David Jay Selman

David Jay Selman obituary, Arlington Heights, IL

David Jay Selman

David Selman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 26, 2025.
David "Dave" Jay Selman, 83, passed away peacefully at home on August 18, 2025. Born in Geneva, he was the son of the late Gilbert and Veronica (Campbell) Selman and graduated from Arlington Heights High School and DePauw University. He is survived by his sister Judith Selman Zawojewski, children Jenny (Mike) Drecoll and Mike (Janice) Selman, and grandchildren Carter and Haley Selman. He was preceded in death by his sister Victoria Selman. He will also be missed by his nieces, nephews, and cousins across many generations. A private memorial will be held. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Clearbrook.org.

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