Collette Marie Thomas

Collette Marie Thomas obituary, Shallotte, NC

Collette Marie Thomas

Collette Thomas Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Brunswick Funeral Service - Shallotte on Jun. 9, 2025.
Collette Marie Thomas passed away in her home on June 6, 2025, after valiantly fighting pancreatic cancer for almost five years. Her cancer battle was fought admirably with a determined, positive and graceful spirit. She was truly a warrior who defeated the odds.
Collette was born on February 23, 1952, to the late Anthony Edward and Regina Marie Katona. She was born and raised in Kulpmont, Pennsylvania and was a 1970 graduate of Our Lady of Lourdes High School.
Collette married Thomas Daniel Thomas in 1971 and together they began a family with their two children, Tommy and Shelby. While raising their family in Bloomsburg, Pa, Collette found opportunities to be involved in the community. Family was her main priority, and she always attempted to bring people together to enjoy social gatherings.
Spending time in the kitchen was where her heart was truly at peace. Over the years, she enjoyed cooking classes, cooking shows and reading cookbooks as a hobby. Due to her love of family and cooking, she had the charism of hospitality and always welcomed people into her home to serve them and make them feel special. Collette also had the gift of putting people at ease by her humor and levity. She greatly enjoyed reading, she had an intuitive sense of interior decorating, dominated all games that she played, and was a talented piano player. When not engaged in her hobbies or with family, she worked administrative jobs and was a Real Estate Abstractor at local courthouses. Upon retirement, she and her husband relocated to Calabash, NC.
Most affectionately known as Nana, which was her most cherished title, she was considered to be a kind and loving grandmother, wife, mother and friend. She will be missed immensely by those who knew her and loved her. She will also be remembered for the way she loved her people so very well.
Collette is remembered by her husband of 54 years, Thomas D. Thomas. She leaves behind her son, Thomas D. Thomas Jr., and his wife, Leah, along with their son, Cody, of Ocean Isle Beach, NC. She is also survived by her daughter, Shelby Thomas Kanoy, and her husband, Paul, and their two children, Noah and Maris, of Apex, NC. Her family was her greatest joy, and her love for them was unwavering.
Her legacy will live on in the hearts of those who loved her. We hope that the way she lived her life will serve to inspire those who may be personally affected by cancer or those supporting loved ones going through cancer. Please keep the repose of Collette's soul in your prayers.
Psalm 4:8 "In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety."
"What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others." -Thucydides

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June 28, 2025

Diane posted to the memorial.

June 22, 2025

Shelby Kanoy posted to the memorial.

June 17, 2025

Len & Ruth Bainbridge posted to the memorial.

Diane

June 28, 2025

Collette; you were a beautiful, kind person with a genuine loving demeanor!! We always joked that we were "soul sisters"! I never thought that you would be gone so soon; it´s unbelievable!! I hadn´t seen you since you moved; but we talked on the phone; and I miss your calls so much already!! Soar high and continue to shine your love on your family!! I will miss your beautiful face and voice so much!! I will carry those memories in my heart

Shelby Kanoy

June 22, 2025

Len & Ruth Bainbridge

June 17, 2025

Tom, we were so saddened to hear of Collette's passing and we know she will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Please accept our sincere sympathy. Ruth and I will always remember the good times we shared with her. This world will be a lonelier place without her. Our hearts goes out to you and your family. God bless you all.

Tom Thomas

June 15, 2025

Collette´s life was full of love for her family and friends. She was a beautiful person with a magnetic personality. She was a wonderful lady full of life, beauty, kindness and love. There´s no doubt in my mind that God put us together 54 yrs ago .She was a wonderful wife and best friend along with being a great mother and grandmother. She will certainly be missed but never forgotten.

Cindy (Keyack) Locke

June 12, 2025

Tom, I am so sorry to hear about Collette´s passing. I can only imagine how difficult this must be and my heart goes out to you, Tommy, and Shelby. In her picture, Collette looks as beautiful as she did in high school. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Cindy

Susan kalish

June 11, 2025

My condolences to the whole family Collette was a special beautiful woman. There is a song by Matt Shaw called supermarket flowers and it describes Collette to a T. May your family find peace with all her wonderful memories love, Sue.

Jim Trunzo

June 10, 2025

Tom, so sorry to hear about Collette's passing.

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