David E. Mates

David Edward Mates, age 79, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, March 20, 2025, just days after the heartbreaking loss of his beloved wife of 57 years, Judy. David was born on July 26, 1945, in Chicago, Illinois, to Edward and Virginia (Zalewski) Mates. On November 25, 1967, he married the love of his life, Judy, beginning a marriage filled with love, laughter, and devotion. Together, they shared 57 beautiful years - a partnership filled with unwavering support, joy, and mutual admiration. Dave often joked that he was "spoiled rotten" by Judy, and those who knew them saw firsthand the deep bond they shared. A proud Captain in the United States Marine Corps, Dave carried his sense of duty, discipline, and pride throughout his life. Professionally, he served as a Certified Public Accountant for The Miami Corporation for 36 years, faithfully committing to a grueling four-hour daily commute - a testament to his dedication and strong work ethic. Upon retirement, Dave and Judy enjoyed 15 well-deserved years of adventure and togetherness, traveling the world and embracing life's simple pleasures. Dave was also deeply dedicated to the Western English Setter Club and the English Setter Association of America, proudly serving and supporting the organization for nearly 50 years. His passion for the breed and the camaraderie of the club brought him great joy and lifelong friendships. Although he was the proud father of daughters, Suzanne Day & Heather Harley, he was truly delighted to be "Papa" to three grandsons, Evan Day, Nick Day and James Harley, who brought endless pride and happiness to his life. He cherished cheering on Evan and Nick on at football games, loudly analyzing plays from the sidelines, and celebrating not just their victories, but also the friendships and memories they created. Dave is survived by his loving siblings: Tom Mates (Cindy), Terese Jackowski (Ralph), and Valerie Bava (Mike), as well as many extended family members and friends who will miss his humor, strength, and warm spirit. Visitation will be held on Sunday, March 30, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. at Colonial Funeral Home, 591 Ridgeview Drive, McHenry, IL.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, March 31, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Mary Catholic Church, 1401 N. Richmond Road, McHenry, IL. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in David's honor to the Wounded Warrior Project, a cause close to his heart. www.woundedwarriorproject.org To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of David, please visit our floral store.