entire family.

Evy Smith

January 12, 2026

"Death is not extinguishing the light; it is only putting out the lamp because the dawn has come." (Rabindranath Tagore)

Claudia shone her light throughout her life in her own unique way. May it shine now through all who knew and loved her in the light she gave to us along the way.

My deep condolences to her entire family.

Jackson Frost

January 11, 2026

Dear Barry and family,

You may not know me, but I have had either a similar or identical number to Claudia. Although I have always tried to redirect callers, I continued to receive messages over the years. I have seen the kindness of your family during the hard times and bad, and feel a sort of connection indirectly.

It has come to my attention of Claudia's passing through calls that I have received. It felt wrong to me not to send a message to her loved ones in this time of grieving. She seemed to be such a kind spirit and a genuine pleasure to be around. I am sending strength and peace through these hard times and I hope you and your family are able to heal and mourn surrounded by that kindness. May she rest easy.

- Jackson Frost

Lynn Massaroni Chrys

January 11, 2026

I am so shocked and saddened to hear this news. I adored her from Notre Dame on, and Facebook continued our friendship . May she RIP
Claudia you will be missed

Erica

January 10, 2026

Coach Barry,
Sending you and your family much love. We´re so sorry to hear of Claudia´s passing. She always had a friendly smile whenever we saw her in church or around town.
The Botti family

Anne McKenna Collins

January 10, 2026

I am heartbroken to learn of Claudia´s passing - she was a fellow Siena wingmate (3W) who was always dancing in the hallway with the rest of us to Earth, Wind and Fire! May you rest in peace, dear friend. My sincere sympathies go out to her entire family for the loss of this beautiful soul who was a bright light.

adreanne good

January 10, 2026

my heart felt condolences go out to the family a beautiful beautiful person with a pure beautiful heart of gold riheavenly peace gone but never ever will be forgotten

Evy Smity

January 10, 2026

Claudia and I loved being roommates at Siena from Day1! We connected immediately upon meeting! May she be at peace

Elizabeth McGuire

January 10, 2026

I´m shocked and saddened to hear about Claudia- such a vivacious woman. We worked together in radio many years ago and then met each other at St Francis in South Windsor. We attended a number of radio reunions and then often ran into each other in South Windsor. I´m so sorry.

Cleta M. Galvez

January 10, 2026

Claudia was kind, a warm personality, and so vivacious! She was a good friend and clearly adored her family. This is such heartbreaking news. I will keep Claudia´s family in my prayers. Cleta Galvez
This is Claudia in our college years...

Joan Scholtz

January 10, 2026

Barry and Family
I´m so sorry to hear of Claudia´s passing.
Sending you all prayers thoughts and hugs
Joan Scholtz

Carol Storey

January 9, 2026

I am shocked and saddened learning of Claudia's passing. So many wonderful memories of lunches together, lengthy phone conversations and so many texts. Lots of giggles, sometimes tears. I will miss her dearly. May her memory forever be a blessing.

Terri RaFalik

January 9, 2026

So sorry to hear about Claudia. I remember Claudia from Notre Dame HS. She was always vivacious, happy and smiling. RIP Sweetie.

Cheryl Crickmore

January 9, 2026

Barry, Eric, Elisha and families i am so very sorry to read about Claudia´s passing. Thoughts an prayers are sent to all.

Dean and Debbie Streeter

January 9, 2026

Dear Barry and Family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you at this sad time.

Dean & Debbie Streeter

Deborah Cavanaugh

January 9, 2026

Dear Barry and family,
So sorry isn´t enough to express how Claudia´s passing effects not only me, but the scores of people she knew and those she touched through her kind spirit. She truly was a ray of sunshine. We are praying for you and Claudia. May God be with you and caress you with strength and peace. Please reach out if you need or want to talk. We´ve both been there.
Much love to you,
Ray and Debbie Cavanaugh (Palmer Rolland)

Sharon Burke

January 9, 2026

Sarah and Christa, I am so very sorry for your loss! I was shocked when Jessica called me this morning to let me know. I always loved your Mom.

Mary Hine

January 9, 2026

Mavourneen Costello

January 9, 2026

Sarah and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mom would always make be laugh as she would sing to me and tell me about your dancing days. You know I always had a soft spot in my heart for your Mom.

Mary Hine

January 8, 2026

Farewell my dear friend. We shared many years of good times, bad times and fun adventures. I will cherish these memories always. I will truly miss you. Now that your spirit has been reunited with your beloved family, may you rest in eternal peace and love.

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