David Michael Deci M.D.

David Michael Deci M.D. obituary, Lewiston, ME

David Michael Deci M.D.

David Deci Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Funeral Alternatives Group - Lewiston on Apr. 28, 2023.

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Date of Death: April 21, 2023
Date of Birth: January 18, 1955
Dr. David Michael Deci, family medicine physician, passed away peacefully at his home in Topsham, Maine, on April 21, 2023, at the age of 68.
David was born on January 18, 1955, in Glen Cove, New York, to David and Rosalie Grella Deci. He grew up in Jensen Beach, Florida, with his brother Paul and sister Ellen.
He attended Florida State University's Program in Medical Sciences (1977), bridging to a doctoral degree in medicine from the University of Florida (1980) where he was inducted into Alpha Omega Alpha Honor Medical Society. He and his wife Diane then moved to Asheville, North Carolina, where he completed his residency in Family Medicine at the Mountain Area Health Education Center, serving as chief resident in 1983.
David worked as a family medicine physician for 42 years, caring for thousands of patients and their families in western North Carolina, the northern Shenandoah Valley in Virginia, West Virginia, and Wisconsin. He provided exceptional care to patients in a variety of settings - at clinic exam tables, hospital bedsides, home living rooms, football field sidelines, and city streets. Throughout, his work has been focused on delivering care to rural communities and caring for those least able to access care. His care earned him the admiration of his patients and colleagues. His handwriting earned him the praise of the nurses!
Throughout his personal life and professional career, he gave his time and energy to organizations and efforts that improved the communities and people around him; he was an Eagle Scout in Jensen Beach, led local and state efforts of the American Cancer Society in Virginia and the mid-Atlantic region, with students and other faculty, developed the Multidisciplinary UnSheltered Homeless Relief Organization of Morgantown (MUSHROOM), and was a seminal member of the Street Medicine Institute and the Society of Teachers of Family Medicine. Dave directed medical services for evacuees relocated to West Virginia during the tragedy of Hurricane Katrina. He was an early champion for HIV/AIDS patient care in Shenandoah County, Virginia.
He received numerous awards for his service to the community, including the Jenco Foundation Award for Visionary Leadership in Appalachia, Communities of Salt and Light Humanitarian Award from the Catholic Diocese of Wheeling-Charleston, and the John H. Renner, MD, "Wisconsin Idea" Award.
David was passionate for medical student education and family medicine resident training. In 2000, David joined the faculty at West Virginia University School of Medicine and Public Health in Morgantown. He later joined the faculty of the University of Wisconsin Department of Family Medicine and Community Health, in 2009. There, with students, he was instrumental in bringing the Family Medicine Interest Group to national recognition. He emphasized throughout his teaching the importance of professionalism, community engagement, and the need to advocate for the dignified care of everyone, whomever and wherever they are. He was a mentor to many students and colleagues, both formally and informally, personally and professionally.
He was recognized many times for his impact on students, medical residents, and medical education, including the American Academy of Family Physicians' Award for Distinguished and Meritorious Service and the Society of Teachers of Family Medicine Master Preceptor Award. He remained engaged in both classroom and clinical teaching of medical students until his retirement in July 2020.
In addition to bringing the tenets of the Gospel to his work as a doctor, David fully participated in his faith; he was a lector and eucharistic minister for several Roman Catholic parishes and a professed Secular Franciscan (SFO).
Subsequent to retirement, Dave volunteered for the Olbrich Botanical Gardens in Madison, Wisconsin, enjoying his lifelong love of plants and gardening.
David is survived by his loving wife Diane Hart Deci; sons Andrew (Abby) Deci of Bath, Maine and Stephen Deci of Morgantown, West Virginia; granddaughter Stella Deci of Bath, Maine; mother, Rosalie Grella Deci of Orlando, Florida; siblings Paul (Peggy) Deci of Orlando, Florida, and Ellen (Bill) Nimmons of Tallahassee, Florida. He is preceded in death by his father, David.
We invite you to remember David by contributing to the following organizations, in lieu of flowers:
The International Street Medicine Institute - http://www.streetmedicine.org
Joyce F. Jeardeau Family Medicine Memorial Scholarship Fund - https://www.fammed.wisc.edu/donate/opportunities/awards-scholarships/
Catholic Charities of West Virginia - Webster Springs Center https://catholiccharitieswv.org/
A graveside ceremony will be held at Oak Grove Cemetery (Section H-West) in Bath, Maine on May 23, 2023 at 10:30 am. A celebratory luncheon will follow (12:00pm) at the Maine Maritime Museum.
All are welcome to attend and share their memories! Questions may be directed to Andrew.

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April 22, 2024

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Stephen

April 22, 2024

Just last week, I was speaking to a group of first-year medical students in an auditorium, in a room that Dave and I collaborated on presentations in previously, and remembered so fondly his engagement with the students. Dave was always so earnest and focused on equity. In a building that espouses the importance of values, but struggles to teach value formation, Dave spoke with a moral clarity. He emphasized who was without a voice and absent in all of his discussion about how we care for others. A year out from his passing (and a year and a half away from teaching with him) I still think about the force of his convictions fondly. I miss Dave.

Brenda del Moral

May 9, 2023

Dear Diane,

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your caring and wonderful David. Oy, what a loss indeed! He was so refreshing as a medical professor and I've heard stories from his students how talented and caring he was. He was such a great person and I'm so terribly sorry for you and your family. I will be making a donation in David's memory to Madison Street Medicine. I have been keeping you in the my thoughts and I will for the time to come.

Brenda del Moral

Ellen Foley

May 2, 2023

Dear Diane, I was sorry to hear of your family's loss of David. You were an angel at Edgewood and I hope your grief eases with your many great memories with your husband. Best, Ellen Foley

John Prescott

April 30, 2023

Dear Diane and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of David's passing. I learned so much from him during the years we were together at WVU. He was a kind, thoughtful, caring physician who could always be counted on to do the right thing. He was a wonderful teacher and mentor - an individual you would point out to medical students and say, "Dr. Deci is the physician your should strive to be."
A man of faith, who loved his family and his community, David will be missed by everyone who had a chance to know him. I will keep him, and all of you, in my prayers.

P Richard Olson

April 30, 2023

Dr. Deci was an exceptional chief resident and a credit to MAHEC and his family. I am deeply sorry to hear of his passing. Family Medicine has lost a true healer.
Dick Olson MD

Regina Cooper

April 29, 2023

Diane and family, I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Deci. He was a wonderful physician and a great person to work with. The doctors, nurses and staff from Family Medicine of Morgantown, and the retired doctors, nurses and staff will continue to have wonderful memories of Dr. Deci for years to come. I'm praying for peace, comfort and rest for you and your family.

Huining Ouyang

April 28, 2023

O Diane, you who have taught me everything I know about Blackboard,

I was deeply saddened by your terrible loss but amazed at David's tremendous lifetime achievements and his compassionate, selfless service to the underserved communities.

May he rest in eternal peace, and may you find comfort and peace among friends and family.

My sincere condolences!

Huining

Carla Pool

April 28, 2023

Diane, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara G Gallogly

April 28, 2023

Diane, We are shocked and saddened to learn of David's passing. Please know you are in our prayers. What an accomplished life he had.
Sincerely, Barb Gallogly and Stuart Turner

Julie Hudziak

April 28, 2023

Diane I was so sorry to hear about David's passing. I remember the last time I saw you and David at Olbrich Gardens at a members only event. You were greeting people at the door and David was checking for tickets to the show. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Nedrow

April 28, 2023

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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