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David Mathew "Dave" Miletich

David Mathew "Dave" Miletich obituary, Vancouver, WA

David Miletich Obituary


DAVID MATHEW MILETICH
October 22, 1957 ˜ November 1, 2023

David Mathew Miletich, 66, beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and uncle, unexpectedly died in his sleep Nov. 1, 2023, at his Vancouver, WA, home while battling complications of the COVID virus.
Known to most everyone as Dave, he was revered in his professional life for making communities better through his tireless work on behalf of parks and recreation.
At the time of his death, Dave was the director of Parks and Recreation for the City of Hillsboro, OR, where coworkers remembered him for his “friendly personality and kindness, his laugh and smile, and his desire to do good.”
Dave was born Oct. 22, 1957, in Pasco, WA, the second child of Mathew and Arlene Miletich. In the late 1950s, the family moved to Bellevue, where Dave grew up with his brother, Steve, and sister, Karen. The trio joined dozens of kids in the Lake Hills neighborhood which was still surrounded by farmland. Dave honed his love for sports and recreation with countless neighborhood games and adventures. He developed a passion for basketball, baseball, and soccer in youth sports leagues and at Tillicum Junior High and Sammamish High School.
After graduating from the University of Oregon, Dave began his career in parks and recreation first with the City of Redmond and later with Longview and Vancouver, WA, and then with Clackamas and Hillsboro, OR.
Dave spent 17 years with the City of Vancouver, leading the planning and development of the Firstenburg Community Center _ a state of the art fitness and recreation complex.
The last 11 years of his career were spent leading the parks and recreation program for the City of Hillsboro, OR. A key accomplishment was the Hidden Creek Community Center which includes an accessible park and playground for people of all abilities.
In keeping with his strong belief in supporting under-served communities, Dave forged close ties with multinational cultural hub M&M Marketplace _ a complex of more than 80 small businesses looking to meet the needs of the community.
It was early in his career while working in Redmond that Dave met his future wife, Jane, who became the love of his life. The couple raised three boys, Brady, Colin, and Erik. Dave was the boys’ first coach when they were very young _ which included both an undefeated team and winless team _ but all players under his tutelage had fun and had an opportunity to play.
Dave went from coach to spectator as the boys grew, always careful to encourage but not pressure. He enjoyed all kinds of outdoor adventures with each of his sons _ climbing mountains, hiking in national parks, and visiting baseball spring training. A huge fan of the Seattle Mariners and Oregon Ducks, he had a friendly rivalry with his WSU Cougar bride and UW Husky brother and sister. Dave prided himself on being a master of the bar-b-que which came in handy at tailgates.
Dave deeply valued his faith, family, and his Norwegian and Croatian heritage. He was an active member of Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in Vancouver, and provided great assistance to his mother in the final years of her life. She died in January 2023.
Dave’s family was the most important thing in his life. He loved being a grandfather. He and Jane took great joy in seeing their sons married and thriving in the Vancouver area, spending many vacations and special occasions with Brady, his wife, Kati and their children, Marcus and Luci; Colin and wife, Marta; and Erik and wife, Tori.
Dave leaves behind an extended family of siblings, cousins and in-laws who miss him deeply but will cherish memories of the time they had together.
A memorial service will be held at Memorial Lutheran Church in Vancouver at 3 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 17, 2023, with reception to follow.
The City of Hillsboro will also be hosting a celebration of life at M & M Market from 4-6 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 18, 2023.
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Published by The Columbian on Nov. 11, 2023.

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John Chadwick

November 3, 2024

Nice growing up with you

Marilyn

December 20, 2023

Such a wonderful, upbeat colleague! He will be sorely missed!

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Theresa Cross

November 18, 2023

My sincerest condolences to Dave's family and friends. May his memory be a blessing and the pain of his loss softened in time by happy memories of his vibrant life and many contributions to the community.
Dave and I worked together several years ago when the City of Vancouver was contemplating a no-tobacco use ordinance on city park properties. I admired his interactions with fellow colleagues and citizens. This was an important issue to him. He felt that our parks were places for recreation and health where everyone should have clean air to breathe, no matter the amount the money a private event planner spent to rent park space. The ordinance was eventually adopted, and we can thank Dave for this and many other efforts to make our parks the beautiful places they are today.

Kelly Lund

November 17, 2023

Dave was always a cheerleader for me. Soon after I heard of his passing, I found an email he sent to our department in 2006 during the holiday season. He was reminding us of our ability to shine bright amongst challenges that come our way. I enjoy working with his son Erik who is a shining example of his dad and who will carry on his torch in recreation. God bless your family.

Rian Petrick

November 16, 2023

I was so saddened to hear of Dave's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed my interactions and work with Dave. He was thoughtful, kind and persistent in his work to help others. My condolences to his personal family and his parks and recreation family. Dave - you will be missed my friend.

Steve Plampin

November 15, 2023

I too owe a lot of my recreation career to Dave as he approved my internship with Longview p&r back in June of 1989. After that he hired me part time and eventually hired me full time and I am still here! Dave was a really great guy and was a great boss. Thoughts and prayers to his family.

Jana K Wilson

November 13, 2023

Dave Miletich was one of my most favorite people. I adored him. I give him all the credit for my career in Recreation. He gave me a chance in 1993, and I will forever be grateful to him. He was the kindest, most thoughtful, and humorous man and did all the right things, said all the right things and did life right. He loved his family so much. This photo is from Halloween at the Luepke Senior Center in 1994. He was a big supporter of community events. He will be missed. Dave was the kind of man you will never forget. My heart goes out to his amazing family. Much love to you all.

Amanda Thompson

November 13, 2023

Dave was everything people say - welcoming, kindhearted, respectful no matter who you are or where you come from. His smile could light up a room and he knew what truly was important in this life. I will never forget the first Halloween at work with him...walking around to each facility with a scary mask on yet he would never say a word he would just look at you. Even though you knew it was him, you really knew in your core it was him, he would send shivers down your spine by never uttering a word while in costume. His memory and legacy will live on and I am so thankful that I had the honor to work with him for many years here at Vancouver Parks and Recreation. Here's to an amazing gentleman!

Carol English-Hawley

November 13, 2023

Dave was a great mentor and an all around good guy! We had many conversations on sports and the kids. We continued to have our "friendly" Duck/Husky rivalry even after he left the City of Vancouver. It was such a shock at his sudden passing, sending my most heartfelt sympathy to his family.

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Brian J. Cantwell

November 12, 2023

As a lifelong friend of Dave's brother, Steve, I reconnected with Dave this past summer at an idyllic gathering that included all his family at a special retreat on Puget Sound. It was such a pleasure getting to know Dave better and sharing stories about our times and shared acquaintances in Vancouver over the years. He was so full of life, energy, and obvious love for his family. His brother thought of Dave as the "Master of Ceremonies" for the role he took in the Miletich family. I felt so lucky to make a new friend in Dave, and I'm deeply saddened at his sudden loss, especially for the family that loved him so much.

Lisa Goorjian Duh

November 12, 2023

Dave made you feel like you mattered. He had the most welcoming personality and easy smile. He would remember something that you and he shared, an experience, a like, whatever it was, and he made it special that you and he shared it, so you felt you had a secret inside joke that always connected you. Dave was an amazing mentor and friend. He was the first male colleague I had who normalized putting your family first. And in his many leadership roles, he set the example of acknowledging that different people´s work could look different but be equally important and that it was the people who came first.

Marsha Hopstad Ware

November 11, 2023

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Kim Cederholm

November 10, 2023

To me Dave was the best boss I´ve ever had. He treated everyone with respect. When Dave entered a room, he always acknowledged you first. He would ask, how´s the family? Or how was your weekend? He would always bring that personal touch before diving into work. He would often join us for an occasional floor hockey game during our lunch breaks and his competitive spirit didn´t end with just his career. He loved his boys and was so proud of them. Rest in peace our fearless leader.

Keith Walther

November 9, 2023

In one of my first months at Parks and Rec in Vancouver, we had just opened FCC and we were doing our first teen late night program. There were over 500 teens running around our brand new facility, and we were trying out best to make sure everyone was behaving well. I looked up and my bosses boss Dave walked thru the front doors. I can only say that I immediately looked around and saw kids everywhere and thought to myself...well, I had a great run LOL. Dave said in his cheery voice and a wide smile..."well look at all the amazing kids having a great time!" He was all smiles. It was what the building was built for, serving the community he said to me. We walked around and laughed and he was so happy. It was the start of an amazing friendship. He was also so encouraging to me in my time at the city, and was such an amazing role model. I looked up to him as a mentor and a friend. He was an amazing human, and I am beyond honored to work with him for many years. He blessed everyone around him and I'm a better person knowing him.

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