David Michael Stoner

David Michael Stoner obituary, Litchfield, CT

David Michael Stoner

David Stoner Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Thurston Rowe Funeral Home on Dec. 24, 2025.
David Michael Stoner, 35-year resident of Litchfield, died November 30, 2025, at his home following a heart attack. He was born in Pasadena, California.

Mr. Stoner graduated from Stanford University School of Engineering and earned an MBA from Pepperdine University. He was a member of Theta Chi Fraternity. He served as a pilot in the United States Air Force from 1963 to 1972. During the Vietnam War, he was a F-4 fighter pilot who flew night combat missions from May

1968 to January 1969, earning multiple honors including Distinguished Flying Cross and the Bronze Star. He was honorably discharged in 1972.

Following his military service, Mr. Stoner built a career in the software industry, where he was instrumental in creating companies that developed manufacturing software.

He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Diane Stoner; his son & his wife, Michael & Ann of Menlo Park, California; and three grandchildren, Jacqueline, Julia and Nick.

Services will be private.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions In Memory of David Stoner may be made to the White Memorial Conservation Center, P.O. Box 368, Litchfield, CT 06759 or online via https://whitememorialcc.org/

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283 Torrington Road P.O. Box 486, Litchfield, CT 06759

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