Cynthia D. Tellman

Cynthia D. Tellman obituary, Metuchen, NJ

Cynthia D. Tellman

Cynthia Tellman Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Costello-Runyon Funeral Home - Metuchen on Mar. 12, 2025.

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Cynthia D. Tellman, 69, of Whiting, NJ passed away on Tuesday morning, March 11, 2025, at Community Medical Center in Toms River, from complications of lupus. She was surrounded by her loved ones when she passed.
Born in Manila, Philippines, Cynthia was the eldest of four daughters of the late Faustino G. and Eugenia C. Dionisio. She immigrated to the United States with her parents and sisters in 1972 at the age of 17, initially settling in Guam and then in Jersey City, New Jersey. A devoted daughter who epitomized the importance of family, she chose to postpone her nursing studies to enter the workforce to help with the family expenses. In 1976, Cynthia began working at Christ Hospital in
Jersey City where she devoted her career to the well-being and care of others.
A beloved mother, she raised her three sons, Jason, Randy and RJ, in Edison and then Metuchen, NJ where she resided for many years. In 2009, she married her best friend and the love of her life, Kenneth Tellman. They later retired to Whiting, NJ with their fur-baby, Tyler. Together, they enjoyed traveling, vacationing most recently in France, Rome, the Italian Countryside and Sweden.
Cynthia loved her family fiercely, often hosting for the holidays. She and her three sisters shared an inseparable bond as best friends and confidants. Cynthia was proudest of her sons, and her grandchildren were her pride and joy. Forever the jokester, she was notorious for pranking her sons, nieces and nephews, always making them laugh, usually at times when silence was definitely more appropriate.
Cynthia's untimely passing will forever leave a void in the hearts of her family and all who knew her. She is survived by her husband, Kenneth of Whiting; her sons and daughters-in-law, Jason & Cheyenne Mojica of New Providence, Randolph & Cielo Mojica of Metuchen and Raymond & Cheslene of Chula Vista, CA; her cherished grandchildren, Charles, Chloe, Ryan, Zoe, Liam, Owen, Russell and Kelsey; her devoted sisters Tess Kint and her husband, Edward of Lopatcong, Clair Bautista and her husband, Rameses of Myrtle Beach, SC and Mila "Miles" Dionisio, also of Lopatcong; her godchildren, Roderick, Frederick, Christian, Catherine and Jordan; as well as many nieces and nephews.
Visitation for Cynthia will be held on Thursday, March 13 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Costello-Runyon Funeral Home, 568 Middlesex Avenue in Metuchen. A Catholic funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, March 14 at 10:15 a.m. at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, located at 548 Main Street in Metuchen. Cremation and inurnment will be held privately at a late date.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in honor of Cynthia Tellman to the Lupus Foundation of America by visiting their website at https://lupus.org

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March 31, 2025

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Raymond J Mojica

March 31, 2025

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Eulogy for Mom

Today, we gather to honor and remember my mother, Cynthia Tellman.

Mom, you were always my greatest believer. No matter how many times I stumbled, you never lost faith in me. You taught me that failure was never the end, only a lesson. You always reminded me that no matter what challenges I faced, I had the strength to rise again. Because of your unwavering support, I learned to believe in myself. I went on to prove not only others wrong but also to prove the strength of my own will, guided by the Lord. I could never have done that without you standing behind me, encouraging me at every step.

I will never forget how you brought laughter even in the saddest of times. Even at funerals, when grief hung heavy in the air, you had a way of making us smile. When the priest would begin to sing with his deep Filipino accent, we all had to fight to keep our laughter in, but not Mom. Her whole body would start shaking, and soon enough, we couldn´t hold it back either. That was Mom, her laughter was contagious, even when we were supposed to be solemn. She had a way of finding joy even in the darkest moments.

From you, Mom, I learned to stay composed, to never give in to anger, and to always look for the positive in every situation. Those lessons shaped the man I am today. Even now, as a sailor, I lead my crew with the same values you instilled in me. Because of that foundation, every single one of the sailors under my command (all 24 of them) has advanced to the next rank. That is your legacy, Mom, living on in the lives you´ve touched through me.

Above all, you taught me love. You showed me what it means to be compassionate, to understand others, and to embrace even those who had a bad reputation or were misunderstood. It was your toughness, your kindness, your faith, and your endless love that made me into the husband, the sailor, the brother, and now the father that I am today. I carry your lessons in my heart, and I strive every day to make you proud.

And Mom, I´ll never forget how you were the first to accept my wife, Cheslene, into our family. You welcomed her with open arms because you knew, just as I did, that she was the one for me. You embraced and loved my two autistic children without a hint of judgment, giving them only pure, unconditional love. You were the greatest Lola to them, the most loving mother to me, and truly the best person any of us could ever ask for.

Thank you, Mom. Thank you for being the greatest mother a son could ever ask for. I love you with all my heart, and I will carry your memory with me always. I know in my heart that one day we will see each other again in Heaven. But until that day, you will live forever in my heart.

Rest in peace, Mom. I love you.

RJ

Mary Targonsky

March 15, 2025

I am so very sorry for the loss of your cherished Cindy. She was a gentle person as a sweet neighbor. Very caring. I will miss her sweet smile. RIP Cindy.

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