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David Coder Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.
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Joseph E Sullivan
October 6, 2023
A nice person who was gone to soon.
Joseph Sullivan
October 6, 2020
David was a guy and a good friend. His business sense was great. I miss him and all of his family.
Agatha Coder
June 3, 2020
Dear and beautiful husband David, I am missing you dearly, today, during Covid 19. I am so grateful for the wonderful home, properties, and legacy you have left behind for us. Although you are no longer here to share in this wonderful family you were instrumental in creating, we all share memories of you frequently and with love. Our daughter Tayler, our son David H.F. and his wife Leah, and your grandchildren David James and Luna Louise have a secure spot in the world due to your foresight and love for us. Thank you for telling our friends and family to keep a close eye on me in your physical absence. They've done a remarkable job of it! I will always love you, husband...and you will forever be in my heart and mind. Love, Gaye (Agatha)
David HF Coder
March 17, 2014
Missing you today, Dad. I wish you could have met David James, and taught him all you know about racing, riding, computers, building, life.
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Jenn Skotnicki
May 29, 2013
David you were an amazing person & deeply missed. I still often think about us all going for our motorcycle rides, breakfast, and the ride on the Busa. I know your family misses you as we'll as your friends.
n Brzezinski
May 29, 2013
We love you
In the beginning...
Agatha Coder
May 28, 2013
Remembering the beauty that was our marriage, our children Tayler and David, and our lives together. Wishing you were here to see your first grandchild David James Coder born in May 2013 to your son David and our daughter in law Leah. I will cherish our family, your memory, and the continuation of the Coder lineage in Marilla, New York.
Jenn & Jim Botzenhart
October 24, 2008
Aggie & Family ~
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of David. Jim and I loved Dave. All the times he would stop into the motorcycle shop and just hang out with us and have a good time. Our breakfeast runs to Kips will always be cherished in our hearts forever! 4th of July watching the fireworks from the shop. Memories that will always live on in our hearts. May God Bless you and your family at this time.
Erin DeFazio (Ryan)
October 22, 2008
Coder Family~
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Carla Camp (Astri)
October 17, 2008
Tayler and Family~
Please know that I am thinking of you. Oh the great memories I have of Mr. Coder and his beautiful home which was like a second home for me a while back. He will truely be missed by all! I love you all! ~Carla
Patricia Burket-Baumgarten
October 14, 2008
Thinking of you at this very sad time in your young life. Remember the good times you all had together, cherish the closeness your family has encountered. Life can be short as you have just experienced. Watch over Mom and take care of each other. Someday you'll be together again.
Tom Glogowski
October 13, 2008
Skip Coder and Family, Sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Tommy G and Char
Jill and Missy
October 13, 2008
Tayler and Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your father. Please find comfort in knowing that he is with the lord. You are in our prayers - God Bless
Janet Chapman,RN
October 13, 2008
It was my honor to know and serve your family at this difficult time. God Bless you with His peace.
Chuck Stulick
October 13, 2008
To Chuck and Skip,
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your brother. I last saw Dave at Southside Buffalo H-D and when he told me his name I nearly fell over. I remember hanging out on Kimberly many years ago.
Robert Wilson
October 13, 2008
Tayler, know that I am thinking about you and your family. I can only imagine that I see some of your father through you. He must have been a wonderful person. I wish I could have met him. Hope to see you in New York soon.
Aunt Betty Jane Anderson
October 13, 2008
My Dearest Niece & great Niece & Nephew,
Today when I got back home from Md. I got the sad news about your loved one, I can't believe that I just couldn't be there to say Good-bye to him.
I'm so sorry for your loss & believe me I know how much love there was between all of you. You've always been a special family to me. We send all our prayers your way,& all our love.
He's in a special place now, the Lord will take care of him now.
All our Love, Aunt Betty Jane & Uncle Bob & ALL OUR Family
Bruce Coder
October 13, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Gay,Tayler,David, Chuck and Skip all of us here in Indiana are thinking of you at this loss of David. Your in our hearts and prays,
Jody Egan
October 13, 2008
Tayler, I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I will keep you in my my thoughts and prayers. May your many memories bring comfort during this difficult time.
Tara Schiller (Schmelzer)
October 13, 2008
Taylor, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time. Know I am thinking of you and praying for your family.
Charmaine Twarozek
October 13, 2008
Dearest Skip:
I am so sorry to hear of your brother's passing. You have my deepest condolences and you are in my thoughts & prayers
Love,
Charmaine
Sally Kolenac
October 12, 2008
Skip:
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Sally Kolenac
Sally Christen
October 12, 2008
My deepest symathy and love to the Coder family. My prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Marjorie Aguilar
October 12, 2008
It is with great sorrow that I extend my deepest sympathy to Agatha, Tayler, and David Jr.
In times of tears, may you remember his laughter.
In times of sadness may you remember his smiles.
In times of loneliness, may you think of all you shared and may it confort you to know you'll have those warm loving memories forever.
I'm so sorry I couldn't be there with you to say goodbye.
He's irreplaceable
Love as Always,
Marjorie, Ynez and Elizabeth
Amber Payne
October 12, 2008
All the memories I have of Mr. Coder are loving. He was just like a father to me. His home and his family are in my thoughts. I want to express my deepest sympathy to Mrs. Coder, My dearest childhood friend Tayler, David Jr. and the rest of the family. I love you all. Amber
David & Agatha @ Trinity's Birthday
October 12, 2008
Melissa Seibert
October 12, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
nancy druelinger
October 12, 2008
You always had a good time at the Coders on Four Road Road. David created a beautiful place for family and friends to enjoy. Through hard work, he transformed the outdoors into a lovely setting filled with fun things to do. I remember the pool, the bonfires, cookouts and backyard parties. It made him happy to watch people enjoying the fruits of his labor. At times, he would shake his head in disbelief at some or our antics. In the winter, when Agatha, the kids and I would careen down the hill on snow tubes in the front yard. Or when we swam in chilly mid-October, to get in the last dip. So, thank you Dave - thank you for making your home such a happy, welcoming place for all of us to enjoy.
Mark & Kathy Knisely
October 12, 2008
We wish to extend our sympathy to you and your family at this difficult time. If you need anything we are always here for you's.
Joe Sullivan
October 12, 2008
Gay and family,
Since I've retired, I think about the people that I miss seeing. The Southside gang always come to mind.
I remember David teaching me how to use a computer and racing around in that midget car with his butt one-half inch off the ground in Lafayette New York.
He will be missed.
God Bless
Joe Sullivan
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